2006-10-19 02:13:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is difficult if you are a person who doesn't like confrontation. But it is better to get it out before you feel horriblle inside for not being strong or even leading him the wrong direction. Honesty, tell him that your not into him like that, but would really like to hang out and possibily help him find the right chick for him.
2006-10-19 02:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely tell him his positive attributes and traits. and then explain to him that although he has all these, you are not meant for each other and a lucky lady is waiting for him somewhere along the way. It will always hurt no matter how you say it, but at least you will not be rude and it will make him feel better to know that he is worth something!
2006-10-19 09:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say no it is going to hurt. I think the best way to do it is being straight forward. I was so into this girl...her and I became best friends and I was telling her how much I cared about her. She just said, "Mikey, I am not romantically interested in you." and that was it. I stopped showing interest because I didnt want to invade her feeling. We're still friends.
2006-10-19 09:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. my best friend asked me out but he has hurt me many times but it was so hard for me to say no. just tell them how great they are but you are not sure they are meant to be. if u care about not hurting him then you must be an amazing person and i see why he would want you. just remember to be nice but honest and be sure he understands & just try 2 be friend with him. good luck.
2006-10-19 09:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by kim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt care about hurting other people if it means YOU have to suffer. Be open and honest and just say NO!
2006-10-19 09:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a yeast infection and you need time to heal,but explain what that is first.That should turn his thought else where.Let him know that it is a natural problem that all woman go through.
2006-10-19 09:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by canadian born 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. No is the hardest word in the english language to say, yet it's the smallest word. Don't be afraid to say no.
2006-10-19 09:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a nice, sweet guy and he really likes you, you can't.
if he's a jerk, then you should try to hurt him
the best way to tell him, is to say, "I'm sorry, but I can't." "maybe in the future, but now isn't a good time.
2006-10-19 09:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kalphbeir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't say yes when you mean no, like some tramps enjoy doing over and over...
2006-10-19 09:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by done wrenching 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and homest and whatever he's wanting you to do if he cant accept that you dont wanna do that then he's not a good friend or boyfriend! and if he is your boyfriend then he should understand why you dont wanna do that!
2006-10-19 09:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by heatherstike2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋