I've been feeling for quite sometime now that I am bisexual or lesbian. But I quesion if I am because I had a sexual experience with a woman in highschool just to experiement but did not really enjoy it when I had to reciprocate the deed to her. But yet, I still find myself picturing a woman going down on me when really my husband is am I gay or is this just harmless fantasy thinking? What would you do?
2006-10-17 10:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by LKJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think its just a fantasy. if things get to be "too much" i would seek help with a sex doc.
2006-10-17 10:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just embrace it and enjoy the fact that you can have the best of both worlds. Take on a female "servant" as your personal lover, there are plenty of subserviant women out there who would love the opportunity to be a "suck slave" to a sexy married woman. I am quite sure your man wouldn't object. If he does, ask him to dress as a girl, and have him go down on you.
2006-10-17 18:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a lesbian, you are bi...
Discuss it with your husband. Maybe you and he can fulfill each other's fantasy by inviting a woman to join you.
2006-10-17 19:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is it just fantasy
but before you drop your marriage talk to a therapist about it not because you are crazy or it is just because it is big decision
and I think you should be careful before you make your next move
Good Luck
2006-10-17 17:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um you are married. What part of I think I'm a lesbian but but I'm married in your sentence do you not understand? Its ok to fantasize. Just don't act on it!
2006-10-17 17:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just fantasy. I fantasize about things like that a lot. I don't think you're gay, I think you have a vivid imagination.
2006-10-17 17:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a threesome with your husband and another woman... You are bi..
Go For It, Have Fun & Good Luck!
2006-10-17 18:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋