i asked my friend out back in january. this was 5 DAYS AFTER HER EX BROKE UP WITH HER. she so over him now and she and i are very close. should i try askin her out again?
2006-10-17 09:47:49 · 13 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOO!!!!! You already asked her once. She knows how you feel. The ball is in her court.
2006-10-17 09:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you guys just hang out and just let nature take it's course, try to let her in no nonsense ways that you are interested. Make sure when you talk about relationships, you let her know that it's not just friendship you are looking for with her. If she avoids the issu when you bring it up, you are on the friend ladder and have no hope. Find someone else. If she engages you in that sort of talk, bring some rubbers and some lube.
2006-10-17 09:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 16:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no wonder she said no before...she must have still been reeling from her breakup.... But take it more gently this time, test the water. Have you become closer since then? If she is being distant towards you since then - then apologise for asking her so soon after... Say that you liked her that much and that you could see that she needed time and that were willing to wait for her
(that is sure to earn you brownie pionts!) ;)
2006-10-17 09:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would flirt with her and test out the water so to speak. She may not be comfortable making the first move even if she is interested, but you should make sure she knows you are still interested without making her feel pressured or guilty if she is not interested, too.
2006-10-17 09:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes before she was probably irritated because she just ended a relationship or she might of thought you seen her as a easy target (vulnerable) and she didn't want to date someone because of that she wants someone who cares about her asking her out again will show her that you still care.
2006-10-17 09:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont care the other people say...but i say yes! aske her and keep asking her. many couple that are together now are from a situation like yours...and if you dont ask then what do you have to loose...if you are really close now then it's not like she is going to hate you or something ....so try-good luck!
2006-10-17 09:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by fesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say no nbecause maybe she still feel guilty about her ex so yea wait for a long time until you know she's lookin for someone
2006-10-17 09:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by BoringDoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should wait for two more weeks then ask her out.
2006-10-17 09:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first see if she stil would like to b with him if no find whether she she likes u and ur company if yes go for it
2006-10-17 09:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by sandy 8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋