My grandmother makes me soooooooooo mad! When I had to visit her over the weekend, she followed me around LISTENING TO MY DANG PHONE CALL FROM ONE OF MY FRIENDS!!!! She totally ticks me off all the time. SHE EVEN WAS TOUCHING MY BRA STRAP AND MOVING IT AROUND!!!!! When I went to take a shower she picks up the trash can and says,"Oh and here's the trash can if you need it ;)" Then she LOOKED DOWN MY SHIRT TO SEE IF I WAS GETTING "BIGGER"!!!!!!!!!!! I am always forced to see her even when I AM SICK! I am soooooooo sick of my grandmother gettiing her BIG FAT NOSE INTO MY STINKING BUSINESS! HOW DO I DEAL WITH A PERVERTED GRANDMOTHER?
2006-10-17 10:20:18 · 20 answers · asked by maysimay2006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
CONFRONT HER ABOUT IT! Tell her exactly what she is doing and how it makes you feel uncomfortable. Then maybe she will stop and you can actually feel like you're related to her. If that doesn't work let your parents know!!
2006-10-17 15:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by pisces14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you pregnant? It sounds like your grandmother thinks you are.
I dont see anything that would indicate your grandmother is a pervert. I think she is just concerned for you. As far as touching your bra strap it may have been just a nervous reaction. She seems concerned but with such a generation gap she may not know how to show her concern in a way that won't tick you off.
2006-10-17 17:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHUT the door. Tell her it bothers you when she makes remarks like the ones you listed. Sometimes just being a little snot can make a big difference. But if you never speak up, she will never change. If you do speak up, she may shorten or even stop your visits!
2006-10-17 17:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her to just stop. You dont mean to hurt her feeling but what shes doing is making you extremely uncomfortable. And to give you some space and a little bit more privacy your growing yup and you need some space to do that in comforatibly. Just be sensitive about it and try to make her understand & see your point of view.
2006-10-17 17:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Sometimes we have to deal with family, we can't pick and choose family members, but some day you may acctully be glad you have a relationship with her. She's a little weird now because you are growing up.
2006-10-17 17:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just picky about you...she is not being perverted....believe me. I have a picky grandmother, she loves to pick at my life, my clothes, anything. It is because she is older and well stuck in her ways. Please cherish her for as long as you can as she will not be around for much longer. Grandmother's are a rare thing so love her with all of your heart!
2006-10-17 17:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grandmothers are sometimes a little crazy. Take my grandma for example. She's losing it. She also lives with me. Yeah, I have just learned to tune her out. For example, shes talking to me RIGHT NOW.... and I just say Yep. I swear.
2006-10-17 17:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by JessicaMLM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u told ur mom?? Stay off the cell phone and visit with her. sounds like she is trying to get ur attention and ur adnoring her. Maybe she's lonely for a conversation or play a game with her.
2006-10-17 17:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by datslife_huh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's doing it cause she doesn't know any other way of interacting with you. Just wait eventually she'll die and then you won't have to worry about her big nose in your business, then you'll get to miss her.
2006-10-17 17:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am taking it that you were using her phone......just guessing!
What you do in her home is her business. When you are older and have children you will understand. As far as grandma being a pervert, I kind of doubt she is trying to molest you!
2006-10-17 17:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋