It's this guy that I really like, we only talk on the phone nothing else and I am falling in love with but the catch is I am married.
2006-10-12 04:29:16 · 19 answers · asked by badaries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you can love two people at the same time. Most likely you're losing interest in your husband and you found something that's differnet and refreshing in this new guy so ur falling in love with him as well..so it's possible - not healthy, but possible!
2006-10-12 04:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man that must be a hard sitution to be in, I mean i understand, although I am not married, i have never been married, but I have had feelings for two guys at the same time. My best advice is to pick the one who you love the most, the one you know you can depend on to be there for you when you need it. The guy on the phone, i am assuming doesn't live near you, so he can't be there for you in a physical sense. So if i were you I would stay with the one that I am with. Good luck.
2006-10-12 11:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can't fall in-love with someone that you talk on the phone with. That's impossible, and it's crazy!!! To fall in-love with somone involves a connection, and that connection isn't just talking on the phone. You can't be in-love with two people at the same time. That's not possible because if you felt that exact same way about these two men, why would there even be both there in the first place????? If someone is happy and in-love with who their with, they don't feel they need someone else to be in-love with because their already satisfied with who their with. You have issues that you need to deal with. Your husband doesn't deserve you as a wife. He needs to find him someone that's truly going to appreciate him. You are smiling in his face, but at the same time your stabbing him in the back by doing what your doing. You should be ashamed of yourself.
2006-10-12 11:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ma yseem as though you are falling in love with the "phone" guy. However, more than likely you probably aren't! What it seems like to me is there is something wrong or missing in your marriage. You are unhappy and seek attention, etc.. from somebody who is willing and read to give it to you! Basically you are using him to fill a void! All that glitters is NOT gold! Just remember-don't do anything drastic, Just really sit back and re-evaluate your current relationship. Make a list of pros and cons concerning both men. Personally, I would much rather work out the rough spots in my marriage spending time and energy on that as opposed to starting over on false pretenses!
2006-10-12 11:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by PBnJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is you are married. If you ever decide that the grass is greener on the other side, do everyone involved a favor and get a divorce. Don't ever try to cheat, and if you come to the point that you are thinking about it ask yourself how you would feel and what you would do if it were your husband cheating. I think that you know exactly what you want to do if you see your marriage as a "catch".
2006-10-12 11:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_b81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very possible and very confusing and very selfish and stressful and brings out emotions i cant even begin to explain. i f you really love your husband and especially if you might have children STOP talking to this man and run to a marriage counselor talk to your husband about what you are getting out of this phone conversation that you are not getting from your husband. if you are even thinking about falling in love with someone else I'm gonna guess things aren't 100% at home so you need to sit down and realize that you are setting up for one of these two ppl that you say you love to get hurt and that is not what love is about
2006-10-12 11:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by rachelhaggerty82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely believe that you only have one true love in your lifetime. If you are talking or chatting with other men I doubt that you are truly in love with your husband. That being said, I think you are playing with fire. Unless your husband is okay with you talking to other men or etc.. you better be very careful. You could end up losing your hubby, and you don't know if this other man would be there for you. If you really want your marriage to work. I think you need to stop talking to the other man.
2006-10-12 11:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be BUT you have made a life long commitment to your husband to honor and cherish him till death do you part. Just stick it out girlie you will be ok. Just work through this and make things work for you in your marriage. I know you can do this. As women we are much stronger than we know. Hang in there. Just remember you are married and have a husband.
2006-10-12 11:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some soul searching on this one. The grass may not be greener on the other side.
2006-10-12 11:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheater.
2006-10-12 11:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋