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I LIKE THIS GUY IN MY GYM CLASS AND I WANT HIM TO NOTICE ME (ALSO IN SOME TOHER CLASSES) WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-17 10:48:08 · 6 answers · asked by yakayakayaka1234 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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here are the best flirting tips ever.

1) Use Flattery
Flattery is to flirting what a match is to dynamite. Explosive. So to refine the power of flattery, you must be sincere. Expert, mutually rewarding flattery is harder to pull off than most people.


2) Say Hello With Energy
When you say hello, pretend that there is an electrical current pulsating through your body. It is brief--like turning on a light bulb just for a second. Remember that what follows from an introduction or meeting depends on how your new acquaintance perceives your hello.

3) Shake Hands

Handshakes are too formal for people interested in flirting, you think? Think again. Reaching out, touching a hand, holding it, squeezing it, and letting go are all very sensual, tactile, personal activities. When else, unless you make it to the hand-holding stage, will you hold this person's hand again? So make your first handshake count.

As in saying hello, a handshake needs special energy. Before you shake hands, mentally dwell on the sensations you expect to feel and receive in your right hand and arm. Focus attention to that spot, put energy into it, but not strength. Try these:

Flirtatious Handshake #1: The Politician
In this handshake you reach out with your right hand. If you are a woman, you should then reach out and slightly brush the fingers of his right hand with your left hand. This must be done quickly, so it's barely noticed. If you are man, with your left hand touch either her wrist, the top of her right hand, or the fingers on her right hand.

Flirtatious Handshake #2: The Squeeze
At the end of this shake, you finish with a tiny, extra squeeze. This should not be tight but merely a surge of energy. Then let go. Doing this signals that you are warm, confident, and that there is a definite attraction.

4) Make Immediate, Direct Eye Contact

If coordinated with what you are saying, this is the most effective and direct flirting technique. And even when not coordinated, it can be dazzling.

Eye contact establishes intimacy: it can be either intrusive or caring. So the power with which you lock eyes for the first time will determine the starting level of the conversation. If you lock eyes in a tentative fashion, expect a tentative conversation. If you feel a thunderbolt, fantastic! But watch out--overly sexual or inviting eye invitations are the main cause of misinterpretations of motives between two people.

6) Ask "No One Ever Asked Me That Before" Questions

People are always interested in themselves. In fact, one definition of love is "What another person feels toward you when you reflect for them a view of what they'd like to think they are."
The same holds true in flirting, only on a more fundamental level. Each person loves to have someone as interested in them as they are in themselves. One way to satisfy that common desire is to ask questions. Not overly personal questions, but questions that are uncommon.


7) Do a Double Take
Have you noticed that people can tell when you are staring at them even in a car? How they turn and stare back? A double take has the effect of staring, but is 100 percent better. In effect, you are saying that something (another person, object, or activity) caught your attention. Since humans are by nature curious, this person will want to know what you see. He or she will meet your gaze, and--Eureka!--from across a crowded room something will have begun.

8) Ask for Your New Friend's Life Story

Everyone loves to talk about themselves--and after they've revealed some of their inner thoughts and ambitions, they feel so close to you. A magical bond has been established. But the trick here is to go first. If you ask a person out of the blue to tell you about themselves, it amounts to a demand to perform and puts them on the defensive. But if you go first, they'll feel much more open and will reveal more.
Carefully choose the place for all this. If there are people around who can hear, then don't exchange life stories.


9) Have Something to Say by Keeping Up to Date

One of the plusses of being with another person is that you are stimulated intellectually. Another person makes you think of things, do things, try things, and vicariously experience things you normally wouldn't. So, make sure you are a good partner when you flirt.
The easiest, fastest, and best way to keep up to date is to familiarize yourself with the news of the day; best-selling books, records, videos; top-grossing movies; etc. One really great way to do this, of course, is to read about what interests you online

10) Play with a Piece of Clothing

For women: Dangle a shoe in a rhythmic way, play with an earring. Applying a tiny bit of lip gloss from a pot can be very flirtatious, but avoid powdering your nose, it makes you look old. The secret here is not in what you are doing, but in the rhythmic movements you are making. Rhythm is both sexual and comforting.

For men: Adjust your tie, your cuffs, your hair. Twirl your drink. Pacing is very masculine, and if done in a steady tempo can be somewhat appealing. It also allows a woman to ask why you are doing it.

11) Leave Them Wanting More

When you flirt, you are giving someone your undivided attention. There is nothing more flattering. However, people want what it appears they cannot have. An expert flirt will emote until the woman he is trying to attract responds. Then he will back off. When things are going well, a good flirt won't wait around until the conversation hits a bump. He will leave.
So, follow the successful flirts. Leave the second you know you're hitting it off fabulously with someone and you're sure you'll see or hear from her again. Or you're sure you can make this chance encounter recur.

12)Create and Use Nicknames
So as soon as you can find a clever nickname to call someone, do. It can be a short phrase, but one or two short words is best. And make sure the other person creates one for you. Normally this will happen as a basic outgrowth of fumbling around to get to know each other. An effective nickname must not be too common or too flattering, and it should never be mean.

THE 5 DON'TS OF FLIRTING
1) Don't depend on others to make things happen.
If you could depend on them to get things started, you wouldn't need to flirt.

2) Don't tease.
Offering others more than you intend to give always backfires.

3) Don't cling.
Don't monopolize one person all night long. Wait for them to indicate their desire to continue being with you.

4) Don't dwell on flirting.
Do it and forget it. Keep your playful tone at all times.

5) Don't fidget.
It's annoying. You are fidgeting when you let your nervous tension out in unintentional ways. You are not fidgeting if you are tapping your fingers to Stevie Wonder. You are fidgeting if you tap them throughout a supposedly flirtatious conversation.

2006-10-17 10:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by spydog5 2 · 0 0

try to attract him by any way
try to talk to him first about the class
asking him for information
then improve ur relation to him to be friends
then try to tell him by indirect way that u love him
look to his eyes while he is talking to notice that
smile be sweet with him
take care of ur self
then he will know that u love him
i dont know the end

2006-10-17 17:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by micho 7 · 0 0

Flirt with him get him to notice you weather he likes you yet or not
he will just let him know ur there and he will soon get to knwo you better and let you know he likes you back!
Good luck

2006-10-17 17:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0 0

Have you tried showing off the goods?

2006-10-17 17:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0 0

start talking to him and pay him compliments on his muscles or somthing. Dont' get too cheesy. tell him you like to be spanked too that will get his attention.

2006-10-17 17:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by travis R 4 · 0 0

run into him 'accidentally' then turn around and give him a big smile

2006-10-17 17:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by lalalala 2 · 0 0

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