i recently went on a date with a guy and i know hes attracted to me. but im not attracted to him. how can i turn him down without hurting him. what should i say?
2006-10-17 10:25:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do in this situation is to never lead the person on who likes you. Let him know in a nice way that he's a nice person and you would prefer to just be friends. Keepin it real in the beginning is very important this allows him to understand that he must move on and his feelings arent hurt in the process. Hope everything goes good fa ya girl.
2006-10-17 10:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh alot of people think there is a way to not hurt people... there really isn't... the only thing you can do is not hurt him alot. My suggestion is
1. don't go on another date
2. try to give him a hint... dont return calls, say your busy yada yada
3. just make somthing up about not wanting to be in a relationship.
2006-10-17 17:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer his calls anymore, and if he persists, let him down easy and say that you don't think its going to work out this time.
2006-10-17 17:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, just tell him that you'd like to remain friends.....see? Now you've been honest, but you didn't tell him that you weren't attracted to him.
2006-10-17 17:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just blow him off that always works dont talk to him anymore
2006-10-17 17:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋