Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

I have 2 close friends that are a couple. The woman just announced she's pregnant and the man proposed. They are planning their wedding and everything but I know for a fact she slept with someone else. Should I say something or should I leave it for them to work out? I've known the man 7 years and the woman 4 so these aren't new relationships but you never know how someone will react.

2006-10-17 10:56:16 · 15 answers · asked by Renee22358 1 in Friends

You must know that Eid is religeous occation. I want to surprise my husband with some unusual gift. Any idea? I'm staying in London.

2006-10-17 10:55:26 · 3 answers · asked by star_unknown1 3 in Family

okay i went out with this guy 4 times and the last time was a total blow and he took it outta proportion when i dumped him and now he hates me well it has been about 4 months now and i just don't know but he usually is callin me a whore in the halls and all that ****! and he punched me once, but today he was nice and he told me i looked really pretty in my picture so i am sooooooooooooooooo confused!! well help me out plz

2006-10-17 10:55:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been noticing his first and last name everywhere. I have been debating with myself whether or not to look him up to get the dreams to stop. I believe I must have some unresolved issues with him and thats why I keep thinking about him. I also am at the end of a 14 year marriage so I wonder if I am just re-acting from that relationship ending (it's ending on good terms). What do you think? If I contact him, will I just be "stirring the pot" and creating drama? I just want to find a way to have peace of mind instead of constantly daydreaming.

2006-10-17 10:55:02 · 7 answers · asked by Semi-charmed 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:55:00 · 2 answers · asked by La-Necka J 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I've been in the dating game for quite awhile and I think guys and girls know what time it is when you get that 2am phone call right? This guy I know who I have had "relations" with in the past called me at 2 am and left me a VM saying he just wanted to see how I'm doing. Well I was out with friends and didn't get the message until the next morning. When I called him back the next day and asked him what he wanted "Hint Hint Wink Wink" He said he was just seeing how I was. (Ok then) SOOO a day later I'm thinking the rules of engagement can work both ways, I told him I was going to drop by for a little while and hang out. It's about 8pm on Sunday. He's like cool. When I get to his house Nothing happens! He tries nothing. When I brought it up he sounded appalled like how could I dare be thinking about that. Needless to say I left. Well here is my question. If you miss the phone call can you rain check it for another day or is the mood gone?

2006-10-17 10:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like i hate it when it is the weekends, because after all i am 12 and they take forever! the 5 days i do go 2 school, it use 2 be the other way around, why is it like this, i hadn't EVER talked 2 him, so i dont know why i like him so much besides the fact he is so damn cute!

2006-10-17 10:54:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a 19 year old student and i have always fancied much older men. The oldest man i have been with is 32 and have experimented with older than that.I dont know what it is about them and there is no reason for this, many people have said it was something to do with a father figure but i have luckily been brought up in a very happy home with loving parents who are very happy together.

It isnt money or better sex so i was wondering whether anyone was in the same situation and whether i should look for a way to stop this feelings and concentrate on men my own age or at least not any older than 10 years older.

Im not interested in whether people dont like it or think it is "sick" or whatever, im just interested in any psychological factors that could show a point where i could start thinking of why i find older men so much more attractive.The oldest i fancy is 54 and youngest was 28 so i have no idea where to start... can anyone help or explain this??

2006-10-17 10:53:45 · 27 answers · asked by static_lullaby 1 in Singles & Dating

THIS BOY THAT I LIKE HE PUTS HIS ARM AROUND MY WAIST FOR THE FIRST TIME.AND HE THROWS KISSES AT ME.BUT THEN HE LAUGHS DOES THAT MEAN THAT HE LIKES ME PLEASE HELP (does he like me)

2006-10-17 10:52:54 · 19 answers · asked by His Onee &+ Onlyy 1 in Singles & Dating

i like my friend but am to affraid to ask her because i think she would think diffrent. her friends told me to ask her out cause they said that she said she likes me. but i dont belive them.

2006-10-17 10:52:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can you stop being jealous of your friends? (grades, looks, relationships, clothes, ect)

2006-10-17 10:51:39 · 18 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Friends

2006-10-17 10:51:12 · 6 answers · asked by steelerfanhw 1 in Singles & Dating

im tryin to get past the friend role with this girl but i don't want to barge in on her life. She told me she would have to get to know me first. Did she say that to get me to leave her alone and turn me away. but if she wasn't interested would she just tell me up front. Her friend is trying to hook her up with me but she seem like she wants her friend to shut up cause she's in her business.

2006-10-17 10:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:50:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-17 10:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 10:49:41 · 5 answers · asked by La-Necka J 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married this friday.... as far as my last name changing to his what do I need to do?? what are the reprocussions if I dont change it right away??? what I am asking is it really important to do it right away or can I take my time and fit it into my schedule when possible? also what documents need to be changed?

2006-10-17 10:48:25 · 21 answers · asked by Sparks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I LIKE THIS GUY IN MY GYM CLASS AND I WANT HIM TO NOTICE ME (ALSO IN SOME TOHER CLASSES) WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-17 10:48:08 · 6 answers · asked by yakayakayaka1234 2 in Singles & Dating

i like her yea
so what do you think ?
taught by her ?
or someone else and impress her ? (she wouldnt know until she sees it)

2006-10-17 10:47:35 · 6 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

We're both in high school, he's a junior and i'm a sophmore. My best friend has a class with him, and apparantly he told her i was hot, sweet, funny etc., but later when she asked him if he would go out with me, he said he didn't want a gf right now. She says that doesn't mean he wouldn't date me in the future, but im not sure. What do you think? Im thinking maybe an old school, 'do you like me, check yes or no.'

2006-10-17 10:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by CheerleaderChic 2 in Singles & Dating

i am not a racist,but i see girls at the club who only talk to and dance with or even go home with black guys,doesn't that look like bein prejudiced to the rest of the guys.and in my opinion it reduces black guys as just sexual objects based on the stereotype about penis size. am i crazy or not?

2006-10-17 10:47:08 · 15 answers · asked by jack of all trades 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

not there for him then said she was hotter than me too then he went to work so how do i cope

2006-10-17 10:46:56 · 17 answers · asked by Hillary B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats ur im?

2006-10-17 10:46:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I need help getting over a girl and I dont know how to do that. We went out a couple of times then we broke up. I still kind of like her but she doesn't want a bf. What do I do?

2006-10-17 10:46:38 · 4 answers · asked by rhapmaster 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to give roses to my homecoming date, and there are many different colors of roses. I want to know how many, what color, when and how should i give to her so i can make her best day.

2006-10-17 10:46:19 · 9 answers · asked by The Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

How old were you? Where were you the first time? How long did the relationship last? What made it stop?

2006-10-17 10:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by Mark S 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently had a guy put our relationship on hold. He said he didn't have time to devote to the relationship that I deserved to have devoted to it, and that I was encouraged to seek out more accessable men. That if and when his plate was not so full and if I was still available maybe we could start again. So understand my confusion??

2006-10-17 10:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

Known her for 7months and shes known the ex for 8yrs i've done everything to let her know how i feel and i know she has feelings for me but he has a strong mental head game on her. she still talks and sees him but i talk to her everyday and everynight and see her from time to time but he says he loves her but i love her more. i don't wanna let go of a person that i've never felt for in my whole life she touched me in a major way and im not confused in any of this i know want i want and its her, im not gonna let a good woman pass me by bcuz of a arrogant cocky mental abusive asshole! i might b playing on the second field right now but once i was in her life jus with her for about 5 months, then dumped me and went bak to asshole i got hurt but never gave up on her bcuz i understand how she felt wit him and her past yrs, im lucky that we still talk and c eachother but i want her to realize and see that i was meant to b with her. im stubborn to leave her alone but i know how i feel n her 2

2006-10-17 10:45:35 · 2 answers · asked by chonchfuzz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i am 20 and he is 29. i moved in with him (and his parents) over a year ago on the premis that we where going to save money to buy a house and get married. it is partly taking so long because he has back problems and doesn't want to make a commentment to buying a house when he will probably have to have back surgery "soon''. we are engaged but i have no ring. he has made all these promises to me. i truely love him and want to have a life with him but i feel like this is draggin on and on. plus although i love his family it is killing me living in a tiny room in a basement under someone else's roof. i feel like he lied too me when he convinced me to move in with them to "save money". i am starting to feel like he doesn't want to leave his family (namely is mom). we are not moving towards back surgery, because all he does is take pain meds and neglects going to therepy and getting his epidural shots. not to mention he has saved nothin

2006-10-17 10:45:19 · 13 answers · asked by Robyn T 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 10:45:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family