If you really really hate someone, how can you get along with them?

Answer 1

Leave them alone, Ignore them.

Answer 2

I think you have to ask your self it is the person you hate or is something about them that you hate, if it is the person it is pretty hard to get past the hatred,because it is in your face all the time. If it is something that the person has done, you can put that in to a compartment, label it and file it away, even if its only temporary. I try to think of hatred as poison that I am drinking to get rid of a person that I hate, when in fact it is only me that ends up getting hurt, and the person cruses on with out a care in the world. They are not worth giving them an other moment of your feelings, So if you have to spend time with this person, tell your self to look at that person and think you are not worthy of my attention, I will deal with you but I will not allow you to control how I feel. Best of luck

Answer 3

Because if you allow yourself to hate someone, you are giving away all of your power to them. If you make efforts to think about why are the way they are, you will realize they are just like everyone else, including you. That's how you get along with them.

Answer 4

i used to hate my mom for so long for putting me through a horrible life style. i decided to move with my dad and take my brother and sister with me. it made my mom go into rehab and she tried her best to always fight and get us back from my dad, but it wasnt enough. i would cuss at her and call her names and bad mouth her to everyone and it was the core of my anger. ii let her go and didnt talk or communicate with her for years. i had to learn what it was exactly that was pushing the anger towards hate. i just recently started talking to my mom this yr. she is clean and now religious and i think that also helped her come to ease with the tension between us. she learned to forgive. somehow i did to. i grew up and became an adult. i realized that im done being angry all the time and that ultimately life goes on. we never played "catch up" because the past is the past. it might hurt... but you learned from it. live the day and become whole with yourself. release the anger. it'll make you moer attractive :)

good luck

Answer 5

tell them..........." i hate you sometimes. When i told one of my friends that, they were ok with it. they even said the same thing about me. we still get along. But if you want to be a chicken, go to the happy place that everyone goes to when that person talks. Zone out, nod your head occasionally, and smile. it'll only last a minute of two.

Answer 6

Either you dont talk to them,(that usually works) or you can shut your mouth and count to 10 every single time you want to yell at them and be just plain mean. Just pretend that nothing ever happened between you and them, and that you are starting over. Be as nice as u can. Usually they will be nice back

Answer 7

Smile and nod.
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I like doing mean things like putting sharpie ink in their chair...I can be very nice to someone if I know I've screwed them over some how.

Answer 8

the normal trick is to need their money.

you may prefer staying off contentious subjects and seeking an area of common discourse (football, whatever).

If it's a work thing, focus on the work.

...but despite all that, it sucks. Know what you mean.

Answer 9

Just Let It All Out,Thats What Me And Another Kid Did, Now We Are Pals.

Answer 10

THE ONLY WAY I WOULD SAY IS.....STAY AWAY FROM THAT PERSON AS I KNOW TOO WELL, I HAVE A SISTER WHOM I CANNOT GET ALONG WITH NO MATTER WHAT...AN I AM IN MY 60'S

Answer 11

thru peace, love and undertanding. Dont spend your life hating someone because you will only be hurting yourself in the long run.