What can I do to convince my wife that it isnt "dirty" to go down on me after I've been in her? She thinks that it's a lesbian thing.
She has no problem with me going down on her after I've already been inside.
2006-10-17 10:43:09 · 41 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay....I see her point, but it's only for a split second that we taste ourselves....it might turn her off, but it goes away after two licks, ya know? I'm dirty, so I don't mind, but sometimes I do mind and I'm not in the mood to taste a girl.....but it is herself so tell her to be comfortable with who she is and what she tastes like because you LOVE IT!!!! That will make her smile and feel confident.
2006-10-17 10:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a really individual thing - maybe she is creeped out by the idea of tasting herself. You can assure her that it is not a lesbian thing. Will she go down on you otherwise? If not, then perhaps she is using it as an excuse - maybe she doesn't like the tsate of *you*. She wouldn't want to hurt you, so doesn't want to tell you that. More likely she doesn't want to taste herself, or "woman" in general, hence the lesbian remark. It is not such a bad thing, you can tell her a straight girl said so ;~) though she might not be too excited about you talking about it... I don't know your wife. Good luck man - everybody has different sexual tastes, as it were, and just as some men taste better than others, perhaps so do some women. I don't know for sure, but it seems likely. Just tell her she tastes good, and not to worry about it. At the same time though, don't pressure her, that won't go over well. Tell her it's okay if she doesn't want to, but she might actually like it, and that won't make her a lesbian.
2006-10-17 10:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by JouLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....sturdy bloody violence, however the sexual content fabric is your worry? not that I also have a concern with the two in video clips, in simple terms concept it become kinda humorous. that's what IMDb says: A boy and a woman kiss passionately some cases; they make out on the floor of a barn attic (not something exhibit is depicted) as they start to undress. they are interrupted in the past they bypass too some distance. a woman and a boy kiss passionately and playfully fondle one yet another as they start to undress (the lady's bare larger buttocks are seen as she eliminates her pants.) They then climb into mattress, the place they kiss lower back and are later shown nude having intercourse (this scene is extremely exhibit; we see the boy thrusting on top of the lady and pay attention moaning from the two, besides as a picture of the boy's bare buttocks being groped by utilising the lady and a few reasonable glimpses of the lady's bare top breast.) on the tip of this scene, the lady rolls over, revealing her bare top breast, that's uncovered for some moments.
2016-11-23 16:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can do anything to change your wife's view of this act. It is purely a personal choice on whether it is acceptable or enjoyable or even tolerable. Just accept her as she is and don't keep score on the sex life (thinking that because you're comfortable going down on her after intercourse, she should be comfortable too).
2006-10-17 10:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, it is always the best solution. If she doesn't want to, dont ask her again. And dont try and convince her, because if you push the issue too hard, it will eventually start a fight. Ive almost lost my wife due to arguments that were relatively small.
2006-10-17 10:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by lordshelbysf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL - wow, she thinks her own bodily fluids make her a lesbian that's interesting. You'll have to respect her. I would attempt to talk to her about it but if you push her, she's likely to resent you or avoid sex.... You married her and there are some battles that you can't win. Give it a good try and if she won't budge, let it go man.
2006-10-17 10:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep!! The hypocrisy continues.
From the looks of it, she doesn't like her own body.
That's a bunch of b$&&%#@!
You don't hear men going around talking about, "That makes me gay if I go down on my woman after I've been in her."
What kind of nonsense is that?
2006-10-17 10:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just ins't comfortable with it. Does she kiss you after you go down on her? Maybe she just doesn't want to know what she tastes like. I have some ideas that may help, but won't discuss them on yahoo answers
2006-10-17 10:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't go down on her and say how can it be a lesbian thing if your doing it and even if it comes to it watch a porm movie so she can see for herself.
2006-10-17 10:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by sez75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew...this iz pretty nasty question!
R u sure it's allowed??
Anyway, here goes my answer....
First, u r sounding pretty kinky if u taste her after u burst inside of her...that's on u!
If she doesn't want to kiss your "dip stick" after u "checked her oil" , just have some baby wipes by the bed to clean up before she pleasures u. She will enjoy it better! and you'll smell really nice too!!
That reminds me, I need to pick up another box myself !!
2006-10-17 10:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋