I am 25years and my boyfriend is 30years we have been together for 2years and we started having sex last month the problem is my boyfriend`s penis is too small and it`s not straight it`s a little bit curve and when we have sex it`s painfull and i don`t enjoy i love him a lot but i don`t know what to do i talked to him he said it`s God who created him like that it`s true but i can`t go on like this i don`t even want to have sex with him anymore but i love him i don`t want to loose him he always say he love me a lot please help me we love each other so much
2006-10-19 02:04:12 · 33 answers · asked by lololi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he'd make a great back-scratcher.
Seriously, consult a phyisican.
2006-10-19 02:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Do You See What Happens Larry? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried different positions? Depending on his curve if it is up wards then on all fours him coming from behind may work better ( not butt) . If it is sideways try spooning. Laying facing each other your leg up on his top one. Just trying different ways some way will work. This is a very common problem, why do you think there are so many different sex positions. Try and find a sex position book it will help you figure out one that works. Even ask your doctor he/she should know some things you can try. Don't give up! Something will work.
2006-10-19 02:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men have a curve to their penis. It is quite normal. Unless the penis is extremely bent I don't think there is much you will be able to do to straighten it. I would try to use some type of lubricant and see if that eases the pain. Also try some other positions. If that doesn't work, do other things that do not involve penetration by the penis. Good Luck.
2006-10-19 02:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is other activities that you can do, which may help. You can buy some toys and have a sex session in which you both play with yourselves and watch each other. Tell him you love to watch him masturbate and it makes you come so hard when he shots his hot come on your clit. He will be so ready that he will not want to have intercourse. Although you may find that after a couple of orgasms that you may be begging for him to put it in. The point I'm making, is do not give up on sex, just change things up and have fun. Good luck to you both.
2006-10-19 02:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, I've never known a small penis to do too much damage. There are other ways of pleasing one another and being intimate. If intercourse is painful for you, there is always oral stimulation. I know a lot of women don't like to perform oral sex on men, but we have to think of alternative methods if we want to save our relationship. There are even toys that can be purchased to do the job, and the two of you can share intimacy that way. I'm sorry for your problem, and don't focus too much on the size of his penis, focus on how the two of you can please one another. Don't be afraid to communicate what you want, remember that there is a difference in communicating and criticizing.
2006-10-19 02:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The others are right. Try cowgirl or doggy style... you may start enjoying sex with these positions. Also, It may be a matter of getting used to it and finding the right way for you. Try these new positions as well as missionary. The more you do it the less painful it will be.
2006-10-19 02:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by comepollo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his penis is curved then tell him to masturbate. u can tell him to **** a professional girl just for practice for some days to make her penis straight so that u can get more fun from him. the third option is he can have a operation on his penis to make it bigger and straighter. in all these three cases if no way has been found then i suggest u to change your boyfriend and find some other perfect guy who can give u full pleasure also. for that u can check his penis before doing ur boyfriend.
2006-10-19 02:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will lots of foreplay helps alittle???
but dun wori,a true love,a true relationship dun use sex as a foundation
if sex is too pain for u,tell him nicely n u can still enjoy other things with him,like lots of hugs,kisses n fonders
dun wori,true love will not faint when there is no sex but it would be nice tat occasionally u give in abit n let him release his urge too
all the best to u
2006-10-19 02:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him nicely to see a Dr. Maybe there is something medical that can be done for him. Good luck hun because love usually concurs all, but when it comes to sex. Foreplay is everything. It's not just about the intercourse.
2006-10-19 02:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always try different positions. That will help. Sounds like you guys need therapy. His penis won't change shapes, so you guys will have to find a different way of having sex.
2006-10-19 02:10:55 · answer #11 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋