head. But you boy friend like it and would like it on a Weekly bases. But I just can't stand the tast. We ahve been together for 1year on the 25. And I have only giving him head only 4 times. I was his first for everything. I use to give head a lot when I was younger. But now that I am older i just hate it. what should i do?
2006-10-19 03:00:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's kinda hard to turn something on and then just like that turn it off, huh? You have to ask yourself: Do I love myself enuff to respect my feelings and what I want? This is about you and what you want and if he doesn't love you enuff and respect your decisions enuff to be there for you then why are you together? Know this if he doesn't get it from you, what do you think he is going to do? Love is a hard thing especially when its your partner's 1st time at receiving something. You probably never should have started it in the 1st place but now that you have, you have grown tired of it and you want to stop but........... there is a twist because he loves it and he wants you to do it daily now. What a pickle to be in! In the end, you are the one who has to be happy and if he can't understand that then maybe you shouldn't be with him. I know its hard to let someone go that you truly love but if you aren't happy then its not gonna work anyway. I pray it works out for you but your happiness should come 1st and foremost and not making your man happy just so that he will stay with you. You are the one thats most important here. Bless you dear.
2006-10-19 03:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having sex until you are married according to The Word of God. But, if you are going to do it anyway.. Does he take a shower, is that the bad taste? If so make his bathe, or shower, not just wash it off! That also can cause you to get an infection and if that is not the case and it`s still is bad they make flavored oils, they are awesome! They get hot when you breath on them and the taste is great! This way you can breath barely lick and tease him to death! Then before he does his thing, just say, oh no, it`s my turn now and move on!!! You will enjoy the oils too!
Be A good girl now! Reverend Susan!
2006-10-19 03:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Susan Beck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and find something that you guys will both like. If he really loves you then he will be understanding and supportive. Communication is the key to make any relationship a success. Talk about it and look at possible solutions together. If he should give you the If-You-Love-Me speech, then tell him to go and get him a chick that will give him what he wants and when he wants because you are not going to stand attention whenever he calls your name. Your relationship has a deeper meaning than that. Best of luck amigo and if you should need any more advice check out my 360 or my blog at annelize-sexylee600.blogspot.com
2006-10-19 03:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up...life is not all about you... One must find pleasure in life where they can. You say that you used to enjoy it and now you don't? What's up with that? One who truly loves another loves to please them. Think about why you used to enjoy it - and work from there. I love it and my partner really appreciates all of my hard work and loving effort...and that makes me feel great. Don't make this a battle ground in your relationship...too many really important things to consider before this is a priority. If you decide that you really just can't do this then at least give the guy a break and tell him so and let him move on with his life also.
2006-10-19 03:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If he truly loves you he will understand. You shouldn't be expected/made to do things you don't want to. If your BF enjoys it that much, then compromise with him. You'll give him head as long as he doesn't get off in your mouth. When he's ready to get off climb on top and finish him.
2006-10-19 03:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by gab_b_i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. There are lots of other ways for a couple to display their affection for one another. Bottom line is, why do something that you're not comfortable doing, just because it makes the other person happy? If he cares about you, he'll understand. Don't do something that you don't want to. Talk with him.
2006-10-19 03:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if hes not going down on you also then i would stop doing it for him. It works both ways. Think of other things while u r doing it to keep your mind off of what u r doing to him. Make sure they are pleasant thoughts though. Practice makes perfect.
2006-10-19 03:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you he is'nt worth it. If your relationship is strong. He will understand. Alot of woman can't stand doing it. I know I can't. But I have also learned that if you are truly loved. Then it won't matter. Love is'nt built around what you can do in bed.
2006-10-19 03:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do It - I don't like it either, well that is until
I've had a bit to drink and loosen up and it's a 69 situation. However I did it with my husband it was my duty to please him in every which way, that is of course if it was something that really turned me off.
I say don't do it if ya don't like it, especially if he's not doing you.
2006-10-19 03:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror and stop being a wuss.
Get on your knees, and munch like you've never munched before.
Then cook him a nice meal !
2006-10-19 03:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋