2006-10-12 03:45:40 · 9 answers · asked by anne615 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good question. When we get depressed, us guys will hibernate in our cave. Society has told us our whole life to "suck it up," "don't be a woman" and "what are you a cry baby?"
So we go off alone to lick our wounds. The best thing you can do is listen. Depending on his emotional awareness and state of denial,
you might be able to hug and hold him.
Other times the physical act of making love will be a temporary balm. But overall, I think just being available & listening is the best. Sometimes just giving someone space is the answer.
The worst is to pressure the guy, give him a deadline or dress up sexy as a surprise. That only works in the movies; after getting beat up at work or drubbed by life, most guys need alone time to mull things over.
However mailing him a card, dropping off a flower and/or just calling can be enough. Realize it might take several days or even a week for a guy to come out of his cave. At that point we are more approachable to conversation.
Good luck!
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2016-12-16 06:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is find out what he is depressed about. Then... look to removing the source of depression.
2006-10-12 03:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do, well what i would do (if i cared about them enough) would be to cook them their favourite meal as a surprise and wear something sexy under what your wearing, maybe run them a bath after eating and then surprise them by getting in :) xxx
2006-10-12 03:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're a therapist all you can do is suggest he see one. Also be careful depressed people can do irrational stuff. I'd be afraid of him.
2006-10-12 03:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook his favorite dish/Massage his neck and feet/give him a big hug and a kiss!
2006-10-12 03:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Geraldine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, unless he asks for help.
2006-10-12 03:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a BJ
2006-10-12 03:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him and try to be understanding
2006-10-12 03:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋