Does She Like Me?

Question

Tell me if these are signs that she might like me more than her boyfriend:
She walks with me everywhere, waits for me after classes, and risks being late to some of her classes to walk with me. She talks to me a lot and is not shy one bit around me. One time in the library, she saw me and I didn't know she was there, she surprised me and jumped on my back and quickly got off. She writes that I love her to death in my notebook and one time her and my friend wrote Hi, I Love You in my notebook, and she wrote I Love You the Most! Then, my cousin's friend told me that she overheard that girl saying good stuff around me and thinking about asking me out and breaking up with her boyfriend, but I'm not sure if i believe my cousin's friend about her wanting to do that (she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend yet or asked me out, by the way help me out with that too) , so what is up with all this? and what should i do?
Also, I like her too, so it's not like I want to avoid her.

Answer 1

girls in high school are nuts! so glad i went to an all girls school and didn't have to deal with this crap. not that i didn't deal with it at all, just not a lot.
having said that - sure sounds to me like she is at least mildly interested... more than mildly in fact - just based on what she has done. either that or she thinks your gay and her gay buddy. i'm not trying to be mean, but based on what you said it's one or the other.

as for asking her out - i'd be pissed if a guy i liked asked me out when i was dating someone else - that's just rude. maybe ask how things are going between her and him... that should be enough to let her know you are interested. girls hone in on these things only slightly better than guys, but that one is a dead give away

Answer 2

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 3

She definitely likes you very much as a friend. But if she has a boyfriend, she may not "LIKE you like you" or like you in a romantic way.
She may also be reluctant to break up with her boyfriend if she doesn't know how you feel - she may think you are just being friendly or flirty, and not serious about a relationship with her.

You could take a chance and confess your feelings for her, but you might jeapordize the friendship you already have with her. It's up to you.

Answer 4

She is defenately attrackted to you! However, it is a different story if she will follow her attracktion and leaver her BF for you! I think you should wait a bit more to read or intepret further signs....or ask her indirectly "what if" questions that might give you some answeres! But do not overwhelm her with outbursts of feelings or so because I think she is confused at the moment and that would scare her!

Answer 5

Tell her you dont like the flirting while she has a boyfriend and to either s**t or get off the pot. Aahhh, young love. It can make teens completely lose their senses. Sounds like she may be into playing games so be careful. I know this is weird, but girls and women like a man who does not allow himself to be walked on. Be a man, ask her what gives (friends only or more) Good luck.

Answer 6

It sounds like you are trapped in the friends zone. She feels comfortable with you and likes you, but really likes her boyfriend. I went through this with a good guy friend of mine and we finally got together and it was so weird. I ended up breaking up with him because realized i did not like him as a boyfriend. You could tell her how you feel or just be her friend until her and her man break up,(it sounds like you are in high school, if so they will break up) Then move in. You might win or loose, but you have plenty of time to date girls.

Answer 7

If shes going to break up with her boyfriend just wait and see if she does if you want to influence her to do it let her know you really like her just keep telling her how good she looks remind her of good times you both have had together. You will get her for sure.

Answer 8

It sounds to me like she definately has the hots for you! I'd say go for it! There has been way too many times that I had feelings for a guy and I kept them to myself. The only thing I have ever regretted is NOT sharing my feelings about someone! Trust me, no matter what the outcome is, you'll always wonder!

Answer 9

First of all, you need to do something about that self esteem! idiotofthemonth? If you consider yourself an idiot, don't expect good thoughts from the rest...
And yes, by what you said so far, she likes you (she wrote "I love you" in your notebook, d'oh!). Just go for it! Don't wait until she's blown from you by God knows what popular football player.
Good luck!

Answer 10

Ah... a typical guy. Yes she likes you, but if she's in a relationship then she'll probably want your guy's relationship like that. Like serious and whatnot before. But duh...I think it's sweet because so girls don't treat their men right. If things work out. she'll treat you good. Just do whatever you are doing that makes her crazy over you.