He its 16 and im 14. He said that he would never cheat on me,(as every guy says). Well i met the girl he cheated on me with. It still hurts to know that he is with another girl. we've been broken up for about 1 1/2 months now. please tell me if im still in love with him.
I do know wat love is even though im only 14. I give advice on love all the time, but maybe its time for me to take my own advice.
2006-10-17 06:38:34 · 13 answers · asked by badassgirl-1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are still young.
be friendly o.k.
2006-10-17 07:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a complicated emotion and while you might have have loved what you had, I do not think you were in love with him. If you were , you would know. Now losing a relationship can hurt even if it is only beginning to move toward love. You deserve better though, and should not give him another chance. Find someone who appreciates you for you, and would never dream of hurting you in such a way. Plus at 14 you need to be careful many men will use you if you let them, stand up for your worth.
2006-10-17 13:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we all say we know what love is. And even at an age where we are 25 or 30 we don't know the meaning of real love. And we understand how you feel, but if he has a girlfriend then is best you get over it and start looking forward and find someone else that will respect you for who you are and what you have to offer as a person.
You don't want to be with someone that cheated on you and then began to date her. You are worth a lot more then that, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you.
2006-10-17 13:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love is the most beautiful thing in life, but,,,,,you have to be careful, don't turn it into an obsession. With your age you still have a life in front of you that is going to bring you all kind of good thing. Don't get to series about a boy right now because it's going to hurt you and probably he will never know or don't care. His feelings and yours are very different, not because his bad but because we are made different, a girl and a boy. His desires are not the same as your desires. Keep calm and keep on walking because other doors will open for you, you will see. Good luck and take care.
2006-10-17 13:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would know if you were still "in love" with him. If your not sure, then your probably not. Your just still a little bit hurt by the situation. But you are young! Don't worry about him, go out and have fun and meet new guys! (ur own age, may be better).
2006-10-17 13:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by Keekla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may still be in love, but it will pass eventually. Try to get distracted; keep yourself busy with friends and hobbies. Every time you fall in love, there's a possibility of being hurt; but love is worth it. One day you will meet a man whom you will be happy with, but right now - just have fun. Being young is great. Good luck.
2006-10-17 13:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think right now you are to young for LOVE you need to focus on school.. there are alot more guys to come in your life and alot more life to be lived don't sit around crying about a guy who didn't care enough about you to even stay faithful..
2006-10-17 13:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Leah * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay me and my boyfriend broke up cuz he was starting to get "bored" of me (jerk) . I know how it feels and it takes a while for your heart to stop hurting just let urself go through da process. i know its gonna suck but hey"better to have loved and lost then never love at all"
2006-10-17 13:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its time u can still be in love with them but maybe u need to face the fact that guys r always an a*s
2006-10-17 13:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by bg91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are still in love with him and since you are so old you will never find anyone else, your life is pretty much over.
2006-10-17 13:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 16 he is looking for something that he can't get from a 14 year old. maybe you will get back when your older.
2006-10-17 13:45:21 · answer #11 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋