i have told him i dont love him and he still as not got the picture wot do i do
2006-10-19 03:05:14 · 22 answers · asked by Kelly B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he is constantly pestering you on the phone call your phone company and get them to block his number from ringing you. if hes coming to your house regulary and not leaving when u ask him to tell him you are going to call the police if he doesnt leave you alone. and failing that actually call the police. BUT definatly definatly do not reply to his calls or texts espceially with anything at all that makes him think hes got a chance of gettin back with you.
2006-10-19 03:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi it depends on what type of not leaving you alone is. You shouldnt tell anyone you love them if you dont. But if he keeps ringing you or coming round your house and stalking you then you and it is creeping you out, You can always get a restraining order against him. And then he cant come near you. You may think now before you tell people you love them.
2006-10-19 10:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him any attention whatsoever. Don't answer any calls or texts that come from him (if you know they are from him). Ignore him. If you can't tell where they are from, suspect it is him, a genuine caller/texter will speak first. If he starts threatening you, call the police. Do not fear. You probably haven't done anything wrong (well I can't tell but I assume so). This idiot will realise you're not worth the effort if you do not respond. If you give in and answer after several attempts from him he will know persistence pays off. Do not give in! Hope this helps.
2006-10-19 10:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lady_Rachelina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him in a public place and explain to him that you don't want to be with him and that your relationship is over, tell him to leave you alone and that if he does not you will have to go to the police and get a restraining order out against him. Good luck I know it is not easy to do but if you have to then you have to.
2006-10-19 10:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by liongirl_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your phone number, do not answer his calls , emails, text messages anythin that may be seen as encouragement. keep a diary of all his behaviour, if it starts to get scary or abusive in any way call the cops and maybe get a restraining order. it prob sounds like he thinks there may still be a chance with you and once he gets the picture he'l realise its time to move on.
2006-10-19 10:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As others are saying, don't respond in any way to any of his overtures. Any response is going to maintain your connection to him. And he will keep hanging on.
Can't tell from what you say as to whether he's actually coming around you or just calling/texting. If he's just calling/texting, his behavior will eventually extinguish if you cease all responses to him.
Call the phone company and ask for their help. You may have to change your number and just give the new one to people you want to hear from. It will be worth doing if it keeps you from having to deal with him, won't it?
If he's coming around, call the police and ask for their advice and follow through with it. They might even be willing to speak to him for you. I would't do this if he's only calling/texting.
2006-10-19 10:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by KIT J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, do not answer his calls or texts. Change your number if you have to. If he becomes abusive or starts harrassing you and/or your family contact the police. I am currently experiencing similar it could take a while but he will eventually get the message. Good Luck!
2006-10-19 10:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by L B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Careful hon, he's a stalker. I went through that and just started to ignore the guy and went on with my life. i had totally forgotten about him until one day when my new bf and I were just hanging out and he approached us with a weapon in hand - frightened the crap out of me. I had to call the police have him arrested, get a restraining order and move.
Don't take it lightly, be careful and for Gods sake don't give in to his persistent behavior.
Signed
NY-Girl-In-NC
2006-10-19 10:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like "dude we broke up this relationship is over I really think you need to leave me alone, I don't wanna be mean but I just don't want anything to do with you anymore"
2006-10-19 10:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Elisha 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just don't have any contact with him, ignore his texts/phonecalls. He'll soon back off. Or get someone to give him a little warning!
2006-10-19 10:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋