Can a really shy girl with a small group of friends and a really popular guy who likes to go out a to clubs and is outgoing has large group of friends active social life make it work?Or do you think my bf and i are too different?
2006-10-17 06:43:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jen v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Or should i just try an over come my shyness?
2006-10-17 06:47:49 · update #1
Yes, a shy guy or girl, and an outgoing guy or girl can make it work...in fact, their personalities in some way complement each other...the outgoing person can also help the shy person draw themselves out more.
I'm shy and tend to gravitate towards outgoing people for friends and to date...you put 2 shy people together and ya just get a lot of quiet...
2006-10-17 07:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it to work, it can work. Try to overcome your shyness and be a little more outgoing. Have more self confidence and the rest will fall into place.
2006-10-17 08:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be doable...you might feel out of place a little at first, though, so you may want to try to come out of your shell a little. Also, ask him to devote, say, one night a month to just staying in. It's not fair for you to attempt to change and him not to. I don't know how it is for you now, you two may be already doing that, but it was just a thought.
2006-10-17 07:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should get over you shyness!! Seriously....life's to short to not get out there and be outgoing!!!
2006-10-17 07:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn how to use punctuation, and for your question: Try and work around your shyness, it will just be beneficial for you in the end
2006-10-17 06:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Girly-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you feel like that then i think that you should overcome your shyness. or dont care about it at all, remember opposites attrack.
however makes you feel good.
2006-10-17 08:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can definitely work if both persons are committed to the relationship.
2006-10-17 07:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really can make it , I kno a couple like that and now they are married. It works for a lot of people, i wouldnt change.
2006-10-17 07:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make it work if both of you really care enough about each other enough!!!
2006-10-17 07:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is manageble you have to manage it
2006-10-17 06:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by sanjay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋