While on my boyfriends computer, I found out that he likes to watch porn of teenagers. It made my stomach turn. I don't know what to do. We just moved in together two weeks ago, we have bank accounts together, and we have been off and on again for 3 years. What should I do?
2006-10-17 11:40:26 · 15 answers · asked by Royal Queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you say teens I assume 18+.
Most of those "18 y.o. girls" are probably older than that anyway. They just give them pig tails, etc.
Be kind, talk to him about it and just remember fantasy and real life are something completely different. Many people would never act on a fantasy and that is what makes it so appealing (taboo etc)
2006-10-17 11:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brad NZ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-19 16:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with the web is it's full of preachy Christian types, who go searching for this stuff, and it skews opinion.
Seriously, 99.9% of guys don't watch this stuff. As they really don't enjoy watching young people being taken advantage of abused.
But you know, cut to the chase - does the 18 year old girl want to marry a 50 year old guy as they think Russell Crowe is pretty hot
Women's bodies really don't change a huge amount between the age of 15 and 20. You can't expect guy's to suddenly just start appreciating the exact same body, when a person hits 20.
A guys always going to have some small attraction to a nice, fully formed female body.
2013-12-27 04:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably older women pretending to be teens or girls that are 18 or older. It is illegal to make porn with anyone under the age of 18. I would keep an eye out for it. But I don't think it would be an issue as long as he is not obssesed with it. A lot of dudes are into porn no matter if they are single or in relationships. Most dudes have a porn stash. It is perfectly normal.
Most porn movies have some kind of theme or fetish to them. Like a "teen" or "barely legal," theme. If you are really that curious about it, you should talk to your boyfriend and check out some of the stuff he likes to watch. Who know maybe you'll get into it as well. And it will be better if you guys talk about it and it is out in the open. I'm just surprised it took you three years to find his stash.
2006-10-17 11:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you stumbled onto this while on his computer and didn't snoop. If this is stuff where the "actors" are underage, I would confront him. If I were you you, I would have problems with him watching porn in general. If you are okay with it as long as it isn't really sick stuff, talk to him about it. Not in an angry way, but let him know you disapprove.
2006-10-17 11:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by drbuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are stupid to move in with someone without being married.
2. Does he really have any morals since he's shacking up with you?
3. Teenagers can be 18 or 19 - what's wrong about that?
4. You are on and off - sounds like he's still on and your are off
2006-10-17 11:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old is he? If he's over 30 I'd be really worried. Confront him. Tell him you found the porn by accident and how it makes you feel. If he's not willing to stop, pack up and leave.
2006-10-17 11:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what did u expect porn involving grannies.Above 30 u dont feel any different then when u were 19, so lady face the truth -- its normal!
2006-10-17 11:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by histolytic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perv, perv perv he shouldnt even be watching it, porn is for singles and not for a guy whos has a girl. Tell hims thats nasty and to stop.
2006-10-17 11:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SICK..time to get out...that is not right. Sit him down and ask him what is going on...and that this is not OK for you.
2006-10-17 11:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋