Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

I am semi-seeing a guy for a month We hang out about once a week and he comes to my apartment afterwards, but no sex. I have issues about sex due to certain things when I was younger, but I didn't tell him. I just told him I never want sex. (I'm 20--he's 23.)

He asks me what I wants, and I don't know. He says "you really don't know, do you?"

We both semi-recently got out of long term relationships. He told me was dating a psycho girl who in his second date, he told her he didnt want a relationship. She got naked and tried to have sex with him, and he had to kick her out of her apartment.

I do like him,b ut I don't know if I want to go further, as in a relationship for various reasons:
1) He told me he's not looking for a relationship, but he keeps asking me to tell him what I want...which doesn't make sense to me.
2) I have issues about sex, and he's a very sexual person.
3) I'm not sure what he wants from me.

What do you think he wants to know from me?

2006-10-17 11:21:59 · 18 answers · asked by wondering why 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been happily married to my wife for a little over a year now. Recently (probably within the last several months), we have run out of things to talk about. I work a lot and so we talk to each other on the phone often. Lately, we end up talking about how we don't have anything much to talk about. We both really wish we had exciting things to talk to each other about. Now and then something will come up that we can talk about (usually work related), but otherwise it's just generic things like "how are you doing?". In our current circumstances, we don't have a whole lot of money (or time) to go out and do things. We're not broke, but we're not making enough to do things all the time. Basically, to sum things up, I really enjoy talking to my wife on the phone throughout the day since I work long hours, and she looks forward to talking to me also, but we are both sort of annoyed at the fact that we have nothing to talk about. What can we do???

2006-10-17 11:21:30 · 17 answers · asked by dsdxp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I ask a man a question pertaining to our relationship or just a general question. How come he totally avoids answering the question?

2006-10-17 11:21:25 · 17 answers · asked by jw_5588 1 in Singles & Dating

In relationships it's always the good men and women who are constantly cheated on and betrayed. If they are so good then why are they always the one to get hurt?

2006-10-17 11:20:47 · 20 answers · asked by dcutegirl06 4 in Singles & Dating

Fantisies that they don't feel comfortable telling their significant other about, and what are they?

2006-10-17 11:20:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dumped a B/F due to the sex life being just horible. I mean whatever the reason may be. Size, lack of eomotional connection, etc, etc,.

2006-10-17 11:20:31 · 12 answers · asked by the one who knows 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 11:20:28 · 11 answers · asked by svk 1 in Family

No, I'm not planning to be in one, thank you.

2006-10-17 11:19:06 · 12 answers · asked by Road Trip 3 in Weddings

If a close friend of yours, with a mental illness hurt you or a member of your family, due to their illness and not to their own will, would you forgive them?

2006-10-17 11:18:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-17 11:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by Punchy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hedoesn't want to screw up his immigration status. He put me through hell through the whole relationship. I also supported him and the rest of our family on one income. Should I wait for him to pay for it since I'm not in the financial situation to do so as a single mother?

2006-10-17 11:17:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 11:17:34 · 3 answers · asked by Sexy chick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, is there's such a thing as a woman that can REALLY be a real help meet for a man according to the Bible, and if there is such a woman out there, I would like to meet you.
You MUST be a born again person. Saved and washed in the precious Blood of Jesus our Lord and Savior.
That Jesus is your Lord and Savior and willing to love me and accept me for what Iam and i will also do the same for you.
Iam divorced but i have a daughter that really loves me as a dad and she too loves Jesus and she's cute and she's 12 years old and a honor student.......
A woman that would also accept my friends and a woman that would be a lover of the truth.
If I can find a woman that loves Jesus, i will give her all my love and affection and I will treat you like a lady in every respect of the word.

2006-10-17 11:17:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you know any good songs i could print lyrics for for my best dude freind?

2006-10-17 11:17:21 · 9 answers · asked by kole 1 in Friends

-i've had a few...."sigh"

2006-10-17 11:17:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl at work I have fancied for ages but i'm a bit shy to ask her out because I don't know if she's single. I don't know her very well. She works on a different floor but when I walk past her desk I always smile and she smiles back. We usually talk if we bump into each other. She's happy to talk to me and we have a laugh but I don't read anything into that because she's like that with everyone. Main problem is finding out if she's seeing anyone else. If I knew she isn't, then I'd probablies have the courage to ask her out.

2006-10-17 11:17:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it better to have a father whom is in and out of your life, in and out of jail, has a psyco family ect or to have none of that drama at all???

2006-10-17 11:16:38 · 43 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has convinced herself that she does not need to marry her b/f of 10 years. They have 2 children, buying their first home (he is , she is going on as a co-buyer). While her b/f has climed the career ladder she has been in the background w/ kids, housework, and working PT as a bar tender hoping and struggling to be able to one day attend community college to do something for her self which he is not very supportive of. She is convinced if he was to die/ leave she would be able to mantain the lifestyle she has. My sister's fiancee drives a 06 jeep commander, makes 50-60K yr, has freedom to do as he pleases, and has health insurance. My sister has no ins nor do the children and the fiancee can't put them on b/c she used state aid and no paternity papers were signed. My sis assumes I am jealous and no nothing but I am only a single parent of three, I know first hand of the mistakes she is making. Why are women in this position so ignorant and cheating themselves?

2006-10-17 11:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by nene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when a guy asks you out, and he doesn't even kno your name? Like what does that mean.. is it all about sex?

2006-10-17 11:16:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i still love my boyfriend but this is hard to get over. i don't think this is the first time but he's cheated but it's the first time i have enough evidence he had to stop denying it. i have been 100% faithful. he says he's sorry but why was he doing this?
how do i get over this? on top of that the girl he cheated with found out her ex has hep c and believes he got it from her. She went to get tested today.

2006-10-17 11:15:52 · 6 answers · asked by joplynne 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

think they are the best but ain't.

2006-10-17 11:15:16 · 20 answers · asked by sexyeri 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a tiny sprinkle!! like fish food.

2006-10-17 11:14:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I found a letter in my girlfriends purse. She was their when she remembered what it was she didn't want me to read it. I had a couple of things that worried me. Her and a guy was passing the note. Anyway in one part she talked about working my corner meaning that she would only sleep with me. But then she said that if he wanted her to come to her corner between 1 and 7. That got me to loose her trust. I still love her with all of my heart. But I don't know what to do. We are still together and it's been a couple of weeks since I read it but it still bugs me. What should I do?

2006-10-17 11:14:27 · 18 answers · asked by romeo3448 2 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex has a long criminal history and is living with his mother whom smokes like a chimney. He refuses to agree to anything pertaining to the divorce and is now leaving child custody in the hands of a judge. I am so scared that he will get some visitation with our 6 week old son that is unsupervised and he will run. He has only spent about 4 hours total with our son since his birth and contributes very little. My attorney says not to worry but this is my child and I am scared.

2006-10-17 11:14:14 · 15 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am active duty air force. the palc ei am at is absolutly no good. i am pcs'ing (moving) in 3 1/2 months. i am starting to get the i dont care attitude. i know that its not the right thing but i feel as though i get screwed over here way to much and i get angry at the peopl ei work with/for. its hard to not get the i dont care thing going knowing im leaving real soon. do you got any advice for me

2006-10-17 11:12:34 · 7 answers · asked by lpxerounderground 3 in Family

2006-10-17 11:12:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 11:11:55 · 16 answers · asked by star_unknown1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this an exscusable time to react with violence? Just curious how many pascifist would deem in unreasonable.

2006-10-17 11:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were going to die in 5 years (ME!), is it ok to start spending all your money on hookers and partying all the time (No kids to worry about sending to college and no family either).

2006-10-17 11:11:13 · 38 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like a girl who is 12 i am 13 her parents are divorced and i told her bro on the phone i liked his twin sis i only see her twice a month but ive been seein her for about 1 1/2 years how should i flirt and how should i tell her i like her also when should i tell her a couple of months from now or right away im a short guy so she is about an inch taller than me. what should i do accepting all areas of expertise meaning help id like help from everyone.
serious answerers only!!

2006-10-17 11:10:37 · 4 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating