Why it always happen with me?Whenever I loved someone I come to know that he has no interest in me.Why its always me?
2006-10-19 02:07:32 · 25 answers · asked by yadavgirl2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably because you love the wrong people.i have a simple philosophy of not falling in love.make friends and like people dont fall in love so soon.there is nothing wrong in you its just that you chose the wrong ppl to love.you should just relax in the love department.love is not everything.when the right time and the right person comes along love will happen all the other times you will end upp feeling helpless and dejected.let someone love you first and then you start loving that person.i think you should go out with all your friends and talk to them about this problem.they will make you feel better about it.god has definitely made ppl who love you.feel good about yourself.if ppl cant love you then its their bad luck because you seem like a nice sentimental person.you need to be strong and love yourself.start noticing the good things in your life like your qualities.you had the guts to discuss such a problem while many ppl just hide it to not embarass their troubles.you have courage to face defeat and rejection while many just die due to it.live my dear and celebrate life dont ruin it with crap stuff like love.because love is supposed to make you feel good if it does not its not love.good luck!
2006-10-19 03:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you accuse a finger at others, remember that the other four fingers are aiming at you and it may be true in your case.I think you should not loose heart and start thinking negative. This happens to many. Try to list out your good qualities and try to project them to the proposed lovable ones. Being a lady(/), you should not hurry things but should have a knack of expressing your interest sublimely.Take every step with the gracefulness of a girl. Put enough caution on all advancements and nurture the affection to such a level that it can be the beginning of a fruitful love. Don't loose heart!! I know you can do it and WILL do it!!!
2006-10-19 10:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lucky it's not the other way around..meaning - you can't ever get attached to someone or you can never fall in love...some people are like that... just learn to control your emotions...it takes time...Also don't be so dependent on someone...find a hobby or things that make you happy by yourself...you'll find that having a hobby (something you enjoy) will help you a ton ...good luck and it's not just you..there is a bazillion girls out there that go through the same thing..
2006-10-19 09:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing you are not in love with these people you have a crush, if you were in love you would have a relationship with them. The crush thing happens to everyone. I am sure there are guys that are crushing on you and you show no interest in them. It is just a part of life.
2006-10-19 09:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it happen when u give less Importance to him/her.pls understand his feeling what he want if really loves you he will never ever let u down or leave for any stupid reason.
choose someone as a partner for life time,belive in him or his ideas listen to him carefully avoid Sex in First Critical year!!avoid kiss first 3 months,take care him all the time help him and let him help you in every situation..go out for dinner and movie so tht teo of u know ur feeling and choices..
and after doing all this things Guy want somethng else and ditch you then it means he was not yours so let him go and search the Perfect one.
"Love doesnt mean to love some one it means to be loved by someone.."
Take Care
2006-10-20 15:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Visshal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be, they are not wise enough to know your worth. Don't be disheartened, because if you have been in love several times, it was not love. It's only that you are trying too hard to be hooked on with somebody. Stop that if you want guys to like you.
When you really find someone who you love, I'm sure he too would respond in a positive manner.
2006-10-19 12:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Shalabh S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not always you it is every body we know some times we get some thing in life and some times we do not get some other things so life is give and take any body can say same thing about themeselves beacuse i am 22 and i am going throught the same thing infact i have not find any one yet i am still a virgin so i understand that what you are saying
2006-10-19 10:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it possible that u may be trying too hard and expect too much straight away?
U need to take relationships slowly....men do not like commitment straight away. So, is it possible that u fall for them with ur heart first and not use ur mind to pace things out...
good luck!
2006-10-20 19:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by snowflake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not always you, trust that. You must have patience, understanding and flexibility when it comes to relations.
If you wait, it will come. If you run towards it , it will run at equal pace. It is Love. It's not you.
2006-10-19 09:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by Michael K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have showed that you're interested too soon or something, make him chase you, guys love the chase believe me. Make them work more for your love.
2006-10-19 09:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋