I think the marriage between people were meeting by internet by chat not successful
2006-10-19 02:08:47 · 14 answers · asked by huda a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My husband and I met online. We were honest and open about things and started out just chatting. Moved to phone calls and finally a date. A year later we happily married and we have been together ever since.
It isn't how you meet that is important - it is what you put into any relationship from the beginning. Marriage should be built on respect, honesty, and compatibility.
Relationships of any kind are difficult enough without putting restrictions on them with regards to how or where you meet people. We have made alot of great friends on line and continue to cherish all those relationships - placing our marriage at the top of the list.
What you put into it is what you will get out of it.
2006-10-19 03:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by flutterbybug4me 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
regardless of how a couple meet the success or failure of the marriage is totally dependant on how much work both of them put into the marriage.
you could marry someone you have known for years & things not work out ; or marry someone you have just met & go on to have a LONG & HAPPY life together.
the use of the internet today has taken the place( to a large degree) of family & friends setting people up with potential partners & with the busy lifestyles so many of us lead nowadays it means you dont even have to leave your own home to connect with new people
2006-10-19 09:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's irrelevent how people meet, as to whether or not they will have a successful relationship/marriage. If they met at church, at a bar, or were set up through mutual friends (etc...) the relationship would turn out just the same.
2006-10-19 10:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by *~Mom2aJellybean~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the people themselves. Some people are honest on here and I've met a lot of good friends just by chatting to people on here and I've also had some who chatted with me I've found them to be dishonest. I've met people off the Internet and found them to lie about themselves so that's why i say it depends on the person themselves. There's liars and there's honest ones everywhere.
2006-10-19 12:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful, honest, respect each other and a marriage will be successful. You can meet bad people in church, bars, or introduced by friends and family too.
2006-10-19 09:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't like marriage by internet meeting, that's how I met my ex-fiance and internet meetings don't give you a real way to get to know the person because you don't know what they may be fibbing on and what they may just be acting out.
2006-10-19 10:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by southerncat1116 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as both of them say the truth to each other, it's fine. After all marriage is about trust,loyalty,faithfulness and truth! But, even spending some months with a person , we fail in relationships!
So my opinion "BEWARE! "
2006-10-19 09:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i met my wife in yahoo chat. Married 7 years 2 kids. So it does work for some
2006-10-19 09:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by chet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have sepent a good amout of time together in person I would say it's fine.
2006-10-19 09:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle118 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It's pathetic. And watch the lawsuits come after the couple gets divorced. People need to get a life.
2006-10-19 09:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by dolphinluver22000 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋