I have 2 close friends that are a couple. The woman just announced she's pregnant and the man proposed. They are planning their wedding and everything but I know for a fact she slept with someone else. Should I say something or should I leave it for them to work out? I've known the man 7 years and the woman 4 so these aren't new relationships but you never know how someone will react.
2006-10-17 10:56:16 · 15 answers · asked by Renee22358 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Insist the woman tell her spouse. Tell if she dont you will. At least your giving her the chance. I would want to be told.
2006-10-17 10:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone else said and as Ann Landers and other advice columnists would say, "MYOB". How do you know she hasn't already told him, anyways? The messenger in these situations will never be rewarded and you will end up losing two friends.
2006-10-17 11:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....that's a tough situation dear! Unfortunately, you are going to have to make some very tough decisions. I'm sure your thoughts are "What if they find out that I knew? But never told?" or "What if they get mad at me or call me a liar?" You are going to have to do what is right in your heart. But, what would I do? I would tell, that's what friends do!
2006-10-17 11:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is better to stay away. Is very complicated situation and can ends tragically if you get involved. Let the life go for good /people are not perfect/ people can change for better. They are adults they want get married - God Bless Them.
2006-10-17 11:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. You don't wanna be the one responsible for the destruction of their relationship. And that kinda thing will destroy th relationship. Just let it be and if she wants to talk to him, she'll do it in her own time.
2006-10-17 11:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sprinkles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your motivation? If you tell you will make both of them unhappy and they will probably never speak to you again. Do you think the baby isn't his? And if you do, how do you know for sure?
Leave it alone.
2006-10-17 10:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them work it out. I know you just want to help, but trust me. The best thing you can do for them is to let them work it out on their own. She probably regrets doing it anyway, so let her tell him on her own time. If he loves her then he'll forgive her and she'll feel sorry if she loves him. Good luck but stay out of this one!
2006-10-17 10:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should just keep it to yourself. Just because you've known them for some time, it doesn't make their business yours.
Sorry.
2006-10-17 10:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own bussiness ,,what gives you the right to say anything..let them work it out its their life not yours........get your own life miss busy buddy...sureilll
2006-10-17 11:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you sould tell if your positive because that cant be a healthy relationship but it also depends on who ur closer to be careful & good Luck
2006-10-17 10:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by LiL MaMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋