Flowers for no reason........ last time I ever do that?

Question

I had flowers sent to my wife just because and she has the nerve to say that I either did somethign wrong or I want something.

I HAVE NEVER sent her flowers to apologize for doing something wrong or to get something my a way so I dont know where she got that idea.

I took the flowers and threw them in the garbage and now she is mad at me....... if ANYTHING I should be the one mad dont you think?

this has nothing to do with sex...... I dont have to buy gifts to get laid

Answer 1

That is nice you sent her flowers for no reason but there is always a reason for everything. It has been awhile since I got flowers and would love to get them but unfortunately I would probably have to ask what's up and maybe when she asked you why you got her the flowers; you had a guilty look or something on your face. I think what you did was nice and I hope you and your wife don't argue for too long about that. Maybe she was just in shock and her response wasn't the appropriate response. A lot of times people don't respond the way we think they should. Please work it out and keep treating her with respect.

Answer 2

Have you ever sent her flowers for a special occasion? If not that may be why she thinks you did something bad or want something. My husband has never sent me flowers for anything, good or bad. SO if he sent me flowers just because I would know something was going on. You and your wife should sit down and talk this over...I don't think you should be mad, that is how a lot of women would react. And she is only upset because the flowers you sent her were so beautiful and you trashed 'em. Good luck.

Answer 3

Redeye, this ques made my month. first off, she was obviously reading that elusive manual 'Encyclopedia of the world's wierdest women's behavior'. If you study the answers and ques. around here the answer pops right up. Females of our species who are in committed relationships are taught by the Elders that ANY change in hubby's predictable, dull, simple, routine, selfish behavior constitutes an obvious affair. I had the exact same experience as you long ago, and I don't think she ever really believed me. Solution: If you send gifts for the thoughtfulness, you must NEVER stop, If you do not exhibit this trait,DO NOT START AT ANY TIME!!, so remember: our women are more suspicious than the Gestapo, believe men are basically pigs, and expect us to lie, so if you want to be nice, make it look like a put down, that way your love will be recognized. My flowers ended up in the same place. For more, feel free to e-mail---R (Oh, by the way..T girl doesn't believe you either, so I rest my case, my man.)

Answer 4

HELL yeah you should be mad!! I wouldn't waste my time or my money ever again on her either. She has shown you a side of her that is not good. Tell her you sent them to her because you love her and wanted to show her in a small way. If she can't accept that, then that's her problem! You were right to throw them away. I'm a women, but you have every right to be pissed off. It kills me. Women talk all the time about their husbands not sending them flowers or writing little love notes, then I hear this and it just makes me want to scream! Make sure you tell her how much she hurt you by her reaction. She needs to hear it!!!

Answer 5

You must love your wife a lot to have had flowers sent to her just because. I think that wasn't right of your wife reacting the way she did when she got the flowers. Yes, I think that you should be the one that is upset and mad. I wish my husband would send me flowers for no other reason than just because.

Answer 6

I think it was sweet of you to buy your wife flowers that had to of hurt when she said what she did. If my husband bought me flowers I dont even care if they were out of a garden it represents something that the simplest things can show someone how much you love them and you dont have to spend alot or any money to do it. Get those flowers out of the trash I will take them lol.

Answer 7

I kinda understand you. I give my wife flowers and gifts all the time, JUST BECAUSE, you know. They don't have the same affect now a days, but oh well, I won't change who I am just because she may react that way.

So if you are that kind of guy, heck don't change. Keep giving her flowers or gifts. That's who you are and don't worry, she'll come around.

Good luck !

Answer 8

Well, if this is the first time you sent her flowers in, say, 20 years, no wonder she is suspiscious. Maybe she doesn't like flowers; I don't like flowers and have asked my husband to not waste his hard-earned money on them. Or maybe she was only kidding... Sounds like you're a bit too sensitive over the whole thing.

Answer 9

WOW what a B*T*H. You should have kept the flowers and tossed her in the trash. Is she like this all the time? If yes, you got some thinking to do. If no, and this was just her being a bit paranoid than shake it off, and go have a laugh about it!

Answer 10

I think she is totally over reacting and seems to be very un-grateful, Don't worry not all women are like this, my man sent me flowers to my works for no reason once and I though it was the most wonderful and thoughtful thing, everyone at my work were trying to convince me that he must of done someting wrong but I refused to listen to them. He was just trying to show his love for me.