Family & Relationships - 17 October 2006

no girl has ever made me feel the way i feel about you. i dont want to soud like im full of myself bc im not but u dont see whos right in front of you. a dude who really truley loves and cares about you. i guy who could nver hurt you. a guy who lays in bed at night trying to think of ways to make you happy. a guy who wishes you could see that the love he feels for you is real. a guy who always asks you how your day was. a guy who really cares about u. that guy is me. no other guy could ever love or care about you more then i do. i would do what ever it takes to make you happy. i wont always be here. and if you dont do something wen you still have a chance then one day mayb in 2 months, 2years, 20yrs. your gunna find youself thinking y couldnt i see that the guy i really love was right in front of me. an di jsut let him leave i dont expect u to change your mind about me. i hope u do but i dont expect you to. i no ur the only girl for me. i hope you realize that im the only guy for u.

2006-10-17 09:58:55 · 7 answers · asked by kole 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 years and my wife makes me feel like I am second to her family. I explained this to her the other night (for those of you that read my previous question that was last night, this was a few days ago) in a manor that was not accusatory but just sharing how I feel. (We try to have an open dialogue) Well she kind of got an angry look on her face and that was it, she didn’t say anything. The problem is for the first five years we went to her parent’s house every Saturday for lunch as well as her sister showing at our apartment five days out of the week and calling twice a night. Her sister is married now (Thank God) and does not drop by however she calls all the time. Maybe this should not bother me but I am sick of being an extension of her family when we should be our own. Also when it came time to do the holidays with my family her first question is always, “How long do you think we’ll be here?” I’m like until we leave (Frustrated). I never put her in that position and I don’t think it is fair for her to do that to me. I would love to pack it up and get away from both of our families but we both have great jobs so that is not an option. Well I am not looking for options; just want to know if this is how it is. My Aunt told me before I got married “You don’t just marry the girl you marry the family” I did not get it back then but I sure do now.

2006-10-17 09:58:18 · 20 answers · asked by winterlinda21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HE WILL TECHNICALLY BECOME A VIRGIN AGAIN.

IS THIS AT ALL POSSIBLE...??

AND DOES HE GET ANY SEX POINTS FOR SELF PLEASURING....??

2006-10-17 09:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would one say "Happy Sweetest Day In Greek"? I would like to know this in the PRINTED version and NOT in Cursive. I know what the modern Greek Alphabet looks like PRINTED but I have yet to see it WRITTEN.
ΑΒΓΔΕΖΘΗΙΚΛΜΝΞΟΠΡΣΤΥΦΧΨΩ
Ι would really appreciate this. Thanks.

2006-10-17 09:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by Ontario A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a man for 6 yrs and within the 6 yrs we had 2 kids I had 1 before..The problem is I don't trust him after he left his parasitex girlfriend keep coming around. I feel she still calls him because I used too know his cell phone acct password and this is how I found out the first time now he doesn't tell me it...On the cell bill he has it set so the numbers don't show either...but even if it isn't her I think he has cheated or will...I love him and want to marry him but this issue needs to be address.

2006-10-17 09:55:10 · 2 answers · asked by Mika 28 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-17 09:54:41 · 24 answers · asked by Dominique G 1 in Singles & Dating

how did u get over it i have mid terms and i cant study because im always thinking of her what to do

2006-10-17 09:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my high school sweetheart still calls me and tells me he cares for me but he has a gf and i am recently separated from my husband, what does he want he never stopped calling me after high school, i was so in love with him back then, i dont want him to break my heart again.

2006-10-17 09:52:18 · 12 answers · asked by justme 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 09:51:57 · 3 answers · asked by nisrin b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this boy that i like and i asked him if he liked this one girl which is a (bit.....)i cant stand her and he said that she if ok but he treats me like his gf he grabs me by my waist and throws kisses at me druing class but then he starts laghing i cant tell if he likes does he or is he just playing with me. we are both in middel school and have four periods.I NEED HELP LOTS OF HELP!!!PLEASE!!!

2006-10-17 09:51:32 · 3 answers · asked by His Onee &+ Onlyy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that recently got angry with me, I wasn't really sure why. This person has some issues with anger management and depression. I gave her a coulple of days to cool off and then called to try and work things out. She went totally crazy and started yelling and telling me I was a horrible person. I told her I couldn't talk to her when she was acting that way, said goodbye and hung up. The phone continued to ring for the next ten minutes then, she left a horrible message on my voice mail and two days later I recieved a two page letter detailing all my faults. She told me the only reason she was friends with me is to help me change my behavior so I can be a better person and that if I should want her help to call her. That was 4 months ago and I really don't care to have anything to do with her, but our mutual friends tell me I need to be friends with her and should work things out. What do you all make of this and what would you do?

2006-10-17 09:51:23 · 22 answers · asked by Dennly 3 in Friends

i'm a size 14 girl and this guy who i been friends with has ask me out on a date to the movies and in have only one problem... what to wear!!! we have kissed each other and now are offically bf and gf but i still want to look my best... any advise?

2006-10-17 09:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by chica69 2 in Singles & Dating

I just answered the rabbit question from my husband's account. Will people think he's gay?

2006-10-17 09:51:10 · 9 answers · asked by esmequeenoftheworld 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Boyfriend's X gets a disgusting amount of money from him and He pays for xtras like intrsuments,gymnastics,etc..that doesn't bother me the thing is all she has to do is say it's for the kids and He does it when he damn well knows it's not!! He gets mad and I get upset for him but mad that He won't tell her no ever!!She had breast cancer a few years ago and is fine now but pulls a guilt trip on him to get what she wants? It even works on me- Need advice or comments to help deal with this- haven't been able to vent w/out feeling bad about it-Help!!

2006-10-17 09:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is always the number 3 big issue in marriage fights! how could you disrespect our marriage like that. You say I talk to people about you and I cause you shame, but you've talked to a particular someone so much about our marriage and the issues we've had! I hear stuff that she knows about us and I get so hurt that you could open up so easily to a stranger who you call a friend and tell her so much about us! Then you wake up and get so pissed at me.

Question: How much is okay and how much is just too much!!? Could you please share them in some detail so we can understand where you are coming from please.

2006-10-17 09:49:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok say you work at a corporate office and thereis someone you want to ask to dinner but you dont know how and the worst is if she says no i have to see her everyday

2006-10-17 09:49:11 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok Here's the deal. I have this male friend, we've been friends since freshman year of HS, which is now almost 10 years. We've always hung out and stuff normal. One time last year we had sex, and since then for the past year, we still hang out as usual, but we also have sex.

The thing is I'm starting to have feelings for him, and I dont know what to do. When I spend the night with him, its awesome, he's so sweet to me. But we only hang out a few times a month. I dont think he wants anything serious, and I dont think he wants a relationship. I'm not even sure I do, but I'm definitely falling for him. He has no idea, and I dont know what to do. It seems like he likes me, but then sometimes, its just as a friend. Should I tell him.....I'm afraid that if he doesnt feel the same way he'll be weird around me, and I dont want to ruin our friendship.


Any suggestions?? Sorry so long.

2006-10-17 09:48:00 · 21 answers · asked by Britney 1 in Friends

I have silly thoughts all the time, which I feel extremely guilty about, things like finding other people attractive and my boyfriend's body image.... the list goes on!!!
I love my boyfriend so much, we've been together 3 years and I dont want to be with anyone else! I have these thoughts so and I worry and feel guilty about them and have to tell him to get rid of the guilt! its driving him and me insane! he has nearly split up with me countless times over it, as everything I tell him really hurts him. I hate hurting him but feel so guilty about the thoughts!!! please help!

2006-10-17 09:47:57 · 13 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked my friend out back in january. this was 5 DAYS AFTER HER EX BROKE UP WITH HER. she so over him now and she and i are very close. should i try askin her out again?

2006-10-17 09:47:49 · 13 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this same situation with my girlfriend. She absolutely hates when I watch porn and says that it is disrespectful towards her. She thinks that I am watching it because I like to look at the women and takes it personal.

I for one only watch it to tug one out whenever she can’t/won’t take care of me.

That’s the only reason. Otherwise I have no need for it nor do I have any desire to watch.

So what are your reasons (if it does upset you) for getting pissed at your man for watching it? Maybe I need to hear it from other women to get a better understanding.

2006-10-17 09:47:03 · 15 answers · asked by Descartes 4 in Singles & Dating

what exactly is the defenition of horny i keep hearing and reading retarted stuff on it.

2006-10-17 09:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by BoringDoom 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-17 09:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by Tonya M 1 in Family

....my last one divorced me! Any suggestions on a good one?

2006-10-17 09:45:23 · 20 answers · asked by Been there...done that! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Newly divorced - not a kid - been dating on & off with this guy since April, but have known him for years - came on strong in the beginning, but then went "AWOL" - admitted he has commitment issues since ex cheated on him - was looking for casual sex - i never gave it to him - told him let's just be friends - called me about 1 month after that slightly drunk saying how much he missed me, knows that he hurt me, then went AWOL again for another month - called me again this weekend saying he misses me, but sober this time - told him i was slightly involved with someone else, and now he is coming on strong again - calling or texting everyday since last weekend - is it that same old story, he wants me now that i'm with someone else?

2006-10-17 09:45:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-17 09:44:43 · 26 answers · asked by Dr shiznet 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me today. he was saying that we were getting close and he doesn't like getting close to people even though he was the one who was getting close to me. He gave me the whole it's not you it's me thing. He said that he wanted to forget it happened and be friends and go back to hte way things were. Like that can happen. I have to talk to him otmmorow and I'll be crying the whole time. Please help me.

2006-10-17 09:44:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy u like is coping u always talking to u is always staring/looking at u does he like u there is more proof though.

2006-10-17 09:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by * †♥Sasha† 2 in Singles & Dating

When you hang out with people, what makes you want to hang out with them? Why what about them makes it worth hanging out with?

2006-10-17 09:44:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Every single thing i say about her she thinks it in a bad way she is very easy to get in a fight with and im always the one saying sorry she is selfish what do i do?

2006-10-17 09:43:44 · 16 answers · asked by cass! 4 in Friends

Why do the people lie? Specially in my contry? I hate. Can i with anybody speak or chat, that he/she think that he/she has not lied until now?

2006-10-17 09:43:42 · 5 answers · asked by meissam_m1381 1 in Friends