I love him so much and we have discussed marriage and i am still to young to get married but my mom said she would still pay for college if i got married after high school. So i know i am definitely going to college.. but should i get married right away? what do you think? i am truely in love with him!!!
2006-10-19 03:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Breanna W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this about anyone that talks the way you do. if you're SO happy with him then why do you want to get married so badly?what I'm trying to say is that getting married doesn't change anything at all, like of your feelings towards each other.it's not like getting married is going to make you love him more. when u get married you see less of each other because when you move in together you have to work to keep your place( money, need jobs) on top of that if you get married after high school, then you're gonna be in college and that's not fair to either one of you. being in college you need to explore yourself, find out who you truely are, party, get involved with college activities,make new friends. I know you're saying to yourself that no one could replace him in your heart but you two aren't thinking rashionally.even if you two will be in love forever, getting married so young doesn't make sense. to me it seems like you getting married means you won him or something, that he is yours and no one can take him away from you,which isn't true, especially if you're young and going to college. no one should have to settle down if they're going to college,after college is a different story. there's a ton of things you need to concider b-4 you get married. like money issues,if you want children and how you want to raise them, you need to have great communication skills.tons of stuff. you're too young to handle all that responsibility. to go to school you can't put a whole lot of effort into a marriage anyway. the first year of marriage is the hardest.
I hope you wise up and figure out that life isn't as easy as you see it.
2006-10-19 03:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait and see how it goes later if your young. I'm young too and I thought I was in love and I couldn't see me being with anyone else in the world but it turned out I wasn't as in love as i thought I was cause after a while our love faded. Just wait till after college, I think, to see.
2006-10-19 10:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cilla_88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still too young, peoples minds change a lot during college and even after college, wait until after college, what if you got pregnant or something happened that you were unable to attend?
2006-10-19 10:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should wait till after college. Believe me you will not be the same person that you are now
2006-10-19 10:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u should not marry him right now.... u will not be able to cope with having to take care of ur studies n ur marriage... go to college first, complete ur studies then plan to settle down... it's not as easy as u think honey... u can't survive on just love..
2006-10-19 10:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me and my ex were gonna get married our junior year of college.then i did some bad things,i say play it by ear,dont plan on doin it,you'll know when the time is right
2006-10-19 10:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by baseball_saenz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait! if its real love it will sustain. go to college and then get married.
2006-10-19 10:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by nomorepblm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love the guy get married when ur good and ready to if ur ready to get married now then get married
2006-10-19 10:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its something that you feel is right do it but just dont rush it. You might regret it. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-19 10:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should finish your education, if it is real love, it will wait.
2006-10-19 10:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋