im tryin to get past the friend role with this girl but i don't want to barge in on her life. She told me she would have to get to know me first. Did she say that to get me to leave her alone and turn me away. but if she wasn't interested would she just tell me up front. Her friend is trying to hook her up with me but she seem like she wants her friend to shut up cause she's in her business.
2006-10-17 10:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AAAWWW. how thoughtful of u to want to give her space and not "barge in on her life". DUDE. new flash. she's not interested in u because u think of yourself as some kinda inconvenience and not as an asset. u really need to reevaluate your self esteem. when i think of steppin into a women's life, i generally think of how much BETTER her life could be with me in it. GOT IT? see the difference in the thought process there??
2006-10-17 10:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just relax. Don't over think anything and just go with it. If she wants time to get to know you it's because she has rushed into things in the past that didn't work out. So the worst thing you can do is show impatience and anxiety. Just try to be thoughtful and creative. Make sure to show her the time of her life every time you guys hang out. Remember, the hardest part is already over. You already know she likes you, because if she didn't, she wouldn't be hanging out with you. Good luck brother.
2006-10-17 10:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Roses work, send her a dozen yellow roses to work, yellow works better than red, trust me. I was friends with this guy back in High School and he kept asking me out, and I wasn't interested. One day at work a dozen yellow roses are sent to me in front of everyone and I got so much attention from all of my co workers and the thought that someone would send ME flowers was enough to give him a chance on a date. And hey, I fell for him romantically.
2006-10-17 10:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well James youe just need to be pacient and the the time will come. Give it a good week or two of getting to know eacother and then ask her out.
2006-10-17 10:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by tino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude: It is obvious that this girl doesn't really like you. When a girl likes a guy she begins to drool after him. She doesn't have to "get to know you." She is not interested in you so stop waisting your time on her and move on. When you like somebody, do you have to "get to know her" before you decide whether you would like to date her? She is not from outer space. She is just as human as you. Some girls are full of guano and it shows. This chic is definitely guanofull.
Move on and stop wasting your time. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Sincerely,
Mr. M on "make her my girl."
2006-10-17 10:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much time you want to invest with her. If you want to be with her, stick around and be her friend.
If you want to know, tell her how you feel and want to know if your wasting your time by just being friends or if she feels there is something there too.
If you do stick by her as friends keep your other options open. If something better comes along, go with that. TS for her.
2006-10-17 10:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you want her to be
2006-10-17 10:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly Bundy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋