Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

how do you tell when a girl is checking you out?

2006-10-17 11:54:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-17 11:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by sexcraz420 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 18 and i have never being in a serious relationship. Girls do say i'm good looking. But the problem is that i am an introvert which makes me quite oblivious. And i also have a self esteem problem. I need your suggestions. How can i come over my shyness and approach a girl i desire? Pls! i'm really dying of loneliness and curiousity.

2006-10-17 11:53:05 · 27 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

Mother's name is Diane G. Bennett of Scottsdale, AZ. Brother's name is Gregory Bennett of Milkwakee, WI. Daughter Rebecca Levine of Glendale, Ca. Catherine "Cat" is know to live in northern California, Libra, attractive, friend of Perception magizine and has clear political views.

If known, have her call Perception, the number hasn't changed.

2006-10-17 11:51:54 · 2 answers · asked by FOZ 4 in Friends

Here's the situation - I've been dating this guy for about a year and a half. Things were alright while we had seperate places. I experienced medical problems with massive bills and he talked me into moving in with him a few months ago to keep me financial above water. Now I'm miserable. It doesn't feel like I'm his girlfriend/mate, it feels like I'm his mother and/or maid. I've discussed this with him on a couple of occasions and he said he would make a conscious effort to help out, but it just seems to get worse. He is free to come and go as he pleases, but asks me 1000 every time I leave the house. How do I end this easily? I'm really not looking for a huge blow-out, I just want to walk away.

2006-10-17 11:51:40 · 11 answers · asked by ladygodiva0220 2 in Singles & Dating

and my best friends like him to

2006-10-17 11:51:07 · 1 answers · asked by sassykassy95 2 in Friends

I like my guy friend who I've only really gotten to know over the past about month. We have talked about really personal things and on the phone we were talking about friends and I said something about 10 friends and he said something about not having that many real friends and I asked if I was one of his real friends and he was like "Of course!" which is awesome. We haven't hung out outside of school except at one football game for an hr we had a personal convo outside of the field.
I don't know what to do...a lot of girls like him, he's a huge flirt, and he likes a lot of girls. I like him a lot and I don't mind him being a flirt AT ALL...it's part of who he is, but he 1. doesnt want to break any hearts and 2. said he gets bored w/ girls kinda fast. I guess that's typical for a musician, though, but I know he can be committed and stable. I like him a lot and I don't know what to do, but I WILL NOT ask him out. How can I get him to come to me? Thanx!

2006-10-17 11:50:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My divorce was final three and a half years ago... I am remarried! I got this letter today from the courts! I will call the courthouse in the morning but AHHHH! What does this mean? Can they go back and dismiss a final divorce decree??

2006-10-17 11:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going with my boyfriend for 10 years i really love him. but this weekend his brother got married on sunday and him and the girl been dating for 1 year and decide to get married we was doing fine but all of a sudden on sat he wanted to see other people because he say i don't treat him right i wanted to work things out but he want to see other people but i cried and bugged to make him stay but i stop trying because he wanted to go so i let him but now as i sit around the house thinking the reason he broke up with me could be because his brother got married after a year with his girlfriend and he is jealous that we been together 10 years and haven't got married or do u think he found someone else please help???

2006-10-17 11:49:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 11:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by Pat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i am 14 i like this one guy and i cant seem to win his heart and i need help just a littel because i am going to be 15 in december and i really hate it will some one tell me how to win a guys heart

2006-10-17 11:48:34 · 13 answers · asked by small_funky_monkey 1 in Singles & Dating

My 1st cousin (L.Ware) had an affair with my husband. my husband confessed to me & ended w/her. She is really hurt b/c she thought the feelings they had were real. My other cousin (C.Allen) gave her $1K cash and financed the $1K 2 years ago. I paid her back slowly & hit some really hard financial times. I told her. The 2 of them R really close now. L.Ware is still upset b/c I am happy working on my marriage & my husband won't have any dealings w/her. Today I was served some papers saying that C.Allen is sueing me. I know that the "real person behind this is L.Ware, this is her way to get me upset; & work on my emotions. So in the mist of everything, I have not shown her any anger/hatered, I just simply cut off all ties with that side of my family. What should I do now. My 1st reaction was cuss both of them out; show L.Ware's husband my proof of the affair w/my husband, just create h*ll. Or just stay on my path of happiness. Life is so hard, but why family, I will never trust!

2006-10-17 11:48:11 · 21 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She only likes guys to go down on her. How could a girl like that more than sex?????

2006-10-17 11:47:49 · 9 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

last month i dated a guy (he's 19, i'm18) for 2 weeks ( we met online n were in contact online for 2.5 months, then we started dating in person). During the 2 weeks we dated, i got raped by him on the 3rd and 4rth days. I didn't want to have sex, i was a virgin, He pressured me in to sex. However when he was having sex with me, i didn't fight back, i didn't scream, i just said "no" n "stop", n after sex i cried a bit. But that's it. I again continued dating him, again he forced him self on me n raped me again, yet i didn't fight back. I didn't broke up with him either . Then, since sex was all he wanted, we had sex again 2 more times, but during these times i no longer said no, i was not participating in sex, meaning i would just lay there n he would do his thing. It didn't feel ne thing to me. I did it becuz i knew that's wat he wanted, i wanted to keep him happy, becuz had i said no he would break up with me. But he did ne way, after the 2nd week. there's more in to this, plz wait..

2006-10-17 11:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am already mature for my age but i can be a dick, stupid, attention getting and i won't to quit. But i hate stiff people and i'd hate to start being stiff and become hypocritcal.

2006-10-17 11:44:41 · 6 answers · asked by Jae 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this boy well 2 boys they both like me and have asked me out but i like 1 more than the other they both really like me i dont want to turn 1 of them down because i like the other 1 more what are friends with benifits?HELP ME!!!!!

2006-10-17 11:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by Joyce S. 2 in Singles & Dating

I had flowers sent to my wife just because and she has the nerve to say that I either did somethign wrong or I want something.

I HAVE NEVER sent her flowers to apologize for doing something wrong or to get something my a way so I dont know where she got that idea.

I took the flowers and threw them in the garbage and now she is mad at me....... if ANYTHING I should be the one mad dont you think?

2006-10-17 11:44:30 · 21 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He's 23 and I'm 22. I'm in college and he dropped out. Last summer we were laying down and he said "will you marry me" and I said yes, eventually. Then he said "I'm asking right now". So I said yes and I thought that meant we were going to get the ring.

Over the summer he left for a month to work at a summer camp. He asked me numerous times and asked if I should be w/him to buy the ring, I said yes because I'd like to help and I don't want something extravagant for my small fingers. He talked about it maybe every other night he was gone.

He hasn't brought it up since then and I don't know if I'm supposed to ask or what, or if I'm supposed to get rid of him for messing w/me like that.

2006-10-17 11:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dumb founded crazy love. I love my wife so much and we have been married for 20 years I love her so much I just don't know how to express myself anymore. Please help need Ideas. She has stayed by my side through thick and thin. Over all I can say she is the perfect wife and I would never trade her for anyone. I have been sick and I mean real sick and it will ultimately cripple me and to top it all off I have Memory loss. That will lead to Alzheimer and dementure. How do I show this woman just how much I appreciate just what she means to me and I love her unconditionally as well. This is and should be very easy but it eludes me and I really need help expressing it to her.

2006-10-17 11:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by Barry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a bit depressed and question myself alot any advice?

2006-10-17 11:42:42 · 28 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she trusts me with anything. Im her first boyfriend and i think we are in love but i cant help but feel i might take advantage of her trust one day...i dont even know if this is a question i just need someone to understand my problem and advise me...

2006-10-17 11:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by manic_chili_pepper 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wiv him4 3yrs.Things have always been strained,but he has ALWAYS been obsessively lovin2wards me.We finally agreed 2end it 2weeks ago,but as this was something that had happened many times before,I wasn't really expectin it2b any different this time,tho I knew that we'd have 2end 1day.He kept callin me4the next week,&tried 2c me,but I I didn't call him; I just answered his texts.then,1week ago, everything stopped,&I texted him 2night (just a couple of words -nothin heavy), &he called me back,sayin how he missed me &that I'd always b a part of his life (we don't live close &have no mutual friends) &how I'm the only person who'll ever really know him.But he also said he's seein some1 else now,&was at her mum&dads havin dinner wiv them when he called!I know that he's a3agent,but I can't see how all this could have developed in just a week.He also told me in this call how he's put me down as sole beneficiary of his life insurance.He never told me that before.What is he tryin2tell me?

2006-10-17 11:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by viv friend 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 11:40:39 · 16 answers · asked by buff831 2 in Singles & Dating

ok yall im a bisexual right and i really like and i mean like like my best friend and she knos and shes ok wit it cause shes a bisexual 2(she told me a while back)but i dont kno if she likes me she said she does sorta and she acts like it she does and i really act like i do and she knos i do and the other day was was talkin bout me likein her and she said "I dont ask chicks out Sorry" so i didnt kno what 2 say so does that mean that she wants me 2 ask her or what do yall think it ment PLEASE HELP cause i wanna ask her out but i dont kno if thats what she wants me 2 do so what do yall think HELP!!!!!!

2006-10-17 11:40:30 · 4 answers · asked by Need help!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

While on my boyfriends computer, I found out that he likes to watch porn of teenagers. It made my stomach turn. I don't know what to do. We just moved in together two weeks ago, we have bank accounts together, and we have been off and on again for 3 years. What should I do?

2006-10-17 11:40:26 · 15 answers · asked by Royal Queen 2 in Singles & Dating

At what point can you gather the strength to kick out a beloved child who is a heroin addict but refuses to get help. She is no where near bottom yet but she is having a bad effect on her younger sisters who look up to her. Is it possible to have her in the home and lay down your rules and expect her to obey them? Any suggestions please.

2006-10-17 11:38:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My co-workers have told me that there's this divorced woman (early 40's, but looks YOUNGER), at the office, who seems to find me attractive.

This statement has also been claimed by the woman's closest female friend.

The problem is: She's OLDER than I am, but looks good.

First, when I used to see her, she used to act like there was nothing going on and greeted me as if she HAD to.

Then, everything changed. She was much MORE friendly, but now I had started to act TOTALLY CARELESS towards her.

NOW: I like her and I have started to think a lot on her, but I just pretend I don’t care about, though curiousity is killing me!

2006-10-17 11:36:25 · 18 answers · asked by R. H 1 in Singles & Dating

Ten points will be awarded... guaranteed!

2006-10-17 11:36:00 · 14 answers · asked by Mike S 7 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend is pregnant and she want's to know what rights the father will have, she is 18 and the boyfriend 16 1/2. She hasn't told the boyfriend, because she doesn't want him to have to pay childsupport, is there a way to get around it??

2006-10-17 11:35:59 · 5 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend right and she keeps teasing me how i have a small bust size and to tell u the truth her's aren't that big either. but it's just that their a bit bigger than mine. I'm a 32A. It took me forever to get to like them like they are and i keep ignoring what she keeps saying to me. it's like she teases me and i go i don't mind i like them now. and then she responds by saying something like eww man that is so stupid, how can u like small busts. and i get so pissed of and i tell her that but she just doesn't seem to understand. i'm a very open person and i keep telling to shut up about it. when i finally begin to like my bust she starts making fun of me in front of everybody and most of the time i say what i think and i say i really don't care how small or big they are and most people agree with me but her. and sometimes i take her with me to go shopping and when igo to the bra's section and i look at all the small sizes she starts laughing. I feel like strangling her. help!!!!!

2006-10-17 11:35:28 · 49 answers · asked by paige_luna_pearl 1 in Friends