Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

My best friend wants to know what to do about this situation. She was playing around with her man last night and found a condom in his back pocket. When she asked he said that he picked it up off of the dresser while cleaning. She said that she hasn't seen any condoms recently and they don't use them. Furthermore, prior to becoming her live-in man, she was having an affair with him for 3 years before he left his wife( and 5 small children, he has 11 total with 4 other women) for her about 6 months ago. He is a really good guy otherwise( I know that sounds stupid). He also told her that he may just move out before she puts him out but she thinks he's bluffing. She said that they didn't talk for the rest of the night and she hasn't said anything else about it yet. What should she do about this because she doesn't believe him.

2006-10-17 10:44:19 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 10:43:15 · 7 answers · asked by Mark S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm suicidal. I lost my favorite cow, Bernice. She is dead. I am going to kill myself. How should I do it?

2006-10-17 10:43:13 · 9 answers · asked by Yuggy 2 in Friends

What can I do to convince my wife that it isnt "dirty" to go down on me after I've been in her? She thinks that it's a lesbian thing.
She has no problem with me going down on her after I've already been inside.

2006-10-17 10:43:09 · 41 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for only two months, and we couldn't be any happier. But lately, I've been thinking about this guy that I used to like. I haven't seen him in two years, but I keep on imagining what would it be like if I was dating him. I don't understand, I love my bf, but why am I thinking about this guy? I'm going to probably see this guy in a week, and I dunno what to do, what if I start to like him again? HELP!

2006-10-17 10:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:42:09 · 1 answers · asked by YukiBella 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 10:42:07 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years as of October 19th. He's the love of my life. I want to marry him/or ask him to marry me? We just got an apartment together and are making a step forward in our relationship. I recently found out that he was texting this girl and they weren't innocent text messages. I confronted the girl if she knew that he had a girlfriend of 3 years and she said no. She said she would stop texting him and calling him but it still has yet to stop. He says he loves me, that I'm the only person right for him and that he wants our relationship to last and would want to marry me. He swears on everything that he just met this chick in a chat room and they haven't met face to face and wont meet face to face. I found him on a dating site saying he is just looking for "cybersex" and stuff like that but he denies it to me. Should I be worried? Is he lying to me? I don't know what to do. Should I believe him and work at our relationship and get engaged to him?

2006-10-17 10:41:43 · 15 answers · asked by Wondering 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 19 and ive never had a relationship! i want one but i feel like i dont have time/effort for this especially w/ classes. how much am i missing out on?

2006-10-17 10:41:37 · 10 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Singles & Dating

About 4 years ago I was dating this girl on and off (we remained friends with benefits the whole time). The last night we saw eachother I told her I wanted to be serious and she basically said no... Anyway she got married to some other dude within like 2 weeks of our last date and she moved with him accross the country..... Well now she's back living in my city and we have been talking about our past quite alot lately (she's still married but really not happy about it). We both have admitted to eachother that we think about eachother alot. Her husband is a lazy do nothing and she is considering a seperation. My question is ... what do i do? Do i sit by and wait and see what happens or should I be even talking to her? Do I tell her to leave him?
Right now i'm just really having these feelings that she moved back here because of me.. (it was her decision to move back from accross the country)...

2006-10-17 10:41:21 · 1 answers · asked by travis R 4 in Singles & Dating

My mom is having a historectimy (spelled wrong sorry!) and i dont know what to do to make things easy for her just in her daily routine.. can anyone give me some advice?

2006-10-17 10:41:09 · 1 answers · asked by Dulceata 3 in Family

I've been feeling for quite sometime now that I am bisexual or lesbian. But I quesion if I am because I had a sexual experience with a woman in highschool just to experiement but did not really enjoy it when I had to reciprocate the deed to her. But yet, I still find myself picturing a woman going down on me when really my husband is am I gay or is this just harmless fantasy thinking? What would you do?

2006-10-17 10:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by LKJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 10:40:44 · 11 answers · asked by John M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:40:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is that not a good sign? Perhaps it means he just wants sex? What do you all think?

Thanks

2006-10-17 10:40:17 · 16 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Singles & Dating

Right here i go again! Planning a romantic picnic out at an undecided location. Best food? Or sutible food? Or just ideas on what to do? with the picnic/after all of that stuff really. Nothing dirty please :)

2006-10-17 10:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by frut01 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:38:39 · 33 answers · asked by b T 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with my best friend. He's in love with a girl who's in a long term relationship. She doesn't requite his love for her and he would never make a move because he respects the fact that she'd in a relationship. This doesn't stop her taking advantage of my best friend's affections and treating him terribly. He's desperately unhappy and confides in me. He's recently become wise to this and has told me he is trying to get over her. He knows I'm in love with him. I told him three months ago. He doesn't return my feeling but he wants to remain best friends with me and we continue to spend loads of time together- going to the theatre, to the park, to museums... I dote on him. So what I want to know is; should I wait for him? Is it worth it? Do people change their feelings? Do you think he'll ever notice me? We're so similar. We're both in love for the first time.(We're neither of us teenagers btw, far from it.) I love him and would do anything for him. I'd wait years if I had to

2006-10-17 10:37:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this boy that i like and he throws kisses at me and today for the frist time ever he grabs me by my waist.but then he laughs.if i tell him that i like him i am afrade that he will not tlak to me and stuff we both are in middle school and you know how that is.BIG TIME I NEED HELP!!!does he like me and how can i tell.

2006-10-17 10:36:27 · 20 answers · asked by His Onee &+ Onlyy 1 in Singles & Dating

some say that you pick on the girl you like others say your too shy to talk...wuts the deal?

2006-10-17 10:35:40 · 4 answers · asked by StephG 1 in Singles & Dating

any ideas for a girl?

2006-10-17 10:35:10 · 44 answers · asked by katienicoleallen 2 in Family

My guy friend from 4 years told me just yesterday that he loves me. He didn't give me any hints or anything. He just said it out of nowhere. i didn't know how to react. I just consider him as a best friend. He got mad at me for not sharing the same feelings like does.

2006-10-17 10:34:36 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

i don't wanna break his heart but i just don't love him, help???

2006-10-17 10:32:54 · 34 answers · asked by punkydorieme 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy likes me he is new to the school I gave him a tour of the school and we talked he asked if I needed help caring my books I said no we also did a project in school and we got to choose are partners and before I could even moved he asked me to be his partner! I think he likes me but I do not like him I talk to him alot what should I do should I ask for his email? Or ask if he likes me? Or get a friend to.But I am afraid what will happen if he says no.He is nice and all but I do not have feellings for him.

2006-10-17 10:32:37 · 8 answers · asked by Angelgirl! 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke it off with me about 2and a half months ago. We were supposed to get married this year. We have 3 kids together and one on the way. He said he couldn't trust me. Yeah, I have done some stupid stuff in the past and I have grown up a lot since then. He has done some pretty stupid stuff too. There were other variables in the picture that were not helping. We were both doing wrong and I forgave him. I guess he didn't do the same. I know that he still loves me, he told me that he would always love me. He just got a new g/f. How could he move on so fast? What kind of girl would want to take him away from his family? I just feel like we could finally get things right now that we have both stopped doing stupid things. How can I prove that to him? I just need to know what I can do to get him to realize what we have and how stupid he is for letting it go. We have been together for 11 yrs on and off. Please be nice, I am really depressed. I just found out he had a g/f sunday.

2006-10-17 10:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by day dreamin baby 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

who is better to marry with, if there is no a full mutual love inbebween: the girl who loves you ( but you have a normal feeling to him), or the girl who do you love ( but she have have a normal feeling to you)?

2006-10-17 10:32:25 · 9 answers · asked by rassai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm happy being single. I dont want marriage or kids. But sometimes I just get real lonely and want someone there. Is it as great as everyone makes out? Esp as 1 in 3 marriages end in divorce?

2006-10-17 10:32:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who i really like. i asked her out a year ago but she said no. since then we have grown very close. i dont think asking her out is a good idea cuz were both in college and dont wanna be tied down to someone. i wanna become friends with benfits with her. how do i go about doing this

2006-10-17 10:30:58 · 5 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

What's the number to the rejection line? I have this girl who won't stop bothering me for my number. I told herthat I don't like her and won't give her my number. Yet, she still persists to try and get it!! I knoe I'm being mean but she just doesn't get it.

2006-10-17 10:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by dK 1 in Singles & Dating

a couple months ago, after the prom, me and some of my friends (2 girls and 4 guys) threw a little prom afterparty. We were watching this really boring movie and i commented on its stupidity.

My friend ( a guy) tried to kick me from across the couch. he still had his prom dress sock s on. i grabbed his legs when he tried to kick me, pulled off his socks, and tickled the soles of his barefeet. He fell back laughing so hard that another one of my friends had to stuff one of his dress socks in his mouth. The gag muffled his laugh, and when he stopped laughing he put his socks back on, and called me a series of rude names, including queer. I don't know what to do, why is he so mad, i was only messing around. Maybe it had something to do with the fact that his feet stunk really bad when i pulled off his socks. please what should do, and how should i appoligize, because he still wont speak to me.

2006-10-17 10:29:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family