Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

What do you get a guy for his birthday. I dont want to get him something to expensive, just to say thanks! Im open to all sugestions, male or female! Thanks a bunch (bear in mind im only a teenager!)

2006-10-17 06:43:43 · 26 answers · asked by xx-tinkerbell-xx 2 in Friends

2006-10-17 06:43:37 · 67 answers · asked by Help Needed 3 in Singles & Dating

Lately my husband and i havent been on the same page, we dont click like we use to. i sometime talk to my ex but my husband doesnt know.when i talk to my ex i can tell we both still have feeling for each other.we both thought that we were each others soul mate.the reason that we are not together is that he moved and i fell for someone else (my husband) .should i stop talking to my ex? tell my husband?or see if there really still chemistry between my ex and i ? what should i do?

2006-10-17 06:43:35 · 58 answers · asked by Kay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can a really shy girl with a small group of friends and a really popular guy who likes to go out a to clubs and is outgoing has large group of friends active social life make it work?Or do you think my bf and i are too different?

2006-10-17 06:43:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jen v 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically, me and my ex-partner split up 4 months ago. We have 3 year old and we still gett to see him half as much as each other and it hasn't gone to court.

Here's the thing though everything I say or do doesn't seem to want t bring her back. I've joined the same gym as her last week. She came to pick her son up yesterday and told me she was going to the gym tomorrow, (which is today) at 8. Why did she tell me?

So I've decided to go to the gym at about that time so that I bump into her, but I'm not sure what to say to her or do? She's sending me mixed signals.

2006-10-17 06:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with this girl, after seeing her at two parties before. It was our third time seeing each other. I wasn't expecting anything, but when we were going back to her car, after we parked, she tells me she wants to kiss me. I was like ok thats normal. Then she is all over me, like doing all kinds of stuff, like totally caught me off gaurd. Of course I went a long with it. Then she tells me that this was a special situation and she never does this on the first date, and that she is a good girl. I dont know if I should believe her or not. She dresses and acts like a proper girl. She also told me she is a virgin, I dont know if that is true either. If you think you know anything please help.

2006-10-17 06:43:10 · 32 answers · asked by artzonesigns 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i am so in love with this guy, and i've loved him for years. we've been best friends for 10 years and a little more for 4. he makes me feel so special and like he loves me, but he says that he's an a$$ and that i wouldn't want to be in a relationship with him. how can i make him see that he is the most special, loving, caring person in my life besides my kids and that he's not a bad guy? serious answers please.

2006-10-17 06:43:04 · 12 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

After a stressful few months, my partner and i took a break from each other. We met up then last Friday and he told me that he wanted me in his life, that he loves me and wants everything to be ok between us. We then arranged to see each other yeaterday but he sent a mesage to say he was feeling unwell and that he would see me tomorrow (today). Then today, he sent another message to say he had to go out to see a friend as he was helping him sort out some finances and debts with him. Am i wasting my time with him or should i give him the benefit of the doubt. We have been together over 2 years.

2006-10-17 06:42:33 · 19 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me, my friend and my boyfriend went to go watch a movie. I was sitting in between my friend and my boyfriend. They started teasing each other and reaching over me to hit each other and give high fives. It made me feel a little bit uncomfortable. Is he flirting with her in front of me??

2006-10-17 06:42:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please thoroughly go into details.

2006-10-17 06:42:19 · 5 answers · asked by Just_Asking 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 06:42:18 · 28 answers · asked by Curious D 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend so much the best sex everything, but i'm moving back to my home town and i'm stuck on what to do. i miss my family back home, but at the same time i love him and don't want to leave him i need help what should i do.?

2006-10-17 06:41:43 · 25 answers · asked by dnelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a female on here who likes to blow huge bubble gum bubbles? I think it's cute. Do you have any pics or video? I'm a guy, i'm not crazy, I just think its cute, and I'm not a kid. It just amazes me and I never really learned how to blow a bubble.

2006-10-17 06:41:38 · 16 answers · asked by sbubbles24 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having a hard time keeping my anger under controll. Every time I see him I see his father. I love him to death, but I'm having a hard time expressing that and usually end up getting angry at him instead because of what abuse he suffered at the hands of his father (and from his father's partner.) I am angry with myself about his father, and he looks a lot like his father.

He is 17 but does not have anyone else to turn to (his father is in the hospital, waiting to go to jail), and his mother does not want his custodety. I want to keep his custodety so bad because he is 17..., but I don't want myself to keep getting angry at him..., and at 17 he would go into foster care and in his last year of school, I don't want to do that. Plus, I think that if I give up his custodety, he would think that he is worth nothing because the last person in the world who loves him is giving him up.

2006-10-17 06:41:38 · 45 answers · asked by Lisa X 1 in Family

2006-10-17 06:41:01 · 33 answers · asked by The Golden Child 1 in Singles & Dating

in the 7th grade

2006-10-17 06:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Robert B 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it right for people to date online? especially if it is a long distance relatonship? My friend is dating someone over the internet. She's 13 and he's 16? Is it wrong for them to love eachother and yet they have never meet? Felt eachothers heat beat?

2006-10-17 06:40:52 · 15 answers · asked by xx-tinkerbell-xx 2 in Singles & Dating

so if you think you are open minded lets chat lets cam im me at tryingtobegood yah

2006-10-17 06:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by Marvin L 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is seventeen. He lives in the state of Arizona. He is on probation for a posession and public disturbance charge. He violated his probation once with a dirty UA and just recently did it again. He is under the impression that if he goes on the run until He's 18 the charges will be dropped. This is 6 months from now so he has a while yet. Does anyone know if this is true, and what do you think his best option is?

2006-10-17 06:40:11 · 7 answers · asked by boogatt66 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been so faithful to my boyfriend for 2.5 years and he continues to lie and cheat on me. He always goes on line and chats to other women, but says he doesn't. He gets extremely irrate when i try to talk to him about it and denies it. I know for a fact that he meets and chats to other women on line. I love him so much, but he wont talk to me about it. I dont know for sure if this is secret (or sick) obsession. I am the best thing that has ever happened to him! He pursued me and wouldn't leave me alone until I decided to give him a chance. Now I have, and my heart is broke!!!! Please Help!

2006-10-17 06:40:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. Before we met I used to have a drug and alcohol problem I have been clean for several years. The problem is whenever we argue it gets thown in my face. No matter what we talk about it always go back to my drug usage. How can I get him to understand the person I was before is not the person I am now? Also, how come it is such a double standard if you say something about a mans past (god forbid) it wages an all out war but when a man says something about a womans past it is also the here and now so to speak? Also any time I bring up his past ooh my god it's horrible. How can I get this guy to chill. Always saying I am like his ex wife and this and that and I always have to accept that and when I say something negative about him he comes back with "if you don't want to be with me leave" I really love him more then anything I just want to get along and have an even ground.

2006-10-17 06:39:58 · 29 answers · asked by Hautie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I no its a bit early but i want to get my mum something really special for christmas, i would love to treat her but iv no idea wat to get her.
please bear in mind that she wont fly (we live in Ireland).

2006-10-17 06:39:48 · 11 answers · asked by Caz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Other nationalities can answer too.

2006-10-17 06:39:38 · 12 answers · asked by Josephine 1 in Friends

Do you believe this? Why or why not?

2006-10-17 06:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is kind of fat that somehow manages to get a lot of very hot girls..and I can't manage to figure out why..So I am kind of just taking a poll to see how many women out there like fat guys and if you do, why?

2006-10-17 06:39:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when he has a girlfriend already. WHATwould you do if your boyfriend allow other girls to use his phone. should i break up with him or should i just accept the fact that my bofriend was being nice to his friends i don't believe this idea

2006-10-17 06:39:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me if these are signs that she might like me more than her boyfriend:
She walks with me everywhere, waits for me after classes, and risks being late to some of her classes to walk with me. She talks to me a lot and is not shy one bit around me. One time in the library, she saw me and I didn't know she was there, she surprised me and jumped on my back and quickly got off. She writes that I love her to death in my notebook and one time her and my friend wrote Hi, I Love You in my notebook, and she wrote I Love You the Most! Then, my cousin's friend told me that she overheard that girl saying good stuff around me and thinking about asking me out and breaking up with her boyfriend, but I'm not sure if i believe my cousin's friend about her wanting to do that (she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend yet or asked me out, by the way help me out with that too) , so what is up with all this? and what should i do?
Also, I like her too, so it's not like I want to avoid her.

2006-10-17 06:38:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He its 16 and im 14. He said that he would never cheat on me,(as every guy says). Well i met the girl he cheated on me with. It still hurts to know that he is with another girl. we've been broken up for about 1 1/2 months now. please tell me if im still in love with him.
I do know wat love is even though im only 14. I give advice on love all the time, but maybe its time for me to take my own advice.

2006-10-17 06:38:34 · 13 answers · asked by badassgirl-1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 06:38:19 · 6 answers · asked by wendy u 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife walked out of our relationship about 2 years ago. I was not sure whether to call it quits when she left. We have a son together so that made it harder for me to just get up and say let's get a divorce. I tried somethimes to make the situation better, but everytime we meet or talk it's always about the past, and about my fault's only. I have to admit that our communication level was not the greatest. But at the same time i find it hard to communicate with someone who has outburst ever time, or always pointing the finger at me. Sometimes i would walk away from the situation till things cool down. Maybe a day or so, then respond. I love her a great deal, so during our time apart we would have sex. So she got pregnant again. I tried to be the better man for the family and for me by asking her to take her ring back and start over. She told me that she would not take the ring back and she was not sure if the child was mine. I know what to do in my head, but in my heart i don't know.

2006-10-17 06:38:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce