i have grown bored with the sex in our marriage.i am against cheatin,but it's gettin frustrating.i've tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't want to talk about it.what do i do next?
2006-10-17 10:29:08 · 18 answers · asked by jack of all trades 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is probably just embarrassed. You should learn to communicate better. In the meantime, just take charge. If she is into it, she will follow your lead.
2006-10-17 10:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe talking about it is embarrassing for her. Try talking matters into your own hands, but do it slowly. Start off with small things like kissing her differently and touching her in places or ways that you haven't before. Try kissing your way down her body toward the southern region (if you don't already go there) and see what her reaction is. If it's positive then thats a good sign she's receptive of trying new things. I know I like it when my hus. tries new things (most of the time)
2006-10-17 10:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Troubled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A raised bed is awesome. then she can lay on her back at the bottom of the bed and you can stand at the end of the bed. This is great because it leaves you both wide open for hands everywhere. Just have fun. maybe make a trip to a sex toy store and buy a few things you both might like. Toys, feathers, outfits, lubes, games. Sexy dice are a good foreplay item.
2016-05-21 21:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spicing things up a bit outside of the bedroom.
And I don't mean sex outside of the bedroom.
I mean take her out and make her feel special. She is probably feeling just as bored as you are but as you know.. men and women feel differently about different things. I have always believed that as long as a woman is happy outside of the bedroom she will satisfy her man inside of the bedroom.
2006-10-17 10:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's unsure about her own body or uncomfortable with trying new things. I used to be a prude when it came to sex, but I had the experience with patient lovers to coax and assist me and now there hasn't been too many things I haven't tried!
Be patient, and try not to get frustrated. I'm sort of in the same boat now with my current lover, but I'm willing to give him the time he needs to find his niche.
Try getting a small vibrator, (Slumber Parties.com) has a great selection and surprise her with it when you go down on her. Women love clitoral stimulation, and I know that when that happens to me, I'm suseptible to almost anything!
2006-10-17 10:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by princessslave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate when I see questions like this cause wife/husband should be open to spice things up. Her not wanting to talk about is not good for the relationship. Tell her that your never gonna cheat on her and that she needs to cooperate
2006-10-17 10:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by **What??** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try romancing her! Plan a date night, pick her up, take her out or just get some candles, music massage oils and stay in. Take turns giving eachother gentle massages and let things blossom from there. Really lots of women just want roses for no reason or surprises every once in awhile. Try it and see what happens!
2006-10-17 10:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel special. Take her out and do things with her to let her know she is special. Put some romance back in her life. You need to give her plenty of attention and make sure you have the privacy to do things where she does not fel the kids are going to walk in. Wake her up with some favors on your morning the two of you do not have to go to work.
2006-10-17 10:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey the only thing you can do is to talk to her about it, and tell her its not her, its just that the same thing gets boring if you do it too often. Make sure she understands that you still love her and that you just want to be more intimate with her.
2006-10-17 10:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with her and if she wonder why, say because she refuse to spice things up in the bedroom and you are not interested.
2006-10-17 10:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋