ok i have been going out with my bf for almost a year but i met this guy about a month ago and i fell in love with him and he told me that he loved me what do i do because i love the new guy more than my bf but i dont want to leave my bf what do i do
2006-10-19 02:44:52 · 29 answers · asked by Stephanie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should leave both for a while and figure out what you want. You can't have both and you really need to figure out what you want.
2006-10-19 02:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle118 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with the new guy then why don't you want to leave your current boyfriend? I never understand why people do this. Tell the other person it is not working out. It's hurts sometimes but people move on. Tell the old BF goodbye the longer you wait the more difficult it will be.
2006-10-19 09:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,I wanna say...you seemed so unique individual to have feel that kind of feeling.Good for you that your bf for one year is now being blinded by the whole situation,if he's aware of it,what do you think would he feel about it.I would answer your question with another question,and it states this way;If it's your bf throwing the same question and you're to answer his question,honestly ,what would be your answer?Knowing all about it,what will you advise him?If I were to answer this,I would simply tell you to weigh things out first,try to be wise and diligent.Make some comparative analysis.Remember these;
1) Don't do unto others what you don't like others to do unto you. 2) You can't serve two masters at the same time..
So,If I were you,I would choose and settle with someone that I could not live with out,and i would not choose the person that i could just live with..My dear,you can't have both.That's already selfishness.You need to choose now,whether your bf or the other guy.
2006-10-19 10:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to leave your bf if you dont love him like the other guy. It is not fair to him. Think of it this way. How would you feel if he loved someone else more than you. Would you want him to stay with you knowing that he wanted to be with her? I always try to put myself in the other persons shoes and that usually helps me figure things out.
2006-10-19 09:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by determined26a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for yours. dont stay with a bf because of a year quota. now you said you guys just met and you love each other? hmm could this be a soulmate thing. dont have sex yet. if you are not feeling your boyfriend than let him go. it's not fair to you or him. i have learned that in love follow your heart as long as their is respect there. i mean dont love someone who treats you like shitt. but this sounds real. (smile)
2006-10-19 09:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by nomorepblm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just want to ask you that why are u with him for a year if you dont like him. It is kind of cheating. if you really like the new guy go and tell your BF. plz dnt get upset but think about the good days you had with your BF. maybe there is something that you dnt like in your BF,Why dnt u tell him?
2006-10-19 09:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jawad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your bf maybe he isn't feeling you much anymore. Tell him you need time to think. Say I need some space to clear my mind. Maybe he will agree. Make a list of your benefits from each of them. The truth is you must break one of the twos hearts.
2006-10-19 09:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart is for the new guy, break off with the other one. Don't lead him into thinking that your are totally with him if your heart is elsewhere. It will hurt, probably, but he'll get over it and move on. At least you will not be deceiving him or playing with his emotion.
2006-10-19 09:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by doc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it only means you dont love your bf...well go for the new guy...coz you will not be happy whenever your in your bf arms ....when your mind and heart is in the other guy.... while you have the opportunity to choose... do it ...
2006-10-19 09:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by ely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dint have as much feelings for the bf that you have now and you know you're meant to be with this person and he feels the same about you then go out with that person you always got to listen to your heart
2006-10-19 09:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by brittany r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋