my high school sweetheart still calls me and tells me he cares for me but he has a gf and i am recently separated from my husband, what does he want he never stopped calling me after high school, i was so in love with him back then, i dont want him to break my heart again.
2006-10-17 09:52:18 · 12 answers · asked by justme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, perhaps he is also 10 wiser to go with the 10 years older. They say true love always returns. But like they said in a movie once, "don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."
2006-10-17 09:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by joedon126 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he knows in his heart that you were always the one. My husband did the same thing to me. He treated me bad during our ten years of marriage and now that I am with another man, he comes over sometimes and is nicer to me than he ever was. Maybe he realizes that he made a big mistake. He probably wants to leave who he is with now. I wouldn't say not to give him a chance, but be very guarded so you don't get hurt again. You may want to ask him, what has changed? Now, I am likeable enough for you? Tell him you are not the same star struck girl he used to know and you will not put up with crap. And as long as he is still hooked up with girlfriend, you can only be friends. good luck.
2006-10-17 09:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still thinks he's in high school.
Get over it and move on. Some people never change and the more they change the more they stay the same. He has a GF? was the shoe on the other foot last time? Are you the other girl now? Another can of worms that doesn't just need to remain closed, it needs to be incinerated.
2006-10-17 09:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him, Why he keep calling you even though he has a gf. I would say he has never got over you, and have this idea in his head that you are the same young girl you were when you were in high school.
2006-10-17 09:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by makethebeatdrop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to deal with your husband situation before getting involved with another man
2006-10-17 09:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. He shouldn't be butting in preventing a possilbe reconcilation with your husband. He sounds like a psychotic and a loser.
2006-10-17 09:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he wants. He has a gf so hopefully you wouldn't want him right now anyway...but he's the one to ask, not us.
2006-10-17 09:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it has been 10 years so mayb he has changed
2006-10-17 09:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he still has feelings but if he broke your heart change your number and move on. you are holding on to baggage.
2006-10-17 09:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by nomorepblm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him directly what his intentions are. Ask him what he expects of you. Ask him why he's calling if he has a girlfriend.
2006-10-17 09:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋