My wife does not like sex and am deprived. What should I do?

Answer 1

You have to treat her like a queen . nt just for a day but everyday and romance her . run her baths with bubbles and candle light and rub her feet . just treat her like you lve her .

Answer 2

Our culture tells us women should feel sexy at every stage of life. But some women don't.
The same scenario is being played out in bedrooms across America: Women who used to enjoy good sex with their partners, and who still love them, say that now they would just as soon go straight to sleep. An estimated 24 million American women aren't interested in sex.
Though certain medical problems can cause a woman to lose interest in sex, for the most part, a weakened libido is part of the natural aging process. "Women have a progressive decline in estrogen levels starting in their thirties and forties," says Kamel.
An underactive thyroid, oral contraceptives and blood-pressure-lowering drugs can also inhibit libido. As can something as simple and obvious as chronic sleep deprivation—a problem for virtually every woman who has young children at home. Another factor is depression and anty depression medicine.
Many women in long-term relationships also lose interest in sex because they don't want the kind of sex they've been having. When two people have been together for a long time, sex often gets routine and stops feeling personal.
You both need to find causes of her diminished interest in sex.
Maybe some counseling will uncover the reasons for your disappointment. Couples counseling is very successful if both parties are willing to attend and really work on the relationship. If you have been together that long, I would say it's worth a try.

Answer 3

Are you romantic maybe some candles a little soft music. Or do you just want to jump in and have sex. There is a difference between sex and making love. Why doesn't she want to have sex? Is the rest of your relationship good? As far is being deprived take a cold shower once in awhile.

Answer 4

There has to be something more going on. Try having an open and honest talk with your wife> If she loves you, she will be open for this dicsussion. Find out what it is about having sex that she doesn't like (pray it's not the size of your penis). If everything in the conversation has gone well, you realize. that it's not you, maybe she needs to see someone professionally. I don't know of any women today that at some point doesn't like to be jugged. If she has liked intercourse in the past and just stopped liking it, something has gone wrong, work on finding out what it is. Try some different techniques. A lot of foreplay to set the mood, candles, bubble bath, clean yourself up, and approach her in a romantic matter. If that doesn't work, mix some prozac in her coffee and have your way with her!

Answer 5

Since most of the people stated what I wanted to say, I will attempt to state something else. My question is this are you a middle age person that hasn't gotten any because the wife is going through menopause? I could understand the reason. If you are young, then I don't have any sympathy for you. Then you should have listened to your parents because you were not sexually compatible in the first place.

Answer 6

People by nature are sexual animals...so if your wife doesn't enjoy sex,there's a very serious reason for it ! and should be addressed. This is something you are going to have to talk about with her. Ask if she would be willing to share with you her reasons for not enjoying sex? if it's something she's willing to share with you,then work on it,be kind,carring and undertstanding. Tell her how it makes you feel when you can't make love to her! just because you don't have sex doesn't mean the relationship is over. It just means you have to find an outside source for pleasure....get a call girl a couple times a month,don't go screwing with a 'girlfriend' they just complicate matters,you want sex...cut and dry... remember you do have a wife :) every gentleman has his secrets..you love your wife and you need to work on the problem with her. but we are animals by every nature,sex is a natural thing to want. go have sex with a stranger,work on the problems with your wife,and it will all work out.

Answer 7

Well, if she liked it in the beginning, she maybe depriving you for a reason. Me and my guy of 9 yrs. have hit a huge pot hole in our relationship. Money troubles, his insensitivity, and his refusal to pick up after himself has made me question our relationship and has resulted in me withholding sex. However, if she was this way in the beginning of your relationship, you have only yourself to blame. You shouldn't have married someone that didn't want sex as much as you did, or do.

Answer 8

This beggs a more important question. WHY DO PEOPLE GET MARRIED when they all end up cheating anyway.

If humans were like gorillas I could understand this, but they only ADMIRE the bushido-like behavior of the gorilla. Humans are actualy closest to chimps, who are total sluts. They appreciate the stability but there's a biological drive to sleep around in all of us.

I SAY WHY DEPRIVE YOURSELF!

There should be a sacrament of "remaining a typical human slut but still promising to be supportive of your lifepartner". Could someone PLEASE create a church of etical sluthood?

Answer 9

Goodness! I thought you said your wife does not like to be sexually deprived. I wanted to say fall down on your knees and praise the lord.......however, if she doesn't like sex please make sure its not your fault first before you start looking at other options.

Answer 10

There's often a physical problem associated with lack of sex drive. Start by seeking medical help.

Answer 11

You need to talk about your needs. You both need to express yoursellves and how you feel about the situation. Intimacy is a part of relationships. I think you both need to discuss why she isn't into sex. Maybe there is something deeper going on. Perhaps you need to figure out if she has a poor view of her body, is she afraid of rejection, or maybe you both need to work on what makes you go ohhhhhhhhh!