Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

I don't love him anymore he is very controlling and I can't seem to do anything right for him no matter what I do. Here's the thing. I met this guy and have been talking to him on the phone only. Never met him in person. When I talk to this guy he understands everything I am going through and helps me in everyway he can. I never could talk to my husband the way I talk to him it seems weird to me. so my question is am I wrong for talking to him all the time or is it maybe fate that we met eachother? I tell him everything I don't have to lie about anything. he knows the whole truth about what is going on with me and he still talks to me every day. I am actully happy I have him right now is this bad or not I can't figure it out please help me

2006-10-19 02:53:20 · 20 answers · asked by lspalletta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Such as looks, job, etc.

If you are married, is he/she exactly what you pictured he/she will be?

2006-10-19 02:53:15 · 7 answers · asked by jazzy_chica85 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to this school right, and it's very rare to see a white person (afrikaans speaking) talking to a black person.What happens when you start to fall for a white dude,who doesn't seem to intend on making the first move?Will it work flirting with him or just tell him how you feel? Please give me some tips on this!!!!!!!

2006-10-19 02:53:13 · 2 answers · asked by portugal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 02:52:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can i delete my messenger and email id?if yes than how?
i am really very much in need of help.please say in brief.

sorry for the wrong catagory,i posted here because much peoples visits thins catagory.thanx.please don't report.

2006-10-19 02:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 02:51:03 · 5 answers · asked by sassy_fun_devoted 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i see him every day maybe to much how do i stop that from happen

2006-10-19 02:49:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it me or is a gentleman a rare thing these days, i ask because i've been told i am one (if i sound vain or big headed i apologise) and from what i see most people they days expect women to be at home and do the cleaning and cooking or the guys simply aren't romantic. Is a gentleman rare these days?
I would do all the cooking for my gf, the cleaning, buying things for her, taking her out, i believe that the money she earns is hers to spend on herself and i would take care of the house work, thats just the way i am.

2006-10-19 02:47:45 · 39 answers · asked by Chappers 3 in Singles & Dating

Back in the 90's I met a wonderful guy. Unfortunately I was engaged to be married within months. Anyway, we kept in contact, and then recently when I went back to reading his letters I realized that he had mentioned that he loved me and didn't want to offend me. But he would still sign love your best friend *** I love you. He also mentioned that when he was in the hospital I was all that he could think of. Anyway more details, but 2 make it short I am separated due to domestic violence and I started reading his mails and i realize i was getting butterflies and I went to search on internet found him. Well he came to my state to visit and after all these yrs we made love. It was wonderful but we are in different states so now what? did we ruin our 15 yr platonic friendship? we speak often and he always assures me that he loves me inspite of the distant thing. i love him too. we are adults by the way. what are we doing? yes he's in a relationship, she found love letters to me a few yrs ba

2006-10-19 02:47:23 · 11 answers · asked by nomorepblm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do it quite often. I especially like it when some sanctimonious, self righteous bigot calls me a loser (or even better, if they write looser) and the answers from what are obviously Americans really make me laugh my pants off.

I wonder how many times I will be called a loser or a schmuck for posting this question. And I wonder what response I will get. My last question got 48 in 7 minutes. I reckon I should get extra points for that!

2006-10-19 02:46:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The giver is a lady I have known for just one year. For this past year, I have been overly generous towards her and her family. With my time, money, efforts, you name it. I recently gave her children expensive and thoughtful gifts, straight from the heart. She gave my child an outfit that clearly was given to her child 2 years ago. She lied to me about where she got it. When I finally figured out where she bought it from and tried to return it, I was told I could get a credit for only $2!! Its not like she couldn't afford it. They are quite well off. I just feel bad, because my generosity was wasted on them. I really didn't expect such cheapness from her. The outfit is too small for my child, but it would fit her child just fine. Is it ok for me to return it to her at this point? (My child's birthday was 2 weeks ago.) What would you do?

2006-10-19 02:46:30 · 14 answers · asked by dijfojri 2 in Friends

ok i have been going out with my bf for almost a year but i met this guy about a month ago and i fell in love with him and he told me that he loved me what do i do because i love the new guy more than my bf but i dont want to leave my bf what do i do

2006-10-19 02:44:52 · 29 answers · asked by Stephanie R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you loved someone honestly and she said she loves you too, after some months she asks you to be friends only and doesn't give you any good reason for it

2006-10-19 02:44:41 · 22 answers · asked by DTA 1 in Singles & Dating

Part 1) Ladies, if your boyfriend had an ex-fiance (who is now married with 2 kids and one more on the way) from 6 years ago, and all of a sudden they started being friends again (and the ex shows OBVIOUS signs of still being in love with YOUR boyfriend), would you be comfortable with them being friends??

Part 2) If said ex-fiance still maintained a strong relationship (i.e. calling and checking up, coming over for dinner, coming over to chat, etc…) with your boyfriend's family (i.e. parents and siblings) would you be comfortable with that ex being apart of the family??

Part 3) Would you feel that this ex is standing in the way of you and your boyfriend having a future together??

P.S. The boyfriend wants NOTHING to do with his ex, and is trying to get away from her, but his family is making this impossible.

2006-10-19 02:44:41 · 14 answers · asked by Figuring things out... 2 in Singles & Dating

...to talk to the police later" so i called her was like WTS? did i do? and she said that I keyed her car last night and she was gonna tell herparents and they called the cops!! Im not worried about the cops part cause I really didn't do it, plus i was working all night and I have people to vouche for that, plus a time card, but how do I prove to her and her family that I wouldn't do anything like that even though she broke my heart????I still wanna be her friend and her families friend...

2006-10-19 02:44:31 · 9 answers · asked by DefLeppardxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 02:43:53 · 15 answers · asked by deathly_eyes 1 in Friends

It's a known fact that girls shave their legs when they know there is a chance of sex.

But, if it is a surprise make-out moment, guys - do you mind a little bit of stubble (like one or two days)?

2006-10-19 02:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

MY DAUGHTERS FATHER IS LOOKING FOR HIS FATHER WE HAVE VERY LITTLE INFO ON THEM HIS MOTHER DIED WHEN HE WAS ADOUT 8 YRS OLD 23 YRS OR SO AGO.WE WOULD LIKE TO FIND OUT WHERE SHE IS BURIED AT AND IF SHE HAS ANY FAMILY STILL LIVING .DOES ANY ONE WHERE I SHOULD START.ANY SUGGESTS THANK EVERY ONE FROM NOW

2006-10-19 02:43:06 · 4 answers · asked by Kenya B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently living with my boyfriend in his country on the other side of the world from all my family who i left to be with him, ive left him a few times to go to my family, but this time my family really need me and hes tellin me if i leave, its over....forever...and if I dont go to my family,,,,i lose their trust for me and $2000 from the ticket back,,,,,,,HELP

2006-10-19 02:43:05 · 23 answers · asked by elenaki_5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw one girl get 55 answers! Damn!
Now I am fabricating a super question using my combined knowlege of people out here... I think it will have something to do with Jesus and sex, those are the most fruitful topics.

2006-10-19 02:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After 25 years of marriage she had a long distance affair, spent less than 28 days in person with this guy before they got married less than a month after the divorce was final and less than 9 months after first starting this reationship. In addition, she moved 2500 miles to be with him leaving her teenaged daughters, job and friends behind. Will this work?

2006-10-19 02:42:13 · 12 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Either FMF or MMF?? How did it go?? Or has it been just fantasy?? I am very open to one, my wife not soo much.

2006-10-19 02:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend just broke up with me. He told me alot of mean things like he was only with me cause he couldn't find anyone else. He called me a b**ch and he said he don't love me anymore. He put me out and now i'm staying with my mom. I know i should be very upset with him and i should hate him right now for that but i can't. Ever since i've just been crying and feeling bad. What should i do to get over him.

2006-10-19 02:41:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you evaluate your relationship before getting married?

2006-10-19 02:40:41 · 1 answers · asked by pegasis 5 in Friends

And he wants it everyday and wears me out completely. Is he allowed to do that?

2006-10-19 02:39:27 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my man has been working in another city all week. I want him to know how much I really missed him, the old fashion way, (other than sex, thats a given) doing something real spiecal that will make him not want to leave for the week again. Any ideas???

2006-10-19 02:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by Rock n Robin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 02:39:02 · 2 answers · asked by dawnlynn72 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok im getting married in 3 days and i know i should be overjoyed but yesturday he started some strange behavior. Ok he likes being very rough while we're playing and haas always like hit me and we will hit each other back then have rough play but yest. he seemed serious. We weren't fighting or anything and all of a sudden he hitme really hard and when i hit him back he said dont hit me back either then started laughing but i did hit him bak and this time it was harder and then he held my arms down and got on top of me and started biting me. he was laughin and everything but do u think he was serious or just really rough play. I eventually got to hit him back but then he got an attitude. I have bruises ande everything

2006-10-19 02:38:44 · 13 answers · asked by I know these things 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know im abit annoying but I've written so many
and I WOULD LIKE 2 KNOW SOME OF ur oppinins?
................
My feelings for you is a feeling that cannot be described said or told
and theres nothing wrong about it.

I dream of you everymorning,everynight and everyday
and theres nothing wrong about it

I see myself having you'r child
I see myself being your wife
and I see my whole future in your eyes
and theres nothing wrong about it.

BUT not to feel for you
or dream of you
and not see myself with you
theres really something wrong about it!

2006-10-19 02:38:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't drive drunk it not safe. But some people continue to ignore the out come. I have seen and heard real-life tragedy of drank drive some people bones were brokeing some cars were total what or some people thinking ?if you drive fast and your trying to turn a curve you no the out come. if you take drug you no the out come you see what it does to other people every day.some people should learn from what happen to other, but I guess they just dont care. if you go out party please take a friend with you a person who does not drink or take drug there will be lest death and injury. I just want people to take life seriously safe.your here today and gone tomorrowI just care about you all when I watch program of car accident or some one love one dieing from a drug overdose It hurt me to see what people have to go though Like I said I guess some people just dont care who they hurt.

2006-10-19 02:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships