I recently bumped into my ex boyfriend who is married with a kid and is expecting another. My ex talked to me for over three hours at the bar about how miserable he is and that he made a mistake marrying the girl. He then told me that I was the best thing that happened to him and he is not sure why he let me go. I haven't heard from him since we both agreed that it was not a good idea to exchange numbers. Our families really like each other, and I am standing up in his sisters wedding. What should I do?
2006-10-17 10:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by ConFUZED83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd stay as far away from him as possible. If you are around him, the temptation for both of you will be too much, an affair will happen, and it WILLL NOT have a happy ending. If he's really THAT unhappy in his marriage, he should get divorced. However, no matter what state the marriage is in it would be WRONG for the two of you to have a relationship while he is still married.
2006-10-17 10:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by explorationredwing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the plague? You avoid it. This is a loser spelled "crying in his beer." If he is emotionally cheating on his wife and his kid with you, he'll find someone to cheat with whomever he is married to.
Forget the maternal care of this baby. What kind of man drinks alone in a bar until he can pick up an old flame or a new spark - when he has people waiting/needing him at home?
Stay so far away from this guy he'll need a compass to find you at the wedding.
2006-10-17 10:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. He is married and unhappy and remembering the best things that he had with you and not the whole picture. If you do see him at all, encourage him to hang in with his marriage and love his wife. Be nice and polite to him, but consider him off limits. Even if he really wants to leave his wife and run off with you, this path only ends in a lot of pain for everyone.
If you haven't already, set some rules of dating for yourself. "Never date a man who is still attached (marriage, engagement, living together, seriously dating) to another women" is a good rule to start with.
2006-10-17 10:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. No matter what, the fact remains that he is married and expecting. He can pine for you all he wants, but dont lower yourself to be a homewrecker.
2006-10-17 10:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Lots of baggage with 2 kids. Baby mama drama. You've been fine without him this whole time.
2006-10-17 10:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by yammajean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you care for him? Just think.....he'll have 2 kids....baggage. You don't want that! Be his friend and nothing more. Remain close to the family if you want. They matter just as much!
2006-10-17 10:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to deal with this is to offer him some p u s s y
2006-10-17 10:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone
2006-10-17 10:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋