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OKAY WELL I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND REALLY BADLY AND HAS ASKED ME TOO A COUPLE OF TIMES BUT I TOLD HIM I WASNT READY HE SAYS HE WONT GET ME PREGNANT. the only way i can get pregnant is if he cums in me right so we can have sex all we want to but as soon as he feels hes about to bust he should just pull out or what or r u supposed to buss inside the girl like wat im 15

2006-10-17 10:22:18 · 27 answers · asked by peace l 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

27 answers

My first instinct is to scream DON'T DO IT!!!. But' you will any way so' If you are going to do it do it like grown people do it and be responsible for your actions. USE BIRTH CONTROL. Don't be stupid enough to let him c-u-m inside you with out it. Protect yourself. Besides that all we need is another kid making a kid that they do not have the maturity to take care of. You are only 15. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. If he is not willing to use protection YOU DO IT. This boy is thinking with his dick. You need to think with your brain and don't let him talk you into sex with out protection.

2006-10-17 10:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0 0

Pregnancy shouldn't be your only concern. The both of you need to seriously take into consideration the very likely possibility of catching and transmitting Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's). Neither one of you sound ready because a big part of having sex involves personal responsibility. If you both feel your old enough to have sex, then your old enough to take it upon yourself to educate yourself on everything that goes along with having sex. I suggest you go to Planned Parenthood before you do anything; they're professional, confidential, won't make you feel stupid, welcome questions, and offer all sorts of birth control including condoms and will show you how to use them properly (real important). When they ask you why you want an appointment, tell them your boyfriend and you are planning to have sex and you want to know everything about it before you do. Your boyfriend clearly is only focused on having sex and not considering the possibility of getting you pregnant because he can not promise you that he won't, it's impossible. The only way to guarantee that you won't get pregnant (or STD's) is to remain abstinent (no sex or a virgin in your case). And, considering he's already making a promise he can not fully control in more ways than one, it isn't likely that he will be able to control himself in time to "pull out." FYI, that's a line guys give all the time, then they have all sorts of excuses as to why they didn't. If you're not ready, don't do it. You will only regret it later in life and wish that you had waited. This isn't a lecture, just being real with you. Take care of yourself cuz no one else will in areas of life such as this.

2006-10-17 17:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0 0

you already answered your own question you are only 15 wait it is not wroth it he already lied to you if he don't *** inside you there is still a 50/50 chance that you can get pregnant don't let no guy *** in you alot all because a baby is not the only thing you can get you can get aids HIV or some other kind of s t d leave it alone like i said wait till you find a man that loves you and when you are older and know what sex is all about the longer you wait is the best because you will appreciate it more and your self

2006-10-17 17:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

All you need to know about sex is not to until you are a lot older and I dont mean months.... I mean years. You are so young and shouldnt be worrying about having sex until you know you are ready and for you to be asking this question, you shouldnt be having sex.
You can get pregnant without the boy , as yous say bust inside you. All it takes is for him to insert and you can get pregnant by what is called pre-ejaculation. Its leakage from the male body and is active sperm which causes pregnancy.
For you to be asking this type of question you really shouldnt be having sex at all. Sorry...thats how the cookie crumbles.
If you really dont want to have sex with this boy, then dont let him pressure you. One day the one you want to be with will be there and the gift you have of yourself is only there one time and one time only. It doesnt grow back.

2006-10-17 17:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirlduchess 3 · 0 0

USE A CONDOM!! You can get pregnant even if he pull out before climax. The is a thing called precum. Even before he ejeculates some semen comes out of the penis. This is for extra lubrication.

Think twice about sex too. You're only 15. You got a long time ahead of you to have all the sex you want.

2006-10-17 17:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ian 2 · 0 0

Be careful, if you are asking these kinds of questions you probably aren't ready yet. Seminal fluid can leak out before your boy friend "comes" which can definitely get you pregnant. You need to be responsible and make sure that he wears a condom or you are on birth control before you have sex. Don't rely on him, if he is as young and inexperienced as you he may not have the control he thinks he does. Remember you are the one who has to live with the consequences if you do get pregnant. I've never talked to a girl who regretted waiting to have sex until she was fully ready. I've talked to many who've regretted not waiting.

2006-10-17 17:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 1 0

If your 15 you should definitely wait, and there is such a thing as precum, which can come out at any time, before, as soon as he enters or whenever, that can get you pregnant too. If you are going to have sex, use a condom at least, if he says no to that then why would you even think of having sex with him.

2006-10-17 17:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by just me 3 · 1 0

If you are not on birth control, you definitly need to use protection. Even if your on birth control it's not a %100, when you don't use a condom a man still leaks out what you call "pre-***" which contains semin. I've got several buddies who had unexpected pregnacies, by using the pull out method. My girl is on birth control, and I pull out when I feel the first sign of cumming.

2006-10-17 17:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by flimp25 1 · 0 0

Use a condom and pray. Condoms aren't 100% fool-proof, and if you don't know by the time you're 15 years old, how pregnancies occur you could possibly qualify as a fool. Stop worrying about sex and use this internet to educate yourself.

2006-10-17 17:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 1 0

baby gurl use a condom and then he can bust all he want it wont hit you at all. or get on birth control but birthcontrol dont protect against disease so be careful. you say you 15 you dont need to be having sex anyway trust it is not all it is cracked up to be you can watch a scary movie get more excitment that lasts longer.

2006-10-17 17:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by ghettomommy06 1 · 1 0

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