There is this girl I like that is in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her(a few weeks ago) and once I even gave her a teddy bear(3weeks ago) and I’ve been really nice 2 her without her acting different in any way. But in the last few days (the end of last week and now) I’ve noticed that she’s acting differently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me (Thursday of last week). Just so you know she hasn’t given me back the pen. When she said bye on Thursday to me she started to say it in that I like u-ish tone. I’m not sure if these signs are enough to qualify as her liking me so I was planning to say to her “You have a beautiful smile” How should she react (what should she say or do) for me 2 find out if she is interested or even likes me? I'm asking this cause this the 1st gurl i've been interested in.(I'm 17, she's 18 or 19) Also how do i say it without coming on too strong?
2006-10-19 02:17:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Joe, you set your own style, and stick with it. Be who you are, truthfully. If that doesn't work, its not meant to be. I think you and this girl are on the same wave length. So keep confident, be nice, and eventually the rewards will be coming in. Its all about the timing too. Allow that to fall as it should. Good luck! :)
2006-10-19 02:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just approach her one day and say, I don't think i've ever told you this but, my god, you have a beautiful smile.
We love compliments! LOVE THEM! But to an extent. Just say that see her reaction, and go from there. If she seems interested just say, " I was thinking, maybe, if you were interested we could go get a bite to eat and maybe see a movie or just go somewhere and sit and talk." Passionate stuff like that most girls fall all over. Just be very distant about it for a few more days. Then you should be able to gain the courage to talk to her about the "date". I think this may work for you. Let me know what happens.
Jessica
2006-10-19 02:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica Meganâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush up in ur relationship with the girl! Start with usual cute ,soft speech like "u look pretty in this dress, u have a beautiful smile" ,this hairstyle soothes u.. and so on.... U will see the difference soon. Let go 1-3 weeks , if she doesn't ask u out for a cup of coffee/tea , propose one and go on......
Good Luck!
2006-10-19 02:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! You sound like such a sweetheart! How could she possibly say no to you! And the beautiful smile thing, go for it! It sounds like she's into you and think, if you don't say it you'll never know how she'll react. You may regret that someday if you think shes one heck of a girl. But all signs point to go for it! I would be flattered that's for sure!
2006-10-19 02:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say, you have a really nice smile. and say nothing more. i bet she will giggle, smile, then say thank you. look for a compliment about you in return. if that happens, youre good to go. follow up by asking her if she would like to hang out some evening with a group of friends,(her friends and yours). its always a good idea to hang out with a group because theres never a moment where its totally silent, you know, that uncomfortable silence? hope it works out for ya!
2006-10-19 02:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by pitbulldawgz82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course is the most beautiful thing in life one man
2006-10-22 09:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Yiannis B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about her smile, her reaction will be a pretty good giveaway
2006-10-19 02:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead and say that,"you have a beautiful smile." see what she does. what have you got to do?
2006-10-19 02:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋