Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

i have grown bored with the sex in our marriage.i am against cheatin,but it's gettin frustrating.i've tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't want to talk about it.what do i do next?

2006-10-17 10:29:08 · 18 answers · asked by jack of all trades 1 in Marriage & Divorce

o.k i dont know what to do there is this guy i really like i have had dreams about and hes sooooooooo cute and i have never even talked to him i think he knows my name most people know me but i see him evry momday night in the summer (unless hes camping) but anyways i like him a lot and i dont know him at all i have called him once and i asked him what time the game was and he gave me an answer and i didnt even slip in my name!~!~!~that was a dumb move!! but now he like stares at me like he does know me but i aint sure do you think he might like me i mean hes always staring at me like he knows me from somewhere but i dont know what to do and i see him all the time (litteraly) and i dont know i dont know if i should tell him that i like him and well my dad says to just come right out and tell him but what would you do? tell him or keep it a secret??? no smart alic answers or stupid answers anybody got an answer?!?

2006-10-17 10:28:43 · 3 answers · asked by ducky girl 3 in Friends

I like this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me. We don't hang out much and my friend knows that I like him. Ever since I told her, she's been flirting with him. She told me that if I made a move, then he would be mine and she would stop. I told her it wouldn't take long for me to do it. It's een almost a month since we had that talk and I think he likes her now. Occasionally, we'll look at each other (me and the guy) and I'll look away. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. I don't want to be embarrassed infornt of the school if I tell him. I don't want to tell him because the whole school will know then. I know I'll be picked on. He's one of the "popular" kids and I don't like to confront people. Is there something I could do to see if he likes me? Anything would help! Thanks in advance!

Best Wishes! :D

2006-10-17 10:28:02 · 10 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Singles & Dating

I am too curious about this...i like a girl how is too dominating and i am very much not....i am like a guy who is always busy making fun of himself and has no personality...the girl though i feel likes to see boys a bit manly....how do you define manly then?

2006-10-17 10:26:44 · 8 answers · asked by Moli 2 in Singles & Dating

We get into arguments all the time over stupid things and he really worked up. He'll mutter things under his breath that really bother me. I think he wants me to hear them too. He mentions things like hurting me, or I'm stupid, he'll call my a cun t at the drop of a hat. The other day he wanted a bIowjob and I said no and he muttered (as I walked away) about divorcing me.
I'm almost 22 (Air Force) and he's 24 (civilian)I've also posted other things about him in past questions:
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak5G9N5mrMcwC8Hbyj0eIp3sy6IX?qid=20061009234709AAZ1rsz
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjfsVm_PaSlq.rASb.izM5Lsy6IX?qid=20061009233757AA3Ugds
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmbFOvn8EEdIa76FTLlOy4Dsy6IX?qid=20061009012256AAust6u

2006-10-17 10:26:33 · 23 answers · asked by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am American and my fiance is British. I'm planning on moving to the UK after the wedding, so I was thinking of having the wedding in the United States. But he really wants to be married in England. Thing is my family is much bigger than his, so it would be harder to have everyone come over from the US to England.

Ah! Help! Any thoughts?

2006-10-17 10:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by Doctor Phil 1 in Weddings

me and my husband have been married 4 months and have been together for 1 yr 8 mo. I recently found out that he has been seen his x since we have been together. I don't know what to do. When i found out i was ready to go. then he promised he would be good to give him time so that he could show me that he would change let about 2 weeks later i find out that he saw her again that day he left me with dinner and guest. I can't belive it. I have left everything for him i moved to IL from AZ for him and yet he has done this. im afraid that if i stay well i can say it myself he is goin to do it again but i don't know how to just leave WE have a house now, i started school again, new job everthing im so scared and hurt and the worst of all im alone. he was all i have here and then he gose and dose that to me. i don't know what to say to him what to do. I wish i could just tell him and go but i don't know how, ive written many letters but i fail to give them to him. He has done somuch.

2006-10-17 10:26:13 · 9 answers · asked by lost1985 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently bumped into my ex boyfriend who is married with a kid and is expecting another. My ex talked to me for over three hours at the bar about how miserable he is and that he made a mistake marrying the girl. He then told me that I was the best thing that happened to him and he is not sure why he let me go. I haven't heard from him since we both agreed that it was not a good idea to exchange numbers. Our families really like each other, and I am standing up in his sisters wedding. What should I do?

2006-10-17 10:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by ConFUZED83 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband have been married 4 months and have been together for 1 yr 8 mo. I recently found out that he has been seen his x since we have been together. I don't know what to do. When i found out i was ready to go. then he promised he would be good to give him time so that he could show me that he would change let about 2 weeks later i find out that he saw her again that day he left me with dinner and guest. I can't belive it. I have left everything for him i moved to IL from AZ for him and yet he has done this. im afraid that if i stay well i can say it myself he is goin to do it again but i don't know how to just leave WE have a house now, i started school again, new job everthing im so scared and hurt and the worst of all im alone. he was all i have here and then he gose and dose that to me. i don't know what to say to him what to do. I wish i could just tell him and go but i don't know how, ive written many letters but i fail to give them to him. He has done somuch.

2006-10-17 10:25:58 · 8 answers · asked by lost1985 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for a place to rent in Leicester UK. Anyone know of a place or website?

2006-10-17 10:25:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sent out 80 and recived all 80 back,how many really show up to wedding dinner

2006-10-17 10:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by Norma S 1 in Weddings

I write dirty emails to my partner when he is away about things I wanna do to him when he is returns but I feel like I am running out of things to say, anybody got any ideas??

2006-10-17 10:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by DikiDoo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 10:25:25 · 5 answers · asked by Dr shiznet 2 in Singles & Dating

i recently went on a date with a guy and i know hes attracted to me. but im not attracted to him. how can i turn him down without hurting him. what should i say?

2006-10-17 10:25:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was married 16 years & I was married 18 years the first time. We fell in love immediately. I wanted to move slowly, but I loved him, so I went at his pace...FAST. We married after only 5 months. I came into the marriage with very little, though I make more $ than him, but he had $60K to put towards a house. I knew what his ex had put him through financially, and offered to sign a prenup. He said there was no way we would do that. He trusted me with everything, and what was his was mine. Well, all that changed 3 weeks after we were married. We got into a big argument (over my kids fighting with his kids), he said we had made a big mistake, and asked me to leave. I BEGGED him to give it some more time. The only way he would, was if I would go to his attorney and take my name off of the deed on 'our' house. I truly don't care about material things, but that really hurt. I feel like he doesn't trust me, and talking doesn't help. What should I do? Please don't say divorce.

2006-10-17 10:23:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just stopped working at my aunt's place. Last week a girl came in and we had this eye/smile connection, but I never had the chance to talk to her. So I was thinking about writing a note or something, and telling my aunt to give it to this girl next time she comes in the store, since I won't be there. I just can't think of any other way to get in touch with her. Is this bad? Any ideas?

2006-10-17 10:23:28 · 18 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a very sarcastic person. My guy & I had a small aurgument because he says small sarcastic remarks ("Oh you a*s.") in front of his friends, I make him look like a 'bi*ch'. I disagree, because I am just being playful. We found a happy medium where things are good but...

Honestly, what is up with guys wanting to be all 'hard' and 'macho' for their boys?

2006-10-17 10:23:23 · 6 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

what should she do?

2006-10-17 10:23:10 · 6 answers · asked by pd 2 in Friends

OKAY WELL I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND REALLY BADLY AND HAS ASKED ME TOO A COUPLE OF TIMES BUT I TOLD HIM I WASNT READY HE SAYS HE WONT GET ME PREGNANT. the only way i can get pregnant is if he cums in me right so we can have sex all we want to but as soon as he feels hes about to bust he should just pull out or what or r u supposed to buss inside the girl like wat im 15

2006-10-17 10:22:18 · 27 answers · asked by peace l 1 in Singles & Dating

I've got a great girlfriend, we've been seeing each other for about 3 months. She's a devoted Christian, and she's only had sex w/ 1 guy and it was her fiancee at the time. She told me up front before that she didn't wanna be with someone thats had multiple partners. I told her that I've only been with 3 girls, which is a lie, it's really around 20. She's the first girl I've found that I can see myself staying with. I'm afraid that if I tell her the truth, she will be extremely hurt. I hate lying about it to her, but I feel like its kinda necessary, maybe I'm wrong. I need some opinions.

2006-10-17 10:21:23 · 36 answers · asked by flimp25 1 in Singles & Dating

it's not fair because i didnt get a big 18th birthday or a car..both of my older sister's get everything..they had their 18th birthdays and got a bmw and a mercedes. but my mom recently got cancer so we're low on money. i complain sometimes but i feel bad. am i wrong??

2006-10-17 10:21:12 · 10 answers · asked by April 1 in Family

My grandmother makes me soooooooooo mad! When I had to visit her over the weekend, she followed me around LISTENING TO MY DANG PHONE CALL FROM ONE OF MY FRIENDS!!!! She totally ticks me off all the time. SHE EVEN WAS TOUCHING MY BRA STRAP AND MOVING IT AROUND!!!!! When I went to take a shower she picks up the trash can and says,"Oh and here's the trash can if you need it ;)" Then she LOOKED DOWN MY SHIRT TO SEE IF I WAS GETTING "BIGGER"!!!!!!!!!!! I am always forced to see her even when I AM SICK! I am soooooooo sick of my grandmother gettiing her BIG FAT NOSE INTO MY STINKING BUSINESS! HOW DO I DEAL WITH A PERVERTED GRANDMOTHER?

2006-10-17 10:20:18 · 20 answers · asked by maysimay2006 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

To my horror my trusty companion decided to sniff her special area constantly, I just could not bring him to heel...
Obviously she was embaressed as was I and walked away.

Should I walk in the park on my own next time just incase...??

Or just keep treats for him in my pocket...??

2006-10-17 10:20:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OKAY WELL I WAS DATIN THIS GUY AND HE TOLD ME HE LOVED ME AND THAT I MIGHT BE THE ONE BUT AFTER I TOLD HIM I WAS NOT READY TO HAVE SEX HE QUIT CALLING ME SO LIKE WAT DID HE REALLY MEAN WHEN HE SAID HE LOVED ME DID HE MEAN THAT HE WANTS 2 HAVE SEX WITH ME AND SINCE I TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM HE TAKE THAT IN AS ME AGREEING TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM OR LIKE WAT IM SO DEPRESSED LATELY I THOUGHT HE CHANGED SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!1

2006-10-17 10:20:00 · 15 answers · asked by peace l 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you like on a girl? clothes... hair? i am looking to impress a guy so i need to know what i should do.
i'm 15 brown wavy hair and i am athletic

2006-10-17 10:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by alokob1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love him so much i need to get this back on track before i lose him for good when i call him and he thinks iam in trouble he comes right there but still dont want to talk to me if its not serious.

2006-10-17 10:18:35 · 2 answers · asked by ghettomommy06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:18:17 · 15 answers · asked by Lexi S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I HAVE A PROBLEM. MY BOY FRIEND AND I ARE HAVING A PRETTY GOOD RELATIONSHIP THAT I DON'T WANT TO RUIN. THERE IS ALSO THIS OTHER BOY THAT I'VE BEEN CRUSHING ON FOR ABOUT 8 YEARS NOW. HE ASKED ME OUT TODAY AND SAID THAT HE HAD BEEN CRUSHING ON ME FOR ABOUT 9 YEARS. I REALLY WANTED TO SAY YES AND I STARTED TO, BUT THEN I THOUGHT OF MY BOYFRIEND. THEY BOTH HAVE REALLY NICE PERSONALITIES AND THEY BOTH HAVE MY BACK. THEY SPOIL ME AND MY BOYFRIEND TELLS ME HE LOVES ME EVERYDAY. MY CRUSH SAYS THAT HE HAS GROWN TO LOVE ME AND HE CLAIMS TO BE MY BEST FRIEND, JUST LIKE MY BOYFRIEND. I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO GET HURT. WHAT SHOULD I DO AND WHO SHOULD I DATE?

2006-10-17 10:17:42 · 15 answers · asked by baby_girl_tel13 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 10:17:41 · 17 answers · asked by stevejulie 1 in Family