Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

I've tried talking. I've tried giving her what she wants. I even tried staying away and giving her all the time I can to spend with her father alone. The one thing I can't give her is putting her mom and dad back together. I've tried talking to her dad but he doesn't seem to listen and when I told him about the bruises I carried on my arm for two weeks where she had hit me harder and harder to see if it hurt she said he told me it was just her way of playing and I should have told her to stop. I did and he was sitting there with us in a restraunt of all places and didn't say a word to her. She said she was mad because he aleawys ignored her when he was out witha girlfriend. I told her I wasn't his girlfriend I was his wife and I think that made her worse. When she gets in those playing moods as he calls it I don't know what to do. I would have to hurt her to make her stop and then he'd be upset because I hurt his child. I'm afraid this is going to get worse. She's 13 and not a small 13

2006-10-12 04:48:10 · 35 answers · asked by rose v 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would it make you think less of a girl if she slept with you on a first date?? x

2006-10-12 04:46:51 · 56 answers · asked by jo 4 in Singles & Dating

I sent two letters to this guy, the first one was not as bad. I was trying to get a little clarity of why he needed his space. The second letter was a little more hurtful. I threaten to go on his job and tell ppl about his sexual behavior. Months has passed and the guy has been on my mind. I want to apologize for my actions. Do you think he will accept my apology or do you think he will get a retraining order against me for harassment? The guy meant a lot to me. I would really like to speak to him again, even if it's just as friends. HELP!!!!!

2006-10-12 04:46:22 · 6 answers · asked by plumprump26 4 in Friends

Whenever I invite them to do things, they always have excuses, but sometimes I think they are just making excuses up because they don't want to hang out with me.

Me and my boyfriend of a year broke up about three months ago, and I still get depressed about it. Especially with homecoming coming up, I wish I still had him around to go with me. I wanted one of my two "best" friends to go with me so I could have someone to hang out with, but it doesn't sound like either of them want to go (they both go to different schools than I.)

I wish I could just make a whole new set of GOOD friends who actually want to hang out with me and such. But I'm afraid I won't be able to do that until I go off to college next year.

Any advice?

2006-10-12 04:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Friends

ok, my husband has this girlfriend, yet, "there just friends". Do i look like i was born yesterday....anyway...i emailed her a nasty email from his yahoo account, and he got his hands on it. Even though i deleted it after I sent it. He says he has a computer genius friend that got it back for him, i say she forwarded it to his work account. He says she dont know his work email.....yah right! I say its impossible to get back deleted emails from free web-based email accounts, he thinks i'm stupid and told me "his friend did it". What do you guys think? Did his friend get those emails back for him, or is the b*tch forwarding my emails to his work account? And then more than likely STILL communicating with him via his work email?

2006-10-12 04:45:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever felt that you could not find all you want in a man in one man , or all you want in a woman in one woman.
for example for a woman, you meet a man who has the good looks, personality,good in bed, but not financially sound; and then there is the other, who just about is ok in the looks department, earns a comparable salary to yours, has got good prospects, but not good sexually.

now, when i was just dating (i.e. not in a serious relationship), i went out with all of them. one because he was good-looking and good in bed- for social functions, and the other was very sensitive, and we clicked on the emotional level. so the 2 of them together, equalled one good man for me.
has anyone ever done this?

2006-10-12 04:44:55 · 18 answers · asked by naa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

They keep fighting calling eachother names, then when one turns their back the other one talks trash. These are my parents i don't want to hear them say this.... I try and talk to them but they don't listen? Wut do i do?

2006-10-12 04:44:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 04:43:51 · 24 answers · asked by faizan k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what exercises should i do to target arms and abs?
I DONT WANT TO LOSE MY BOOTY!

2006-10-12 04:43:49 · 3 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month & i seem to be the one buying stuff, i mean he has taken me out for dinner once, but as far as other stuff goes its me who pays...i bought a pizza & chips & vodka & lemonade & shopping and i cook it and he doesn't seem appreciative at all...its like him taking me out for that dinner 4 weeks ago is all that matters!!!!!!!!

2006-10-12 04:43:43 · 20 answers · asked by Tamara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband phone had a number that he called and talked a long time, a couple of times. Should I call the number? If its a women, should I ask her questions or just wait until other odd things happen?

2006-10-12 04:43:32 · 56 answers · asked by Key Key 2 in Marriage & Divorce

boyfriend and I , about why we havent started paying them back (my inlaws) for the house they helped us built so we could save money on rent and pay off our other bills - I dont think my boyfriend and i need to explain to hes sister our finances , and if hes parents arent even telling us anything , why is she being nosey? she says , she is just looking out for her parents -
so should l i mention this to my soon to be in laws ?

2006-10-12 04:43:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-12 04:43:12 · 37 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 04:42:29 · 20 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked the question yesterday and had zero answer. I find it difficult to believe no one around here has ever done that...

Was wondering: how is it? How far does it go? What happens? Anything nice to report? Anything not nice?

Hey, girls, this is anonymous, no one will tell!

2006-10-12 04:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by Claire 4 in Singles & Dating

I went to a wedding a few weeks ago. This one girl from a group of old friends came up and talked to me. We were in a group of five, but the group fell apart until is was just us. Our conversation concentrated on each other. She then sat near me at the reception, and between five people, we hung on each other's words and talked the most. She told me she would call or I should call, so I called to set up a meeting. She was out of town though and I set up so late she was unable to tell until she returned. When she returned, she apologized in a phone message, and she really wants to catch up and get together. She seemed really nerouvs leaving the message, and she giggled and said some strange stuff. Any idea?

2006-10-12 04:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or husband and wife are not like minded what is there? only quarrel?

2006-10-12 04:41:38 · 9 answers · asked by usha r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex has been in Iraq and is due to be going to Germany soon this month. He use to call me everyday just to say hello and to hear my voice, but about 3 weeks ago, we had a huge misunderstanding and he refused to hear my part and said he had to go and hung up the phone and I have not heard from him since. I do miss him cause he was my heart and my joy, but I don't know if it's a good idea to contact him. I want to e-mail him some new recent photos of me that I had taken at a Ball I attended. Do you think it's a good idea if I contact hiim? I'm kind of scared that if I do he might come back with a reply telling me that he has a new love or something of that sort that will crush my heart. What do you think?

2006-10-12 04:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by Antoinette 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 04:41:30 · 7 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 04:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by X 3 in Friends

2006-10-12 04:40:59 · 5 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

We're going in Nov. to get married and if anyone has any suggestions on where to get married and some cool things to do I would appreciate it. I've already checked out several sites on the net. I would like some personal opinions. thanks

2006-10-12 04:40:46 · 8 answers · asked by vero06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 04:38:49 · 22 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

im concerned coz its becoming a hobby or something for them to adopt african babies???i wonder what the motive behind all that is...sometimes i think they adopt them coz they know the nanny will take all that responsibility of raising those kids....they only get to spend time with them when they are out shopping ....and posing for the paparazzis ......

2006-10-12 04:38:35 · 1 answers · asked by tot 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 04:38:13 · 12 answers · asked by crystalynn d. 1 in Weddings

i have a paiting competition and this is the topic. can u help me with this by telling how to do this and in which way to doand what colours i should use?

2006-10-12 04:37:46 · 4 answers · asked by j@nu 2 in Friends

i have a crush on this guy that is very cute. but, just know he probably has a girlfriend or married,and he wouldnt be intersted in me.short and round girl
I HATE MYSELVE

i also dont know how to look "pretty" i dont know how to apply make up. i find it hard to smile (that isnt creepy looking) i get nervous around him.I feel he rather go out with the blonde sitting behind me because she is what is considered beautiful.
MAYBE I SHOULD WRITE HIM A LETTER CAN YOU GIVE ME IDEAS PLLLEEEAAAASSSEE!!!!

2006-10-12 04:37:34 · 19 answers · asked by Me 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 04:36:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my 18th birthday is saturday, but i'm trying to plan something fun to do with my friends for tomorrow, the day before.

and I have NO IDEA what we should do

any ideas??!?

2006-10-12 04:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by el camino 1 in Friends

DO U THINK LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS WORK?

2006-10-12 04:36:01 · 22 answers · asked by EL MONTE FLORES 1 in Singles & Dating