Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

Im like what u were thinkging of me?? Why ??
What do u think? Is this a check up game or is he rethinking things?

2006-10-12 04:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it will catch her by suprise but may spice up our sex life.

Any other ideas will also be welcomed.

Thanks

2006-10-12 04:35:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 04:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by thiagomateng 1 in Friends

First of all let me start with the fact that we do not have children, just yet. We are working on having kids and currently we both work full-time office jobs. We finally realized the other day that we want me (the wife) to start to stay at home. There are many reasons behind this but I won't go into it now.

I will be working on getting my cake business up and running so that I may provide a second income. We really want this to happen soon because we know that we have been pushing it off for too long. So I am asking for suggestions or tips from others who have experienced this before.

To give you a glimpse of our financial situation: My husband’s finances will cover our bills (if we sell one of our cars) with $50 to spare at the end of the month. In the bills I'm including groceries, gas, etc.

I do plan on working a couple temp jobs, like 5-10 /month to bring in extra cash until the cake business really picks up.

I would really appreciate to hear from everyone! :o)

2006-10-12 04:34:56 · 22 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what are some things that people do that immediatley makes you like them and whats the best way to charm you?

2006-10-12 04:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He lost the old one and I know he loved it, so I thought this would be nice. Also, at least one game and and maybe an outfit. My budget will allow this, but do you think I am spending too much? This should all come to around $250.

2006-10-12 04:34:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 4+ years; we have one child together and three stepchildren between us. For the most part we get along, however, our relationship is very surface level… almost like roommates. He is a very hard worker in order to support his family… putting in an average of 60+ hours a week. His hours at work are usually 9am until 9pm or later making family time nearly impossible. Weekends are packed with all the things that he is not able to do during the week due to his work schedule: golfing is a huge pastime, fishing, work on his truck… the other spare minutes are spent drinking beer or sleeping. His relationship with the kids consists of telling them what to do or goodnight.
I also work a fulltime position that may not be as strenuous as his, however, is still very challenging. I am also the main partner in charge of the house – cleaning, maintaining, groceries, cooking, taxi for the kids, paying all the bills, maintaining a budget and financial planning. I attend all school related functions for our children by myself. Most weekends I am alone with the kids while he is in his own world.
For some time now I have tried to open a line of communication like we once had. Wanting to talk with him about plans, the kids, my feelings etc. Wanting to spend quality time with him talking and sharing – yes it sounds corny but isn’t he supposed to be my best friend?
His brother also lives with us and has for two years now- another huge strain on our relationship. The brother does not work nor does he contribute in anyway to the family – financially or physically. I am at wits end and have been promised for a year now that this would be rectified. He is still there and nothing has ever been discussed with him.
Recently my spouse and I were in an argument about all of the above and his response to me was – why can’t we be married and me just not communicate with you? I explained that marriage doesn’t work that way and he states its just because its not ‘my way’.
I am so frustrated because I do love this man, so do my children. But at the same time I hate feeling so alone in a relationship… what do I do???

2006-10-12 04:34:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he will like stare at me in he will start a convesation with me in he would get really close to me tell me what that means in i dont want nobody tell some lies im being serious if you know in you are erious write me back

2006-10-12 04:33:58 · 22 answers · asked by michelle_flame_blue 2 in Friends

Okay, i'm already failing my economics class, and stupidly i forgot to study last night for our test today. so i had the brilliant idea of skipping it so that i could take it on a later date. unfortunately for me, that plan got totally messed up and i ended up getting sent back to class to take the test i am TOTALLY NOT PREPARED FOR.

i took it, and i definatly bombed it but at the end were two essays, 10 points each. i purposely "didn't finish them" so that i could come back and re-do them, and possibly get the extra ten points. but that plan failed on me too! i'm supposed to go back to class at 1130 and retake these stupid essays, and i can't possibly study enough IN AN HOUR to make a good grade on them.

so, what should I do? try and study and go do them?
or blow them off and just get zeros on them???


HELP!!! :[

2006-10-12 04:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by el camino 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

spankins don't work and time out doesn't work

2006-10-12 04:33:39 · 6 answers · asked by Jammie J 2 in Family

using one of those services and HE ALWAYS HAS BIG SMILE ON HIS FACE EVERYDAY. How do you feel about them.

2006-10-12 04:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 04:31:23 · 11 answers · asked by follow the yellow brick road:P 3 in Friends

would feel too guilty to divorce and are afraid to kill yourself since you will go to hell if you do?

2006-10-12 04:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in ghana. in west africa. its 15:25 and i'm alone at home.i live in accra and i'm in senior secondary school form2(or high school 10th or 11th grade. not sure)where is everyone else, what are you doing(apart from staring at the computer)and........ you know a bit more about where you live.i love to learn about other cutures so a little advice will also be accepted. thanks for answering.

2006-10-12 04:30:47 · 26 answers · asked by shaq 2 in Friends

i love his family and he loves mine. His family loves me, and mine loves him! Plus our families get along GREAT! I LOVE HIM! oh yea.... im only 17

2006-10-12 04:30:24 · 22 answers · asked by Jessi S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My stepkids liked me for about 5 years when they were young. Then father took us to court and lost. Last 2 years he has spent trying to convince them how terrible I am. According to him if we buy them something nice we are trying to buy them. If we don't buy them what they want we are punishing them for choosing him over me. 16 yr girl used to love me, won't even speak to me now. Never really got close to boy. 12 year stepdaughter adores me. I just love her, that's all. I used to always support the kids. I would ask them if they had called him lately. I would ask if they wanted extra time with him, etc... Not any more. Wife wants me to go out of my way to try and win them back. I am tired of the game. She is trying to force me on them. They are the ones that pushed me away. I am refusing and she is very angry that I don't do what I am told. She won't go to them and ask them to be nice to me. I am supposed to make all the effort and I refuse. Can't I just avoid them.

2006-10-12 04:30:02 · 10 answers · asked by TK 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's this guy that I really like, we only talk on the phone nothing else and I am falling in love with but the catch is I am married.

2006-10-12 04:29:16 · 19 answers · asked by badaries 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you make a good boyfriend??? tell me why or why not... and i really dont want to hear how sexy you are or what a great lover you can be...i want real answers!

2006-10-12 04:29:13 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs. Marchand 1 in Singles & Dating

if you do ........ do you think we need T.O IN ORDER TO WIN

2006-10-12 04:29:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?
Also, when she isn't messing like this, she is more serious to me than others, she tells me if she is feeling bad.

Another thing related to mthis is that when we are around friends, she does this and we playfully mock each other, but when we are alone she is more sincere with me.
All of theis is playfull, she is fairly petite, so its not as if she could do me any damage.

I do like her back, alot.

2006-10-12 04:29:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like she says shell call back in 5-10 mins but she forgets.

the next day i called to say i waited for her to call back when i fell asleep. she was like soo sorry about it.

2006-10-12 04:29:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-12 04:28:24 · 36 answers · asked by hawleywood55 1 in Weddings

Has a guy rounded the bases and gotten to home plate?

2006-10-12 04:26:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was invited over to my co worker Jackies house and she has a big hot tub and it was basically her, co workers Laura and Tiffany. We actually are all just good friends and colleagues but this time the happy hour took a weird turn. Laura, Jackie, and Tiffany all wanted to go into the hot tub and they had their suits with them and I didn't. So, I respectfully declined but Jackie said just go nude and it wasnt a big deal. So after twisting my arm by all the ladies (yes we were drinking) I took off all my clothes and the second I got nude, I felt really weird because there I stood there about an inch and I felt as if it was six eyes just ogling at me before I got in the hot tub trying their best not to laugh at it. But while we were in the tub, I felt weird the entire time being naked. No sexual contact took place but as a guy, I did get an erection and it wouldnt come down. When we all got out, there I was with a 3.5 inch erection and then giggles came. Did I make a mistake?

2006-10-12 04:26:10 · 7 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Friends

Today is the birthday of a girl that my boyfriend has cheated me with a saw it in the newspaper and now I feel hate, hurt I want to cry I don't want to feel this way I want to be able to see her or her pic and still feel secure about myself cause sometimes when I see her I feel stupid like I'm not worthed cause otherwise my boyfriend did not cheat on me I feel as if I'm nothing and a nobody it hurt Please help I'm getting depressed and that is not good :(

2006-10-12 04:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

To anyone adopted.
Hey! i was adopted when very young and i'm soon going to meet my natural mum. Any advice from someone who's done the same? i'd love to hear about it. Also, i'm really curious to know if i am like her in any way. Did you find you shared anything with your natural parents such as likes and dislikes?

2006-10-12 04:24:38 · 5 answers · asked by sfuiio y 1 in Family

Ok everyone I want to see if you can top this married or otherwise

My most embarrassing moment happened when I was 18 there was a party at my neighbors house all the family was across the street and I took my girlfriend back over to my house for some fun. Well we didn't think anyone would come back over and she was on her knee's doing something . She had just finished with it still in her mouth(she didn't swallow) and my Brother and his wife walked in. My pants down, Her shirt off and her face buried in my lap. good thing my bro and his wife were cool about it. She ran, I covered up best I could with her shirt and My sis in law turned bright red and they went outside for a few mins till we could all compose our selves and they could stop laughing. true story and can you beat that ?

2006-10-12 04:24:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

H is 15 and whats wrong with his hearing?

2006-10-12 04:23:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 04:23:30 · 15 answers · asked by jom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 04:23:01 · 13 answers · asked by krabby 1 in Singles & Dating