I've been used for sex by alot of guys in the past (black guys in particular) I'm not a girl who acts like a ho, I'm respectable, my friends say I'm classily sexy, so why do guys see me as short-term and not long-term? I'm 22 and haven't had a serious relationship to date, so what makes a girl long-term/short-term?
2006-10-19 03:11:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not easy, these guys wait months, when they hit, they run and I know I'm good in bed, also, a guy will try it on, we date a few times, when I say no, he stops calling me
2006-10-19 03:23:05 · update #1
I'd say a girl sat under a red light should be treated as short term in the long run...
2006-10-19 03:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by mark leshark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this worry you. You are obviously a very nice girl who also has a very healthy sexual appetite and you probably give a guy everything he wants.
The trick for a long term relationship is not to let sex come into the picture at all for the first three dates.
Also make sure the guy can hold a conversation and has some depth. Guys are by nature 'shallow'. We see girls as sexual objects but also long for a girl who is the full package and has that wonderful way about her beyond sex.
Just be yourself and focus on activities that are healthy and 'good' and the right guy will come along.
Exercise, read a lot, do community projects and have a sense of humour and all things will come your way! Good luck sunshine!
2006-10-19 03:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
proabably because you don't offer anything of substance like good conversation or good advice or just a deeper personal level of yourself. There is probably not much to you that would make a guy would wanna stick around. how do you benifit a relationship? try letting guys know a little more about you personally and maybe not so much physically
2006-10-19 03:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by BOOM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a girl is dressed sexy, she is going to be used as a one night stand. If a girl is dressed in a non-sexy way, she would long-term relationship.
2006-10-19 03:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you know you are in a committed relationship, with mutual respect. I know it isn't as easy as I try to make it sound ... Here's to your future happiness.
2006-10-19 03:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I'm sitting somewhere and some attractive lady comes in and sits near me and allows hger skirt to ride up so that she can wink her ****y at me...that always seems like a good indication.
2006-10-19 03:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously... you need to date better guys. That's all there is to it.
If you date b*tches who just wanna use girls for sex... then they're gonna use you for sex.
You need to look for a better class of men.
Not to sound racist... but most black guys just wanna f*ck a white girl. They don't care who you are or whatever... if you look good and you're white, they're gonna wanna f*ck you. Ain't no relationship.
2006-10-19 03:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well if u give it up a man is gonna take it. are you trying to get acceptance by using your body??? do u have a low self esteem an these men see that?? if u need someone to talk to im me at lookie_here692000
2006-10-19 03:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try this. don't have sex with them for a while. make them wait several months, this will weed out the ones that will just want to use u.
2006-10-19 03:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're either easy or stupid...I don't care what you say. No one gets taken advantage of more than twice. "Do it once, shame on you...do it twice shame on me." Either way, just keep getting used because you're never going to learn.
2006-10-19 03:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Justin G 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋