My boyfriend just broke up with me. He told me alot of mean things like he was only with me cause he couldn't find anyone else. He called me a b**ch and he said he don't love me anymore. He put me out and now i'm staying with my mom. I know i should be very upset with him and i should hate him right now for that but i can't. Ever since i've just been crying and feeling bad. What should i do to get over him.
2006-10-19 02:41:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just focus on yourself right now, not him! You deserve better than a guy who would treat you that way, everybody does. Whatever happens, don't go back with him, he's shown his true colors and they're not pretty. You on the other hand can take this as an opportunity to better the person you already are. Do somethings that will make you feel better, re-focus on YOUR life, where are you going, what do you want from your life, what kind of person do you want to end up with. The Bible says a man must leave his mother and stick to his wife, of course this goes boh ways, so remember, the person you wind up with is the person your stuck with, you don't want to be stuck with a guy like that do you?
2006-10-19 02:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what a bastard he was. He made this breakup all about you. It's not all about you--relationships are two people. He's mean and nasty and not taking a look at his own flaws. It's easier to blame you. Now, you need to ask yourself why you stayed for such a lout in the first place. Be glad that you are now free! Your break-up was your emmancipation, not get on with living and be alone for a while, develop your own strengths so you don't end up with another creep.
2006-10-19 09:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need a man to make and keep you happy and why should you feel bad. He does nt deserve you and to disrespect you in the same instance irrespective of what happened just proves once again that : your man aint a man he s a woes.
You ll find someone else soon enough and you will get through this.
2006-10-19 09:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
F#$k Him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had a boyfriend that was just like that. You know what to tell you the truth, today I still sit and wonder how could I let him break me down, feel bad about myself! Go party , social as much as you can, have fun!!!!!! Cry when your sad, treat yourself! Remember somebody that have the guts to break somebody down like he did to you, he doesn't even love/ respect himself. Remember, what will be will be. Go your own way, be yourself, live your live the fullest. Next time you see a nice gay, check if he is on the same level as your x and if is run like hell!!!!! There's always two sides of a story, if your side is clean,its clean. If its not, take it as a lesson, next time keep it real!
Look after yourself.
2006-10-19 10:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over this bad feeling soon because once you start to get stronger, he might want you back and if you are weak you will go back with him and start this whole mess over and over again until finally, you are done once and for all. Don't wait until you are torn to the point of no return. Find a replacement...and realize that he never deserved you!
2006-10-19 09:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,I think it's normal that you feel a little upset and feel the things you're feeling.Ä°t's hard to break up with someone you were with .And it's hard to let it go also.The time is your medicine.Ä°f you're thinking that you did the right thing,that you should allow yourself to suffer a little.Don't worry,things will get back to normal in a few weeks.I wish you the best :-)
2006-10-19 09:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with people who are actually worth your time and who actually care about you. This man does not, and the sooner you start to love yourself more, and realize that is no way you deserve to ever be treated like that. He's a jerk, just move on!!!
2006-10-19 09:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, stop feeling so bad! obviously he didn't deserve you! Go out with the girls live up being single and then when you ready and the last thing that comes to mind is that jerk that didn't deserve your time of day find yourself someone who does deserve you!
2006-10-19 09:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry
that he did that 2 you
guys like that honey dont deserve a girl like you
so just keep ur head high and smile
2006-10-19 09:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have any contact and move on. You shouldn't be treated that way. Surround yourself with hobbies and friends.
2006-10-19 09:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋