How do u in particular do that inyour daily life?
What are the feelings when u are doing it (giving and luving ur relatives and family).
Actually I have a problem that my bro does not like conversating with me. Im his only sister and 3 years younger to him. He always talks alot with my elder girl and boy cousins. Our conversations however end with a uyes or no from his side. Even if Itry to prolong a conversation ...he almost always puts a dead stop. How can I get him to not think less of me. Hes not such a bad guy. Hes got integrity and is doing a job so is earning. he also sometimes buyes stuff for me. But his attitude is so aloof. Its not normal. Ive seen bros and sisters talkin and I feel so left out. Sometimes while my mom, dad, him and I are sittin together he will almost ignore me completely.
Hes leavin for Norway in like 11-12 days and I have been tryin to get him to talk to me for the past God knows how many years. Im 23 hes 26. When we were small he called me stupid alot
2006-10-19 02:14:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Which Im not. Im pretty normal. Not very social though.
2006-10-19 02:17:55 · update #1
I respect him alot too. I dont shout scream or yell at him. Im polite and thats in my nature.
2006-10-19 02:18:59 · update #2
i am a crafty type person so i love making "just because" gifts for everyone....i know my in-laws love them and appreciate them....i am not so sure my family likes them very much even though all of their friends ask where they got the stuff i have made and end up ordering one for themselves....my family is more like "how much money did they spend on me" not "that must of taken a long time to make...thank you".....It puts me in a VERY good mood knowing that i am making things for my in-laws and i am going to be making them happy!!! Nothing puts me in a better mood faster!!
As for your brother....i am not sure how to help with that one....i have two sisters and we have never been close!!! We do talk once in a while but not like i hear other people talk about their brothers and sisters. I always wanted to be closer with them but it never seems to work out!!! Maybe your brother just has a hard time showing or talking about things to you because he is afraid of how you might feel about him....it sounds to me that he does love you but is just afraid to show it....maybe you could sit down and write him a letter before he leaves telling him how much he means to you and how much you wish you two could of been closer!!!
Good luck and I will pray for both of you!!!
2006-10-19 02:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The single thing that I can tell you is to not stop loving and respecting him. If all what you give is love, love is what you will get back, trust me. Keep doing the good thing.
2006-10-19 03:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by dioshy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's evading the problem. There might desire to be some thing in the back of that physique of concepts. you have achieved your section. i delight in you for persevering with your love in spite of your bro's reaction. do no longer supply up loving/ giving. you would be blessed via God.
2016-12-16 10:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you said he do not talk to you what you need to do is tell him you are getting ready to leave me for how long can we at less take a moment to talk let have lunch donot said no i really need to talk to you and set a day good luck...... oh i did not think you were
2006-10-19 02:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Summer G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋