I was wiv him4 3yrs.Things have always been strained,but he has ALWAYS been obsessively lovin2wards me.We finally agreed 2end it 2weeks ago,but as this was something that had happened many times before,I wasn't really expectin it2b any different this time,tho I knew that we'd have 2end 1day.He kept callin me4the next week,&tried 2c me,but I I didn't call him; I just answered his texts.then,1week ago, everything stopped,&I texted him 2night (just a couple of words -nothin heavy), &he called me back,sayin how he missed me &that I'd always b a part of his life (we don't live close &have no mutual friends) &how I'm the only person who'll ever really know him.But he also said he's seein some1 else now,&was at her mum&dads havin dinner wiv them when he called!I know that he's a3agent,but I can't see how all this could have developed in just a week.He also told me in this call how he's put me down as sole beneficiary of his life insurance.He never told me that before.What is he tryin2tell me?
2006-10-17 11:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by viv friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-17 11:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and get over him. You'll feel heaps better when yougo out and have a great time. He probably isn't worrying about all this so why are you? You don't need the stress. Of course he is seeing someone else -he is a boy and thinks about 1 thing constantly and how to get it! Its hard but you have to stop driving yourself insane with all this, smile and retain some dignity and move on
2006-10-17 11:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you like him or care for him more than you realise and though it may sound easier to break up, thats may not be the case with you as you might still care for him.
i guess your kinda worried cos you always thought that deep down you 2 would get back together and so its thrown you off to hear he said hes seeing omeone else right?
well, why else would you care who hes sees if you guys broke up and what would you expect if you screen him off?
he could said hes seeing someone to kinda throw you off and see if you get jealous or he could really have met someone. you dont know. if you have the will power, dont do anthing for one week, answer a text or 2 is ok but thats it. after that week, ask him how his new girlfriend is going and see what he says.
use your gut to know wheather hes making it up or not.
hope that helps, dave
2006-10-17 12:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question to answer because I don't know your age and I don't know who broke it off, but I guess you are young. now, you have to answer some questions yourself. Firstly do you still love him?, do you still trust him? he may be playing games with you. the most important thing is that you do what your heart tells you, if you want him back go for it but if it is jelousy forget it. you will find a better bloke anyway,your instinct is important any you shouldn't ignore it. good luck and tell me how you got on.
2006-10-17 12:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is totally not over you he's made you a load of calls on how he still loves you and because you have'ne responded he is now taking the opportunity to make you jealous as your not responding to his love pleas. If you love him then see if ya can work it out if not move on and find another guy who will make you truly happy and won't flaunt a piece of fluff in ya face
2006-10-17 11:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant always stop loving someone that is life but i think you need to go out there and put yourself back on the market if you dont feel like doing that go out and have a good time keep some friends with you they help
2006-10-17 11:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by niloc2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me again. To be honest men move on much quicker normally which is shameful but true. If you have doubts as to how this could happen so fast then maybe you didnt mean as much to him as you thought. I know that will be hard to hear but maybe it is a good reason for you to put this one down to experience and move on. Men respond much faster if they think that you have given up and moved on. Dont contact him and just get on with your life. if it is meant to be he will soon come running back if he thinks it is you who has moved on
Good Luck
2006-10-17 11:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if it only took him 1 week to get over your 3 year relationship then i say move on,he aint worth it!i know it will be hard but i know you can do it,try to be strong cause there's is someone out there that will love you with the love that you derserve.it sounds like his trying to play with your mind,he's with someone else but your his sole beneficiary of his life insurance, you cant accept that cause if you do then your just gonna find it harder to move on. if you wanna talk you can e.mail me at vickithorpe1984@yahoo.co.uk, i know you dont even know me but us girls gotta stick together x take care x
2006-10-17 11:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by vicki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me a while ago and from what you're saying he still loves you. my ex got over me quickly and then dated my best friend, and they're still going out, but i know that i will always love him, but girl, he still loves you! hang in there!
2006-10-17 11:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by swimmerbaby2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly think hes pretending to have some1 else, just to get to you, why dont you do the same, and see how his behaviour changes when he thinks you have got a new man in your life, guaranteed hel be back with you b4 too long, men dont ike competition
2006-10-17 14:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by darceyolivia02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to help yourself is to keep busy, spend lots of time with friends and you'll soon realise you enjoy life without him.....good luck
2006-10-17 12:17:38 · answer #11 · answered by littlebabygem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋