how do u know if its the right time to have a baby?

Answer 1

12-16 days into your period is the best bet for concieving

Answer 2

This was a big question for me when I was young. I kept putting it off as it never seemed like the right time. I met my future hubby at 19, married at 25 and had my first baby at 29. That worked for me. I was not really ready emotionally sooner. I wanted to cement the relationship with my hubby in married life first and make sure we both had decent jobs and a way to care for a baby.

I have been married now 30 years. I look back now and think maybe I should have been ready a little sooner as I was scared of the process of having a baby. I was scared that we were also not ready that nothing was ever perfect enough.
But I look back now and realize we could have started a little sooner. Just because I want plenty of time with my grandkids when they come. I don't want to bale out of this life without seeing them grow up and get married. Then I will be ready to go.

Make sure the time is right for you both. And please don't bring a child into a bad situation like lack of money or stability. Work on that first and then have the baby. It is better for you and the baby. But don't let fear stand in your way either.

Good Luck

Answer 3

There is never a right time to have a baby,ask 100 people if they had the right time for them to have their babies, You can try to be physically healthy,financially well off, in a sound relationship,little or no marital strife, work place secure,etc. Or you can just do the best you can with what you have and work around all the obstacles like the rest of us

Answer 4

When you don't live in your paretns house. have a job and a HUSBAND that will support you through everything and he must have a job also. Not in debt and have transportation. All the gorwn up stuff. Even then, you still might not be ready, having a baby takes your life away so you can give it to baby.:)

Answer 5

Check out all the bad things that are happening in the world: endless wars, irrepairable destruction of the environment, over-fishing, sterile soil, climate change.
Then ask yourself if any time is the right time to bring another person into this world.

Answer 6

When you have a Stable Relationship (preferrably Marriage), when you EARN ENOUGH from your Employment to PAY FOR ALL THE NEEDS of that Child, when you can AFFORD to continue to pay for the NEEDS of that Child UNTIL they reach 18 years of age, and when you can be there 24/7 as a Supportive, Responsible PARENT to that Child --

THEN ... think about having that infant.

OTHERWISE -- do everything you can so that you DO NOT HAVE A CHILD!

Answer 7

If you have compassion for children and enjoy being around them.

If you're financially secure.

And if you think you can raise them in this society being the way it is.

I think to be a good parent, you need to be smart and compassionate - and not one without the other.

Answer 8

there is no exact science but some of the other answer touch on it.

But let me surmize:

A stable income.
A stable home.
A nurchering relationship
A desire to share your love

And be married to the man of your dreams... and make sure he is a mommas boy, cuz she probably instilled a lot of emotion and love into his personality.

If you are asking for an age...there is no answer

Answer 9

No one is ever REALLY READY. You just have to look at the timing in your life.. if ....no one is really sick... financially ok.... support/ spouse & family... and if you can see yourself years from now with kids and in a state of total ,unselfishness, try it. No one can even promise it'll happen, just count it a blessing if it does.

Answer 10

When you actually fall pregnant is the perfect time