In relationships it's always the good men and women who are constantly cheated on and betrayed. If they are so good then why are they always the one to get hurt?
2006-10-17 11:20:47 · 20 answers · asked by dcutegirl06 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is a quote that I'd like to use for this answer.
"Sometimes God brings us the jerks so when a good one comes around, we can spot them, realize they're different, and know to appreciate them." If you do NOT believe in God, please don't be offended. We all have our own beliefs and I respect that.
This is a way for us to be tested. Normally, even good people have a tendency to take advantage of a person that is too kind. If this is happening to you, please stick up for yourself and make a man aware that he shouldn't mistaken your kindness for weakness.
2006-10-17 11:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing you never hear about women in the same kind of shoes that a man is in. Men are not the only ones paying child support. Child support is for the child, how a person spends that money has no control over it. You don't have to show proof or evidence that money is being used only for the child. The only real issue I have about child support is the amount that is given for support. Taking the amount, dividing by 19 years and then dividing by 12 is just a little over $438.00 a month. There are people who pay a hell of a lot more than that for child support. You got married, you had kids and you have a financial obligation. Some of your details is simply illogical.
2016-03-28 13:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that the good men and women are always screwed over is because when people see that you are a good person they always want to take advantage of you. They think that you dont have common sense to see that you are being treated wrong or the sense to leave the relationship. They are so quick to say that they are too good and that their standards are too high to find someone better than the person that they are with.
What they dont know about good men and women is that we have more sense than they want to give us credit for. We look at things in a totally different way than they would and we are independent and can always make it on our own.
2006-10-17 17:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they- i'm talking from experience, and i'm not gonna say i'm good- but i was better than he was..... That these people are the ones who do everything for that person, the good people live in this world where they expect everybody to be in the same goodness level as themselves. It's slightly deceited because nobody is like yourself. This i learnt the hardway. Just because i was going out of my way and it didn't feel like it at the time, and i didn't ask questions or quiz his whereabouts or got jealous- he took advantage of the fact that i didn't react to any of it and had many different girls he attended to as well as me. I thought people treated one another as how they'd like to be treated therefore i was too stupid to give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't give anyone the benefit of the doubt. Don't make them promise you to tell the truth- if you see that something's wrong- you should start exiting out of the relationship before you realise you've invested too much time with a worthless piece of excrement when there are other people you may have rejected to be with a donkey's anus!
2006-10-17 11:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the good people get screwed over because people usually think they are the good one. I am sure the most evil and cruel people still think they are good or better than everyone else.
We can easily rationalize our foibles while condemning others for the same things we do.
2006-10-17 11:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Your Best Fiend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a high price to pay for being good. Because we choose to rise above the idiotic masses, we choose to meet the consequences of such higher standards. Good always beats evil.
2006-10-17 11:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They get screwed over because they usually jump in too fast...don't pay attention to the signs....and are very gullible.
This may happen to a lot of people once but it should never happen twice.
2006-10-17 11:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. My b/f and I are both divorced from our ex's and we both got screwed over in court. But at least it is almost over and we are happy together.
2006-10-17 11:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to know that too. I think it's because they are softer hearted and more trusting and the ones who cheat take advantage of that.
2006-10-17 11:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by MissJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very good question. I think it's just a part of life and it's a way for us to appreciate a good person even more when we do find them.
2006-10-17 11:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋