Today is the birthday of a girl that my boyfriend has cheated me with a saw it in the newspaper and now I feel hate, hurt I want to cry I don't want to feel this way I want to be able to see her or her pic and still feel secure about myself cause sometimes when I see her I feel stupid like I'm not worthed cause otherwise my boyfriend did not cheat on me I feel as if I'm nothing and a nobody it hurt Please help I'm getting depressed and that is not good :(
2006-10-12 04:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey girl- I am sorry that that guy cheated on you. But please believe me, it is not your fault. He was the idiot. He chose to cheat on you of his own free will. Don't blame yourself!
As time progresses, your heart will mend. It won't be easy, but you will overcome this.
Don't personally try to get revenge- just pray for God to get revenge for you. What comes around goes around. People can't get away with mistreating you.
Please don't become bitter- just be more cautious when you choose to have a new relationship. Talk to the fellow, and find out how he feels about cheating.
I disagree with people who say that 'once a cheater, always a cheater'- that is not always true. We all make mistakes, although that does not excuse our negative choices. Some guys are swine, and they might be the ones that habitually cheat on their women. But believe me, there are good dudes around, too- even though they are hard to find.
2006-10-12 04:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok lets go through this.
1. If you are still with the guy that cheated on you, you need to dump him, because NO MATTER WHAT he said, he will do it again. By dumping him you will alleviate the pain of the thoughts and feelings you associate with this girl he cheated on you with.
2. If you are upset b/c he cheated on you, don't be. It doesn't mean she is any better than you are or that you are any less of a person because he cheated on you with her. It means he is a guy and he used his lower brain rather than his upper brain (common flaw)
3. Read the Local and World section of your local newspaper or go online and look at the news. You see those people starving to death, getting blown up, shot, stabbed, raped, living in the streets, etc., etc., etc.. Do you really think you should be sad, do you think these people would be sad for you? No, b/c no matter what life throws at you, you still have it better than about 90% of the people in the world. However if you spend all your time focusing on the negative you forget the positive, you forget all the good things in your life and you gradually become more and more depressed until you either off yourself, end up in a padded room or are so many meds that you make Farrah Fawcet look like a saint.
So cheer up, the world is what YOU make of it. Every day you waste is a day you never get back. Don't lose it.
2006-10-12 11:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and do something else to get your mind off of her. She's not worth thinking about and there are so many other people out there who are more deserving of your attention.
2006-10-12 11:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by dardekkis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax baby gurl it is going to be ok! There are guy's like me that would never cheat on you.
2006-10-12 11:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nathann S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge always makes me feel better. Drinking and revenge.
2006-10-12 11:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT
2006-10-12 11:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋