Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

hi...hi gals n guys...

im carrying on with a guy since last 2 yers...hes a good guy and i love him a lot...but ther wer many bad times we had due to certain things....due to small fights n arguments he left me many times n i went begging to him many times to accept me as he knows my weakness...he jus keeps sayin hes giving me chances bcoz he loves me...but he jus ends the relationships if the fight increases...hes immature,,the point is...that he gives me less attention..we hardly meet once a week or twice sometimes...hardy 2 hrs or so...acc to him girls shudnt work n do job...they shud just do household chores,rest n do other things like hobby or so..but hes strictly against working...he says either i hav to choose him or job...im too confused n upset...whenevr this topic is removed ther r fights...i cry for days..i dont even talk to anybody...im really depressed//pls help me...its nt abt money...its jus tht his family is traditional minded abt girs tht they shudnt work...pls help

2006-10-12 04:06:40 · 17 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

Wife says she doesn't even when using her vibe.

2006-10-12 04:06:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When a girl is described as cute, pretty but insecure and shy. Then said to be very trusting ,kind, gentle, docile,nice, book smart without common sense and naivie. These are things that i have been told by other people the class did a thing where they described people and wrote it down on a piece of paper.Is it bad i am trying to figure out why i attrack controling, abusive, and possesive guys when i am nice to everyone and i dont think i deserve it?

2006-10-12 04:06:02 · 4 answers · asked by Katie P 1 in Friends

If i go as a naked man for halloween, would I get a Trick or a Treat??

2006-10-12 04:05:32 · 23 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2 in Singles & Dating

so i moved to my parents back house, they live in the front house. in the future i would love to get married!!!
my question is if you women consider that to be the same as living with my parents. or is it something that i am worrying about too much?? with rent being so high and buying one on my own is pretty much difficult i as wondering how a women would feel about living in ones parents seperate house.
please let me know your thoughts on this, thnx a lot!!!

2006-10-12 04:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my best friend is getting marridge and I want to give her something special, not the regular toaster and stuff, any advise?

2006-10-12 04:04:43 · 27 answers · asked by lushious c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 04:04:27 · 15 answers · asked by ovbinker 1 in Friends

2006-10-12 04:03:45 · 12 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 04:01:22 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Family

We are in our 40's. He is very closed and refuses to talk about it at all. Anytime I inquire about getting to know his kids, he just says it's not time yet. I am feeling uneasy about the situation. He says he wants a future with me but yet his past remains a mystery. He lives with me and my 12 yr. old, but the meer mention of bringing his kids around causes a fight. He pays ( a lot of ) child support, but there is zero contact. I am begininning to feel like he doesn't bring them around because he's not sure he wants to stay with me. Am I being paranoid, should I just be grateful I don't have 5 kids running around? Or should I insist he bring that part of his life into our relationship? I really need some advise.

2006-10-12 04:01:10 · 17 answers · asked by Lynda 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am due to marry next year and the plans were going well until I mentioned my kids coming to my wedding as bridesmaid and usher, whereupon my ex stated that she would be visiting her family nearby on the day. She crashed my sister's wedding uninvited last year and caused no end of havoc. I fear that she will do the same on mine. Both my fiancee and I would be upset if the kids couldn't come but would be more upset if our day was ruined my an unwanted visitor. If you were in my shoes, how would you deal with this?

2006-10-12 04:01:00 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

its now coming to a week without hearing from him, l dont know whteher he is scared of what to tell me or he chucked me. please help coz im going crazy. Thanx

2006-10-12 04:00:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I come from a broken family.I am married since 11 years. My wife feels that she is been treated like a servant at home and starts shouting. I wonder who treats her so!!There are 2 maids to help her out. In fact she is on her own.I work from 9 to 9 and come home to hear these unrealistic woes. We have two kids. she behaves very rudely with the younger one who is only 2. Whenever she serves food to us she passes a comment that she hates cooking but left with no other option. So I do not feel like having food now a days at home. She has already lost interest in sex, movies, picnics etc. I tried to counsel her, but in vain. She will simply not listen. She is always finding fault with me, our 12 year old daughter and tries to teach discipline to our 2 year old boy.Is there any way I can restore happiness in my family? Some technique I can change her mind set? i am ready to do anything to restore peace. i do not want a divorce since I do not want that to happen to my kids what happened to me

2006-10-12 04:00:07 · 20 answers · asked by Dr Ajith 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 03:59:55 · 9 answers · asked by mychell1971 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok last time i posted a question about this it got removed...now all i want to know is why when you want to fight someone they call the cops knowing that it is only going to make the person that want to fight you even more mad, are ppl just that scared? And why do so many girls just stab you in the back I would at least be open about it I will tell somebody exactly how i feel about them to their face i feel no need to be sneaky....do you?

2006-10-12 03:59:20 · 1 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is 4, and his mother and i have been split up for a year now and my girlfriend of alomst a year hates my sons mother. she hates the fact that i have to talk to her all the time to arrange time to see my son. it stresses me out!!!! how can this work??

2006-10-12 03:59:06 · 26 answers · asked by TooMuch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

help 'cos i find it difficult to keep friends

2006-10-12 03:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by Ralph Dera 1 in Friends

Now every single girl in eya has gotta have a song or 2 that weneva it plays reminds you of that tragic ex!!!!! lol
Mine Kelly clarkson- Behand those hazel eyes and James Bluntt- Good bye my lover.... Very cheesey but very affective!!!!! lol..
Anymore good ones girlies??????????/

2006-10-12 03:58:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ANOTHER UPDATE-----> Recently I met a guy in class and we really clicked. Long story short, we slept together. We decided to remain friends (ie: go out to places together) and open to the possibility of a relationship in the future. Everything was fine until Monday, he starts telling me how much he misses me and tries to kiss me. I reminded him of our agreement and stated that we should adhere to it.

This morning, as I was returning to apt. from work, I saw him walking with some girl. Suddenly he stops walking in my direction and found something super interesting to read at 7 a.m. in one of the campus buildings. The girl that he was walking with looked confused because he literally ran from her into that building. (I know that she's been staying with him on campus since last weekend because that's when we suddenly couldn't go to his apt.) I just kept walking and acted like I didn't see anything.

Later I get an e-mail from him telling me that he thinks that he saw me this morning with another guy. (I was walking alone.) And then he left me a voice message expressing a sudden interest in my welfare. I told him not to bother calling/e-mailing me again. This is painful because I thought he was a decent guy and we could be good friends. I didn't deserve this kind of treatment. Can someone please explain to me why it's so hard for men to be honest?

2006-10-12 03:58:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 03:57:27 · 22 answers · asked by kchick8080 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 03:57:04 · 3 answers · asked by ogbignutz 1 in Singles & Dating

(will anybody online share with me her/his experiences?)

2006-10-12 03:56:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-12 03:56:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What should you do to make yourself feel you do not need what you are looking for ?

2006-10-12 03:55:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean it's not like i would flaunt the relationship while we were working. I just want to know if it should be allowed.

2006-10-12 03:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by LiL mAmMa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

For you that have had a few and are not insecure about it, what can a guy do to make it less akward? I've had a few and I always feel like a complete azs when it is over or the next morning. It is like I am 'that guy', like I deceived her or something. But I know a lot of women are ok with it and sometimes just want a one nighter too.
So is there a certain type of guy that lets you know all you want from him is sex or does he do or say something different?

I mean I hear and see all of these purely physical relationships, but if I bring up the idea or tell someone I don't want a relationship just some skin, I am an insensitive ******.

Any Help?

And save the STD comments, plz.

2006-10-12 03:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Singles & Dating

have this crush on a boy ages ago...wondering if i should ask him out...

2006-10-12 03:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by pothead_mania 1 in Singles & Dating

lately i talk 2 this gurl in my classes and i like her but i dont know wut 2 do. i've talken 2 her and sat next 2 her.how do i bring it 2 another level?

2006-10-12 03:52:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any ideas on what to get him?
There are 4 of us chipping in to get something he can keep and use.
No silly answers please.

2006-10-12 03:52:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what does that mean

2006-10-12 03:52:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships