Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

What should I do without embarrasing myself?

2006-10-12 03:52:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I've been seeing this wonderful guy, everything was going great, it got serious enough that we decided that sex was ok. (mind you, we're two consenting adults) Sex was great, up until the end. I realized that he just didn't seem all that into it and then HE faked the orgasm. (like this isn't obvious when a male does it.) Anyway, when confronted with it he claimed that it had just been a long time, that was all. Now, I myself am feeling as though perhaps he just wasn't into it with me, or there's more serious problems like sexual orientation problems.... I've read somewhere before that there is some truth to that "use it or lose it." Something about not using the muscles that you use to orgasm and losing them temporarily. *shrug* Anyway, I just wanted some opinions on this. Should I be concerned? Should I let it go? Is sexual orientation a possible issue here? Has this happened to anyone else? Guys, is there truth to the use it or lose it?

2006-10-12 03:52:14 · 18 answers · asked by lynzi_n_bridges 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay.. so like... its me and my girl's 16 day anniversary!!! So I like... totally want to surprise her, because oh my god! Sixteen days!!! WOW!! And she's so effing hot OMG!!

So how do I dance sexy for her?

Do I do like... the Monster Mash? The Mashed Potato? The Macarena? The Chubby Checker Twist? And it goes like this?

Maybe we could 'Doot doot doot doo doot doot Do the Hustle!!"

2006-10-12 03:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Singles & Dating

he reconnected with an old flame at a class reunion, they had a whirlwind long-distance relationship and 6 months later he moved out of our home and into hers. we have three children and have been married 26 years

2006-10-12 03:51:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if when u first got a lady/woman/slutbag whore into bed she offered u trap 2 as an option would you take it or politely decline ?

2006-10-12 03:51:14 · 18 answers · asked by rileys_lad 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 03:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have a boyfriend that I'm not crazy about...we argue and stuff and I'm always keeping an eye out for "mr. right" anyway this guy was kinda being flirty w/me and stupid me told him I had a boyfriend...don't know why i did but i did, somehow in the middle of our conversation it just came out...Do you think he took that as a signal that I wasn't interested? I think the guy was good looking and it has just been so long since I have flirted w/a guy I guess I just forget how lol

2006-10-12 03:50:43 · 9 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Singles & Dating

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

Share your thoughts please.... thank u.

2006-10-12 03:49:45 · 28 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We were never close. He used to beat me and my sister up for no reason at all, he was a drunkard and never did anything but that. But he was still my father. he depended on us more when he found out he had throat cancer. I lived in Hawaii while he lived in the Philippines. The last time I saw him was Oct 2005. He told me that that was probably the last time I'll see him and his grand son. And he was right. Jan 23, 06, I found out he hung himself. He had endured so much, he couldn't take the pain anymore, so he ended it. I was hoping that he would go to heaven despite of all the wrong things he's done. I was told that he was apologizing profusely, but i don't think it was enough. What should i do?

2006-10-12 03:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Our daughter, who is almost 21 just moved back home. She stayed the night with her boyfriend (who has his own place) and I'm not sure how to handle this. I was raised with strict parents and that was never allowed. I'm pretty open minded and as long as she calls to let me know and doesn't do this too often, I'm actually OK with it. (the boyfriend is not allowed to stay at our house overnight). She's a good person, works fulltime and pays her own bills. The problem is we have a son still at home, he's 14. I've always been open with him but I'm not sure if I want him to know exactly whats going on with this situation. What do I tell him if he asks where she is?

2006-10-12 03:48:04 · 42 answers · asked by HappyMom 4 in Family

This girl that was trying to call me left me a long message telling me everything she wanted to tell me if we had talked.

2006-10-12 03:47:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever had a boyfriend or girlfriend with a Movie addiction?
Always wants to go on movie dates.
Has enough $ to do other things and knows there are other things to do.....but favorite is movies.
What does this mean and is there a cure? LOL

2006-10-12 03:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

I want you to decide, I want you so much!!!

Even if the answer is no, please tell me

2006-10-12 03:47:02 · 21 answers · asked by GATTI S 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my fiancee haven't been intimate in about two going on three weeks. I have talked to him telling him how much I miss him and so on. He seems to think that it's funny, but I don't. we have gone from every day to now none existent. I told him I think he's playing a mind game. I also said that I want intimacy from him and today will be the last day that I approach him on that subject. I was going to get it from somebody if not him. was I out of line? I'm getting frustrated

2006-10-12 03:47:02 · 17 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 03:45:40 · 9 answers · asked by anne615 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 18 years. For the last 2 years my marriage has gone down the tubes. Last year he pushed my daughter (she's 15) in a arguement and tried to hit her over a stupid cell battery. I had to get in between them to get them to calm down. She hasn't forgotten that day. Now just last week him and my son (he's 12) got in an arguement and he hit my son on the shoulder and left a big bruise. I was at work at the time. Every since this has been going on, my love for him has vanished. I am not attracted to him anymore. Now my son tells my daughter he's scared. Should I just tell my husband I can't deal with this anymore, we have to go? I care for him but I don't love him.

2006-10-12 03:45:23 · 15 answers · asked by marebear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the thing...I luv to kiss. And, they guy I'm going out with is {yummy}! I've been daydreaming about him ALL week! It is our first date and I need some input on kissing on the first date. MEN...is it okay, do you like that? WOMEN...what do you think...have you, would you or ...omg...PLZ...help me out here?!?!

2006-10-12 03:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by Q... 1 in Singles & Dating

For those of you that celebrate Christmas, I was just wondering, do you find yourself spending more on your bf/gf/crush during that particular holiday, than you do on their birthdays or Valentines Day?

2006-10-12 03:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

what should I do? Im happy in my marrriage, but I always think about the younger one when I should not....

2006-10-12 03:43:50 · 15 answers · asked by whatever2006 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i met a bout a two weeks ago, called to congratulate me on my new job. n i asked her if shed wanna go out some time, she said yes. why now, after i asked her a couple of times before. i stopped calling her, now shes the one calling me. when i was trying to clue her in she wasnt interested...why the sudden change...

2006-10-12 03:43:37 · 14 answers · asked by ikthes 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm living in a small town called Hattorf Am Harz in Germany. I am currently working as an au pair and wanting to find other au pair friends and english speaking people. Listening and trying to speak German all day can become stressful and it would be nice to have english outlets. Hopefully there is someone near by, to chat, hang out, shop, travel...anything that friends would do!

2006-10-12 03:42:51 · 1 answers · asked by Jacqueline P 1 in Friends

i mean, i've known this boy since last year in 8th grade, and i kinda had crushes on him. But i had never considered him as anything more than just a classmate, not even a friend because we hardly talked. But then this year in 9th grade i took guts and said hi and tried to be fun and comfortable to be with. then his reponse was totally unexpected--i found him staring at me several times, and he tries to talk to me by asking some unnecessary things like did i hand in my homework and stuff. EVERYDAY?! So i'm really confused and worried about what he's thinking right now. Is he really into me? or is he just using or fooling me?!?!?

2006-10-12 03:42:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday, 10/10/06 was my first doctor's visit. I am 7 weeks based on my first day of my last period, which was 8/15/06. My OB did a virginal sonogram and no fetus was found. The sac was there alone. My OB also told me that the sac is too low in the uterus and this may not be a good pregnancy. Is it possible that I am early, and my conception was in September, and not in August and I’m 1 month along the way. Should I worry? Please advise! My OB did a pap smear and a pregnancy blood test. I have to visit him next Tuesday

2006-10-12 03:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by atirus 1 in Family

I am just wondering. My gf works like a mad woman so I don't want to push the issue too much b/c I know she's tired aometimes, but still...she works mornings and I work nights. Not the most compatible schedule.

Just want to know if there's any way to get her fired up instantly? It just gets a little monotonous seeing each other for about 30 minutes at night before one of us falls asleep. Just looking for a little spice up, you know?

2006-10-12 03:41:16 · 14 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Or is there always a reason and I should really find out what as opposed to just going with the flow?

2006-10-12 03:41:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets assume this is a phone conversation

2006-10-12 03:41:01 · 6 answers · asked by Timothy X 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey!! I just recently (3 months ago) met this gorgeous girl and we started dating (2 months ago) and things were great. Inbetween the 2 months she told me that she had just broken up with a previous bf (which is a rule of mine: Never date a girl that has been single for less than a year) in the same month that I met her but I kept walking on dangerous ground. So a few days ago she hasn't been texting me like usual and she told me that the break up of her relationship just finally sunk in and now she is like a crying mess. She told me that she wants space but she doesn't wanna break up with me, but she only wants to see me once a month.......her b-day is on the 13th and mine is on the 17th and how will I get to enjoy those days with her if she doesn't want me around her..........everything was all cool, we kissed made out a little then the next day her sadness sets in, I don't get it..............what do you think?

2006-10-12 03:40:32 · 6 answers · asked by M.A.T. 4 in Singles & Dating

ok, I finally figured out what I wanna do with my life... woohoo!!
But I dont exactly know what its called, lol.
I would like to create and implement programs to help the less fortunate, I would like to fight for issues in pooer countries and create programs that would help, I would like to also be that person that speaks about African American issues, our history, and our culture in different venues. would that be something in the government? if so, whats the name? (p.s. I put the ques. in this section cause I couldnt find a category, people are always in this section)
Thanks

2006-10-12 03:40:07 · 10 answers · asked by Capricorn82 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I had a friend with benefits. He is going through a divorce, and we started out as nothing serious. Then he said that he sensed that I wanted more so he broke things off. I DO want more, but not until he is ready. And I made that perfectly clear from the beginning.

So, now we are friends again. But, closer friends than we were to begin with. I know he still loves his ex (she left him) and he admitted to me that he pushed me away for his own good and that he is scared.

It takes a lot for a guy to admit that to a girl, I know that.

I have told him that I want to date other guys, and he said "that is fine as long as he knows that we are friends, and I will be coming around."

I asked him only once if he feels anything, he says "no, we are just friends."

He did bring his little girl over to my house recently to meet me though.

Now, I have another guy that I am casually seeing, and he doesn't seem jealous. Then again, I'm a girl. Sometimes I wish he would just give me a sign or flirt with me. But he says that he thinks that would be leading me on.

I know he's not ready for a relationship. And I am still friends with him regardless of what happens.

So, I need opinions, do you think if I continue to be patient and understanding toward him that he might give me a chance?

or do you think he is keeping me in radar but doing everything (like his daughter) on his own terms?

or do you think anything other than friendship with him (even in the future) would be a lost cause?

2006-10-12 03:40:02 · 7 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I foolishly got drawn into the whole world of internet chat rooms and began sharing my fantasies with people online. I then (stupidly)arranged to meet someone & had sexual contact with them.This was about 2 yrs ago. I had already been with my gf for about 2 yrs at this time. By this time we were sharing a house together (which is where the stupid deed took place)
I took advice & decided not to tell her cos she would never find out & telling her would only hurt her. Except 9 mths ago she did find out. I foolishly denied it, until finally admitting it 3 mths ago. She then checked & found that I had still been using chat rooms & kicked me out of the house that we had bought together.
It was a stupid & hurtful thing to do, & I realise the bond of trust we had has been shattered & may never be rebuilt, though I did and still do love her & would like to try to rebuild our relationship.
My question is what can I do to help ease her pain & sufferring that she is undoubtedly going through?

2006-10-12 03:39:53 · 22 answers · asked by A fool & his gf are soon parted 1 in Singles & Dating