she trusts me with anything. Im her first boyfriend and i think we are in love but i cant help but feel i might take advantage of her trust one day...i dont even know if this is a question i just need someone to understand my problem and advise me...
2006-10-17 11:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by manic_chili_pepper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stop being silly. why do you think your going to hurt her? do you want to? stop looking for reasons to do it.you will be alright. good luck. and trust her to.I hope u enjoy.
2006-10-17 12:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, why would you want to take advantage of her, some people are brought up to trust others until there is not a reason to not trust them,,,and how do you mean you feel like you might take advantage of her trust one day?? What do you think you might do?
2006-10-17 11:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal to feel that you might take advantage of her kindness, but please remember not to take her kindness for weakness. She can easily turn into something completely differnt if you mess with her, don't doubt that.
I learned from my own brother and his girfriend's relationship that if you give too much (trust-in your case) of anything you can be taken for granted. I understand you probably "need" her to doubt you ,at least alittle, right? so that way she knows that you can be a "bad boy" too in a sense. All in all she is too nice and you should leave her that way. I would advise you to feel what is right and wrong and act on it, PRONTO. Stay focused.
2006-10-17 11:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tanyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, honestly. I don't know why you would take advantage of her trust. She's new to the dating thing, and if you break her trust, she will be insecure and jealous for the rest of her life. I know this because that's how my last relationship was, untrusting and insecure. She was cheated on and I payed for it. But that's beside the point. Don't Ruin Her Trust, Whatever You Do.
2006-10-17 11:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that there is nothing wrong with trusting you but there is no need because she will run into somebody that will take advantage of her. she can trust but not alot. its not safe or good for her in the long run. theres nothing wrong though just it would seem a little nieve and seems like she would need to learn that everyone cant be trusted. but you being her first bf try your best not to take advantage cuz she'll hate you later
2006-10-17 11:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude I know where ur at right now I thought the same thing about my gf when we first got together but when push comes to shove if she trusts you she won't be all like in ur face yelling at you and accusing u of cheating if u get home a little late. they'll just make sure you're ok and then give u dinner or a hug. trust me it's a good thing if she trusts you then that shows she loves you. So go and have fun dude.
2006-10-17 11:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by nothingforthebest666 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, When someone you have cared for and trusted breaks that trust you had in them. It can really hurt. So, please be careful not to take advantage of the trust she has in you because it might be hard for her trust you again.
2006-10-17 12:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Susie B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE PROBABLY IS TRUSTING YOU WAY TOO MUCH. BUT, YOU SHOULD CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY. NOT EVERYONE CAN FIND SOMEONE TO LOVE THEM THAT MUCH.
2006-10-17 11:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by i'm smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have problem on your own. How to advice somebody to do something stupid.
2006-10-17 11:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋